sagi and scorpio is it just chemistry?

I need opinions...anyone know any sagi and scorpio couples?
Can scorpios commit? or is it just sex?
I?ve been a seeing a scorpio guy and the relationship is based only on one thing...
We are good friends but as lovers there isn?t much. I would love it to be more serious...but his usual excuse is WORK and that he has no time for a relationship.

hate to be blunt....but if I were in your shoes....I would say bye-bye....there's more to life than just sex...and there's alot of fish in the ocean...take care!!

A woman who's had her share of bad exp. with knowing how men can be...I used to be in love with a scorp.....didn't last and he didn't want to commit to more than you are getting...so--hope you find an answer to your situation...!!

an aries woman who knows all too well!!
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I was in a scorpio/sag relationship...i am the sag...
He was really the one that wanted it to be serious...but i did had trouble getting through to him...he was not a very good listener and things were resolved..with ...sex.....
i think we sags need more of a teamrelation..you know..being really good friends and have really good sex...

as far as sag's and scorpio's..a sag will come into your life, but just as quickly will leave again, embraces and all!! they are not meant for one another..look it up..look at all the splits..it dont work, they are one two different wave lenghts..and it doesnt work...its kinda like a puzzle..once you put the pieces together, the picture just isnt as pretty as you may have thought it would be. fire and ice is what it is..if one is on fire, the other is cold as hell..and if one is cold, the other is starting a fire that cant be put out...(sorry to be so negative)--personally have been here..go for a libra, they are great in bed, and are absolutely for us sag's!!

I'm a Libra and I always got along great with Sags. I always liked Sags. They're great talkers and know sure as hell how to entertain. (example: Stephen Spielberg, Oprah Winfrey!)

So definetaly find your self a loving Libra. I think you'll be happy.
Sloane

Orpray Winfrey is actually an Aquarian.And in my opinion the best mate for a sagitarian is an Aquarian--think Brad and Jen.

well you'll all be glad to know, i've been on from my scorpio guy...my current interest-a capricorn...so who knows...
as for Aquarius-sagi...it's a great combo...my longest relationship was with an aquarius...unfortunatly he wasn't as ambitious as I was...

i meant moved on.....

In response to your inquiry, I have only one answer: Scorpios love playing the field. I(being sagittarius) once dated a Scorpio who claimed he wanted to commit to a serious relationship with me, yet at the same time was seeing other women. I think the majority of Scorpions think it's 'ok' to have more than one woman.

I've been with my scorpio for two years now. May 6th is our anniversary. I love his passion and warmth. That's the best thing you can get out of a scorpio. Not all scorpios are players. Most pride in being faithful in their relationships. They are also great listeners. Scorpios love the sagittarius glow. It brightens up their dark world. I think that's what attracts them to us. Also, if you keep him guessing alot, you'll definitely make him want you. Scorpios have to know everything, and if there is a mystery about you, then of course, he'll be more interested. We've been living together for a year and through our ups and downs, we're still together. Happily together. I'm living proof that a scorpio and sagitarius can have a wonderful relationship. Hope this helps.

Does he still let you out of the house?

He He - Just kidding!

Glad to hear you are happy together - my Scorpio was just like yours but then turned possesive and disapproving of anything I did outside of our relationship. Needy!

Surprisingly, I don't have to fight for my freedom. He's accepting =)

Hello there -
Don't know if you will come back to read this or not, but I was the smart-ass who replied to your earlier posting (letting you out of the house). I just wanted to let you know that since my reply, I have fallen deeply and passionately in love with a Scorpio I have known for 3 years. Don't know what happened, but one day a month or so ago, something just went "click" and here we are.
I've forgotten how nice it is to be with someone so interested in love, and who is intense and comfortable expressing their feelings. And the eyes...well there is a whole lot more to this one and (as you can tell) I'm done for!! Time will tell but I was happy to re-read your testimonial. Hope your man is still making you happy & vice-versa : )

I as a Sag woman have always been attracted to the Scorp male (after I find out his sign) for some reason? Unfortunately they are much to "secretive" for this Saggie. I like honesty and a live and let live attitude in a guy. They are also too very possesive and gealous for me!

