Sag Male+Cap Female=trouble?

Hi.. I had an internet relationship for 5 months with a Sag male (I'm a Cap) and we connected very well. Eventually we met and the chemistry was va-va-voom! Anyway, a few weeks ago I visited him at his home and well, things got awry. We had a great Sunday amd then on Monday while he was at work I went looking for a book from his collection to read. I happened upon his childhood photo album and other photos. Not only that but shoeboxes of mail from girls the world over it seemed... must have had a penpal thing going for years which he failed to tell me... and some very provocative photos of one girl taken at his home to boot. Well, knowing how he hated confrontation I said nothing but left a few 'evidences' in discreet places that he would find after I left. When he returned home from work, he was as cold as ice toward me. Not knowing what to think of it, I left him alone (he cited a 'headache' as the cause). I returned home the next day.

Well, got a call from him stating that I was going to jail- apparently he had surveillance cams in his house and now have tapes of me in my sleuthing act. Well, I apologized, said I got carried away (which was true) and was no criminal. In any case, he refuses contact at all with me now. Granted what I did was wrong, but geez... spying on me..lying to me... plus all those letters/photos which he conveniently forgot to mention? I also know he's still seeking women via the dating sites he's registered with. I know because I placed a trap by inventing and submitting a profile of some unknown chick (with photo from a magazine) to which he has responded.

Obviously all trust has been lost here, hence relationship's lost as well. Yet we Caps do try to do all to make things right. I can forgive him, but seriously, is there any hope left here? Do Sag males ever forgive or do they sever ties eternally?

shellie:
i'm a cap and i truly understand the trait of trying to work things out, and to find the good in people, and to believe in hanging in there, but this guy has issues i don't think i would stick around to deal with. if the need is great in you to stay, as with all caps, try friendship first, and see if you might be able to understand his paranoia (the cam thing). explain your need for knowledge about him. snooping is really a common thing when first meeting someone, but don't put yourself in harms way. this guy threatened you with jail. that's pretty heavy. is he really worth that? he might be doing you a favor by not calling you. also, sags and caps....not the best idea for long term romantic compatibility (according to astrology).
most of all, as with all men, don't think you can change him, save him, or make him love only you. this guy is a dog, from what you said. dogs, will be dogs...it's a hard thing for a capricorn to understand sometimes, we focus on the fun, or the romance, but not on the facts. take care of yourself, be safe. know you are worth more.

My two cents worth...
I am a Sag male Dec. 15 -
I guess there are some things best left alone. That to me (and probably to him) was likely construed as an invasion of personal privacy. Your sleuthing antics only made matters worse. Perhaps you should have done a little more research on us Sag's. Toying with our intellect is a sure fire way to render a relationship null and void - perhaps you learned a valuable lesson here! In answer to your question, it depends on the severity of the situation, why did you not just come forth with the pictures - sure were a little stubborn when it comes to confrontation, but we've likely been through alot worse(rest assured we can handle it). The second respondent's reply troubles me and I refuse to stoop to that level of idiocy, but may the Sag gods have mercy on your soul. Moron/Moroness. (Which ever applies to you).