I met a sag man back in July through a mutual friend. He was very persistent and told me he wouldn’t stop until he got me. I warned him that it might not be the best idea for us to be together because I lived 6 hours away and was just visiting but he pursued me full force until I said yes. I ended up going down to see him every two weeks for the weekends and when we were together he made me feel like no man ever has. He introduced me to all his friends, spent a lot of money on me, always wanted to be close and affectionate at all times. Talked about having children and marriage all the time with me. The last time I was there he told me that he loved me over and over again and said he only wanted to make love to me. All of this scared me but I went with it. After I came home he started acting very different and distant eventually he told me he was scared I was going to turn out like his ex and that he needed space. Then a few days later our mutual friend asked me what was going on and I said I didn’t know. A few minuets later I got a text from him saying we should just be friends because he is a mess rn. He told me he wanted me in his life and hoped we could still be friends after I did not respond to his previous messages. He texted me a couple days later like everything was fine. Then he requested I send him money but I thought it was a joke so I asked him what it was and deined it. He left me on seen and has not spoken to me since. He unfollowed me on a few social media but has kept me on one and I always see post geared towards when I asked him if he was seeing someone else. Any opinions—?? I miss him terribly but don’t want to scare him away forever??!!