I AGREE, IF I WERE IN YOUR SHOES I WOULD SAY BYE ALSO , THEY ARE GOOD FOR SEX, THEY DO THAT THE BEST BUT I HAVE ALSO KNOWN THEM TO WORK, WORK, WORK, SO THEY SAY WHO KNOWS I USED TO SEE THIS SCORPIO GUY FOR 6 MOS , HE WAS WITH SOMEONE ELSO NOT SO SERIOUS SO I PRETTY MUCH FIDDLED AROUND WITH HIM UNTIL I ENDED IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE A LIBRA ABOUT 2 YEARS HAD GONE BY AND I HAD SEEN THE SCORPIO AGAIN AND HE WAS TO GET MARRIED TO THIS WOMAN HE HAD NOT BEEN SO SERIOUS WITH ,HE TOLD ME HAD HE KNOWN ALL THE TIME THAT HE FELT THE CHEMISTRY WITH ME HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED ME ,OOOOOOOOHHHH YEAH RIGHT! HE DID GET MARRIED UNFORTUNATELY HE KEPT SHOWING UP AT MY DOOR AND I GAVE IN BESIDE MY MORALS AND WE HAD AWESOME SEX LIKE BETTER THAN EVER OF COURSE BECAUSE IT WAS WRONG , THEN I HAD TO REFRAIN AND I TOLD HIM IF HE WERE MARRIED TO ME I WOULD BE HEART-BROKEN IF HE CHEATED ON ME AND THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN JUST SELF SATISFACTION, SO UNLESS YOUR HEAD STRONG AND AREN'T LOOKING FOR SOMETHING SERIOUS I WOULDN'T MESS WITH A SCORPIO . THEY ALSO TEND TO FABRICATE STORIES A LOT ie. LIE!!!!LIKE A RUG!

Yeah, Scorpios definitely have their shortcomings. A common characteristic is lying and selfishness. And for a sag, that's not easy to accept. I want the relationship to be EQUAL and, of course, I don't want lies. However, to combat this, I lead by example. I'm making my own money...I am the decision-maker...I put in everything in the relationship out of love. With or without him, I'm still strong. I don't depend on him for my happiness or emotional stability. I am honest and share everything with him. Scorpios are secretive, yes. And it's hard for them to acknowledge your side of an argument because they are so fixed. But after recognizing these patterned behaviors, it's easier to predict their next move. You can trust a scorpio to be a scorpio. Any change in their behavior, you'll definitely notice it and wonder 'what the hell is going on?' However, you are NEVER going to be the one to change them. A scorpio is too proud to admit that. You might say I'm crazy for sticking with this guy, yeah I know. But I can't give you a reasoning for this one. He puts up with me too.

I like the way you write, and think you are right on with your assessment of Scorpio (& Sag) behavior. I'm a sag with a Capricorn ascendent & venus, as well as a Taurus moon which I think helps in the compatibility dept. with my Scorpio.
If I can learn to watch my mouth with this one, we might just have a chance!
I can be highly combustible after I think someone's crossed a line.

And you are so right about counting on Scorpios to behave like Scorpios.
I just know that when it comes down to it (and this is what I fear would be the thing to drive us apart) I won't alter/edit my own behavior too much to accommodate someone else's. That would make me feel untrue to myself.


But our love for each other will decide for us I suppose!

I totaly agree, I have been married to a scorpio for 17yrs, he's run around on me the whole time. WE are now seprated and heading for divorce. He wanted it his way always, I had a few affairs (one night stands) and he never got over it, so the running around became wores. He didn't want me but dosen't want anyone else to have me. To bad to sad I'll be glad when its over and I can move on. My advise run,run,run.

I'm an Aries, and I have to agree with you Sagis about Scorpios. I've been reading a lot on their board about how they view relationships, and the common problems are that they are very secretive, but want you to be honest, they like playing games, and there's ALWAYS another woman or man in the picture. The men seem to take on the worst of the traits too.

I don't understand why Sagitarians get the bad rap for being players (not saying there aren't any in this sign) but, they don't seem to be the worst ones. Scorpios seem to be the more dishonest and womanizing of the two.

And I'd agree about Aquarians being better for Sagitarians. Both are freedom lovers and love lots of people all at once. They also like to have a friendship first.

I think, eventhough Geminis are also an air sign, they are opposite of Sagitarians so they will be less compatible.

Er..well im a taurus/gemini and my sag and me are llke soul mates ^__^ we love eachother to pieces! snd we're also thinking about spending our lives together..so..i suggest to not depend on these horoscopes too much o_OLuZ

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like* okay you kno what?!!! LOL screw my eyes!!!!!!! i hate having contacts.. i mean DAMN there was SOMETHING in MY EYE and so i took one contact out and that is WHY i cant type properly..when did i ever anyway? LOL okay well..yeah...

