saggie girl and cancer guy....help.....!

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seaclovers
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ok... sooo, i think ive read it all, about how terrible it would be if a saggie and cancer hooked up. apparently its never good...
ive started to like this cancer guy at my work... and apparently hes told one of my coworkers that he likes me too...(hahah this sounds so junvenile!)
anyways...-> 🙂
thing is, ive heard so many bad things about us being with cancers, and yet i know 3 couples who are of this combo and they've all been together for a long time.

makes me wonder....
why is it they say its so bad, and yet i know more of these couples who are still together and are relativly happy/ in love, that contradicts what ive read—
im curious..
can anyone help—
i really am attracted to this cancer guy and would love to pursue something, if its reciprocated...
and by the way ive dated:
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aries-> really selfish..love his personality and humor, but...selfish!!!!

taurus-> nope dont know

gemini-> hated him, was in love w/him, he acted one way one day then the next its like i never existed...HATE HIM!!!

cancer-> who i wanna pursue!!!!

leo-> uhhh.... we had tons in common-> too much actually...annoying

virgo-> he still calls... and were just soo different, yet.. he still calls....

libra-> latest ex, very romantic!!!BUT!, ive never fought with
anyone more than i have with him! i loved him, i still do, but hes really difficult sometimes. always wanting to know everything and what not and all i want is my own personal space to not be invaded all the time.

scorpio-> dont know

saggie-> almost dated one, glad i didnt cause i heard hes a real jerk and he abuses his girlfriends....

capricorn-> wanted to, but... he seems kinda boring

pises-> dont know

aquraius-> was my best friend.i absolutley loved this guy!!!!! with every ounce of me, but he was so umemotional that it bothered me.... that it seemed like i didnt matter to him all that much and he would choose partying over me....but i love him!


hum..... maybe im just picky... but tell me what you guys think!!!!! im soooooo confused and i honestly dont want his sign to be the sole judgement of who he is as a person and if we would mesh well...
soooo...—??
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seaclovers
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wow both are you are completely right!!! in the end i dont think it really matteres!
i mean when i was young i NEVER would judge a person on what their sign was, mainly cause i was oblivious to it, but it never phased me on that its because of their sign is what makes them that way.
i now believe that likebrad said, there are alot of other factors including upbringing and homelife that can make a person. and for aces_high9, i definitly agree, if we like each other, than thats all that matters right—
oh man.. thanks guys sooo much!!!!!!
i think i over think these things just a tad.. ahhaa maybe reassurance is really all i need. 🙂
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I am a cancer gal that was married to a sagi man for 14 years. At the beginning the relationship went extremely well. We closed down restaurants after talking for HOURS, the works. Unfortunately as time went by the relationship became short of dysfunctional. Cancers are unable to handle sagi's strong personality and lack of tact. As time went on, my sagi ex began to ENJOY seeing me upset and hurt over his rudeness and sarcasm toward me. Instead of realizing I was *hurting* and applying common sense and making an effort in coming to a happy medium the relationship because dysfunctional and (sigh...) very abusive. He ended up using me as his outlet for all of the frustrations in his life (work, university, etc). I eventually "woke up" and finally ended the marriage after spending years in a sad cycle of always trying to please him...

So yes, there is a great deal of play other than just sun sign compatibility, but when you add to that a dysfunctional upbringing, you've got problems. Major ones. I've met more than one hot Sagi (they ARE soo charming) and I've ran for my LIFE. Now I'm dating a Scorpio and I'm in heaven!
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I am with a cancer and it has its blissful moments and nightmares but the only major problem was he could make me lose my temper faster than anyone or thing infact we literally drive each other crazy. Funny thing is when we fight we make up immediately except now cause he broke my heart by sleeping with baby momma, but he had a way of treating me like the only woman in the whole world then be cold as ice.

I can only say explosive lovemaking when in public people will adore you because you seem so happy but as you get into the car he i as cold as ice and trust me you tend to get short tempered all i can say as a fellow sag, keep your heart close to you and that reason thats holding him back will always trust me.
I can honestly still love him and no one can ever love me the way he did cause each day i wake up my pillow is still wet from my private tears but in time i will love again just not a man cause he has all of mine, i miss the way he looked at me like there was no other woman in the world or the way he held me so possesively he was my best friend and foe all at once but he was just the best .
so good luck and enjoy the mystery of the cancerian who keeps you on your toes and wanting more. i however had one problem he was always there i did not get breathing space unless he had to go away which i enjoyed