Sag man/ Cancer woman

Hi all I'm new here! I'm a cancer woman and have been dating a sag man for 8 months. The first two months were orgasmic!! We going on dates everyday, long multiple phone calls/text everyday, etc... Then 3 months hit and he started acting a lil distant. He states because of his finances. Even though we still talked/text multiple times a day daily. There wasn't a day I didn't hear from my sag. But the actual dates/quality time ceased. I would see him maybe once every 3 weeks. And sex I def wasn't getting. Even though he told me I had the best "cookie" he has ever had.

Fast fwd to last week. Still no dates/sex but constant daily calls/text. I start getting a lil insecure so I started asking "was there someone else/are u cheating on me?" He finally got tired if the accusations and kept telling me he is trying to get his $ $ up/right again. So he kind of broke it off with me. I say kind of because he told me he didn't want to make anything final right now because we have a bond with each other and are really close. He just needs a break right now. He doesn't want or need any extra stress or drama. I am devastated. But I kind I blame myself.

Here is where the confusion comes in as I begin to mentally cut my ties (which is extremely hard for a cancer. We hold on or dear life and try to fix the problem) he throws me for a loop and gives me some $ $ to hold or him. It's his "emergency/just in case" stash. He did this before when I first met him. Have me a few k's to hold for him. As his personal stash/emergency $ $ . When times got hard or him, he asked for his emergency stash. Now he gave me more $ to hold, but he just broke it off with me. Wth the hell does that mean?!? Trust me? Keep me near? What?

He doesn't call as much or text. But when I call or text he always answers/responds. I'm really confused. I know sag's are usually brutally honest. So I question if he is being upfront with me or is something else going on. He has alooooot of trust issues and with women in general. I tried my best to show him I'm different. He even mentioned I was different than most of the women he dates. I can tell he genuinely likes me. If I need anything all I had to do was call and be was there. Like a knight in shining armor.

Anyway is he done with me for good or is he just needing some space to regroup. I don't want to loose him. Our friendship is tight.

anyone—

my bday is 7/8/79 and his is 12/9/68

Posted by cancerboo
his is 12/9/68

Moon - Leo
Mercury - Sag
Venus - Capricorn or Aqua
Mars - Libra

Hmm. Leo moon may make one extravagant. Perhaps he has you hold the money so he won't spend it? Is there a reason he doesn't put it in the bank? 😛

Libra Mars is weird. I've heard that it prevents people not put in too much effort in certain aspects of their lives, or could
make one a bit wishy-washy.

When we first start dating marriage is what he wanted. Told me he was courting me to be his wife.

He has contacted me last night via text. A very weird text at 1a! Smh I think he Is playing games. Not cool. I thought sag's were upfront and honest?

He has me hold the $ $ has an emergency stash for him. I guess yea so he won't spend it.

I will say this I was def getting bored. How can one not be if your not getting quality time?!? So he might have been feeling the same. Which doesn't make sense to me. He is/ was the reason why weren't spending anytime. Ugh

How much attention does a Sag male need? 🙂

Ok, I see you're in one of those kinds of relationships where the person has the upper hand. I hate seeing that. I was there once; I know what you're talking about. Don't let this guy get the best of you. Be strong, be confident. Let's give him some breathing room. Read below and see what I'm talking about:

The thermostat - the ultimate barometer of your R

With respect to his actions when he is cool, consider reading His Needs and figuring your love languages. It may help you better keep each other engaged. But back off, give him some space. When he's ready he??ll call.

Keep yourself busy with your life and interest. I did, I wrote a screenplay.

Or read up on

Lunar maiden are u being sarcastic?

Wow static what a reality check.

I feel even worse. My intuition kept telling me he probably was playing games with me. But something kept me there. Smh. I feel so stupid.

Muffdivingvirgo. He has contact me via text sat. I responded we had a light text convo. I tried calling yesterday. No answer. I text him he responds, told him to just call me later. He finally returns my call at like 12 midnight. I didn't pick up and not returning the call.

I really don't want to hate this man. I really don't. You just don treat people like this

Posted by cancerboo
Lunar maiden are u being sarcastic?

No, I have a date with one soon.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by cancerboo
Lunar maiden are u being sarcastic?

No, I have a date with one soon.

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good luck! they are one of a kind I will say that.