I Luv ya Luz! Your sooooooo CUTE and FUNNY you make me laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess in my case, it's different. I'm sagitarius. I'll get along with a cancer before an aquarius. I've met some crazy, crazy aquarius females. Our friendships never last. They're too controlling. And I don't agree with the male aquarius views. Most don't possess enough empathy.

LOL one of my best guyfriends is an aquarius, hes spontaneous and crazy as me!! o_O but i guess the difference between the ones you knew is that my aquarius friend is caring and has a big heart. Altho--he cant be inconsiderate at times LOL but thats how everyone is at times.LuZ

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I am in a sag- scorp relationship, I have the perfect relationship we do not fight. We love to be copasionate to one another but do not go over board. I am the scorpio and my man is the sag and we are so compatible it is not funny. I think that relationships are based on how well you know ur mate and how mature you are to handle certian situations. I love my man and we make it work. Comunnication is a tool, we have both been used for sex so we waited a long time before we were sexual. But everything is fine in our relationsip and to those that think that it doesnt work, maybe you need to try it and see, communication and being adults about things are the keys to happy relationships.

-Scorpio Woman-

p.s Be willing to compromise to make sure that both accept the outcome so one is not reciving and the other is giving to much.

AMEN

I think that in saying that, everyone in the relationship will be fine.

-Scorpio Woman-

I truly hope so! Sounds like you really love your mate and this is what it is all about!!! Dedication! If the love is there, you can always work it out!!!!

LS/C

Very true- I do love him and I am willing to do what it takes to be with him.

-Scorpio Woman-

I am in a sag/scorpio relationship......

My only advice to anyone is that if you truly love your significant other then you learn to compromise, talk, and communicate. Life and relationships are not easy, they take work and dedication. I LOVE MY SCORPIO FIANCE. SHE IS MY WORLD. But we have grown to love and listen to each others feelings. NOTHING IN THE WORLD CAN BE BASED ON SEX. IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY. TRUST ME I HAVE FIRST HAND KNOWLEDGE. - MarineSag

very very true,


-Scorpio Woman-

MarineSag,

Very sound wisdom!!!! Relationships do take effort, and they are worth every precious ounce. Whatever you put inot it will be returned and much more!

Good Luck to you both and much love and happiness! I am excited for you both!!!

LS/C

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!

I dont know if anyone will read this, but i totally agree with the title. It is just chemistry, im a sag girl and i was about to get involved with a scorp guy. he seemed sweet and all, but i also noticed where his eyes went, when we were out. he would check out lots of other girls, so i thought if he is doing that infront of me what does he do behind my back—?? considering we live two hours apart, so i just snobbed him off ignored his phonecalls! if it isnt true commitment what is the point?

lol...Im a scorp with moon in Sag...The way i always feel in relationships is like a tug and pull with my own self...i want the person and all but once i get into it i do not want to lose my freedom so i freak out, find an excuse and run aways! lol

I can say that from a previous experience...a Sag was attracted to me intensely and it freaked me out...he was going way too fast...when i first gave him my phone number, he called me 2 hours later to ask me to do something the same evening and when i said that i already had plans he asked me for the day after...anyways...i did go on a date with him but that was it he was way too intense for me....so i ran away

I'm a Sag Sun, Libra moon, Sag rising. Birthday is December 21st so you could call me a Sag/Cap cusp with more Sag tendencies....I happen to mesh very well on a friend level with Scorps and I have many friends that are Scorpions and all are male with the exception of 1. Our conversations can go any where from deep to totally outlandish, I've noticed with them I can talk about ANYTHING and be myself totally! As far as sex goes, I've had sex with 2 Scorpios, one was so-so ( very good friend) the other was amazing but it wasn't an emotional type connection, it was just sex with someone I bonded with on an itellectual level which made the sex even better...In my experience, friendship with Scorps is great male and female...but as far as relationships go, nope, would never do it...

Might I add too that the Scorpio friend that I had sex with once, things between us didn't change at all....we still to this day remain very good friends....

ScorpSage, those Sagittarius men LOVE us Scorpio women, don't they?! I get hit on all the time by Sagittarians but I don't think I could be in a relationship with one! They talk about Scorpio men being players but I beg to differ! Sagittarian men would not commit if it was the last thing in the world! They are notorious players but they seem to be very attracted to us Scorpio girls.