@deelia
11 Years
Sagittarian ex boyfriend.
I don't know why he declined.
Maybe he does not want to shake his current relationship?
Maybe he has a unwritten/unspoken rules about handling past relationships?
Maybe he has little time?
Maybe his gf said it so?
It's better you accept it.
Your saying "how can I get him to change his mind" reminds me of Awkward, the series. There one girl (sagittarius in real life) was so happy that she can have an ex-gf-ex-bf-blabla-bff quartet.
Are you both still going to school?
I doubt People over 25-27-29 would still want to put so much effort into friendship with ex.
I know I wanted sometimes in order to have prestigious friends. But somewhere along the line I lost it.
I want to talk to him because I don't want to make the same mistakes with this new guy, but in order to do that I need to find out what I do me last time. Because he left without explanation. I also emailed him.my number and he hasn't replied yet. I'm 22 and he's 23
Posted by deelia
I want to talk to him because I don't want to make the same mistakes with this new guy, but in order to do that I need to find out what I do me last time. Because he left without explanation. I also emailed him.my number and he hasn't replied yet. I'm 22 and he's 23
But there is not such a thing like mistakes.
And people are different. What is not good for A may be fabolous to B.
Don't try to lean from the so-called mistaktes. Be always you. Life is random. If you keep being you, you may have success at the right time at the right place.
Is your new bf even a Sagittarius?
If a girl commits FWB at the age of 22, I am not sure if there is any hope for her until she gets older than 45.
Either your generation is really deranged.
Or you do look ugly ^3.
Or you are a masochist.
But I guess the first is true. Your Generation is f.ed up. Why should a Young man with 23 try FWB? From 12 to 30, they are the years when traditionally people were innocent and naive. They were looking for immortal love that lead to marriage and children and own house.
FWB was for tired, disappointed People who work too much to forget how f.ed up their lives were.
Now you both come with 22 and 23 and start FWB? Why should you as a young girl give up on the hope to seduce a man who wants to be your man? Brainwashed by media. I bet it was some idiotic movie from Ashton Kutcher or Justin Timberlake.
I'm so mad. somebody make me go away from Keyboard.
With 22 your body is not mature enough to take over your desires. Traditionally women were sex eaters after 30 or somewhat.
Let me tell you something. The Scorpio boy has you wrapped around his finger. He is playing with you. If he is not a psychopat, he is trying to be your bf and have you under his shoes.
And there is nothing you can learn from a Saigttarius ex to use with a Scorpio bf. That'll be like comparing day and night.
Do you see signs of power and authority in yourself as a Taurus?
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I try to remain amicable with exes...but by that I mean: if I run into them I say hi, ask how they are, etc...not meet up for coffee or try to hang out and be friends...
I don't think him not wanting to meet up with you has anything to do with him not being over you. He sounds completely over you actually.
You have both moved on. Why would you feel the need to rehash anything? You don't need to be friends...just be pleasant if you see each other. I'm sure he wishes you the best
Posted by deelia
I want to talk to him because I don't want to make the same mistakes with this new guy, but in order to do that I need to find out what I do me last time. Because he left without explanation. I also emailed him.my number and he hasn't replied yet. I'm 22 and he's 23
What is your sun and moon sign? And what was his too??
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We had a bad break up. Really really bad. His worst break and as well as mine. And that was over 2 years ago. Now I'm over it, he's been in another relationship for about a year now and I'd think he'd be over it but I recently tried contacting him and told him I just recently got into my first relationship since him and wondered if he wanted to have lunch and chat about why we broke up (for closure and learning experiences) and I'd we could be friends and he declined. But why? Or how can I get him to change his mind?