Sagittarius ex now seems boring to me i dont get it

I'm a Taurus and he used to be so interesting to me and I wanted to do everything with him. He broke up with me 4 months ago and completely broke my heart. Then he asked me to be his gf again like a month ago and I am honestly so bored and I don't feel entertained or too important. He's very secure for me and stable which i usually love as a Taurus, but my rising is Aquarius so idk maybe I just don't feel excitement and passion anymore. He talks to me every day and tries to see me a lot and includes me in a lot but I don't know what it is. I am missing the fling I had with a Capricorn, but the cap already knows the sag is my bf again and so i'm sure he wouldn't even give me a chance even though he stopped talking to me first cause he said he didn't want anything serious, yet was very upset by me being with my ex again.

Hahaha I hate being a Taurus. Confused for life because of my Aquarius rising

Is there a way to fix how I feel about the sag? I know how great of a guy he is and I know he loves me but I just feel a lot of resentment and I find myself just no longer satisfied when he used to be my world honestly.

If you no longer have feelings for the Sagittarius, don't string him along just to avoid being alone, truthfully it's not fair to him.

If the Capricorn is the one that you want, talk to him and explain your situation and where you stand with your feelings towards him.

Best wishes

I just feel like I could be happy with him if he put in more effort to win me over. I would talk to the cap but he said he wants nothing serious.

I was dating a November Sag man and fell head over heels for him. Me being a Taurus I told myself I would never date another one and he came along. Things were good but the only issue I had with him is that he was inconsistent. When he mentioned something he wanted or liked, I would surprise him and send it to him. Me when I just wanted flowers or a card, he never sent it. Just kept saying let me be the man and do what I have too. Considering he was from another state he would always tell me I'll send you a plane a ticket or we can meet up in another state and he never came through on his plans and that pissed me off. I felt like after 5 months of us talking he should have his ish together better than he did. I got completely uninterested and bored with that crap and walked away. I would break things off with him and he came running back. I recently ended whatever it was we had going on bc I got tired of the inconsistency. I do miss him bc he grew on me but at what point will a Sag man be more consistent—

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I was dating a November Sag man and fell head over heels for him. Me being a Taurus I told myself I would never date another one and he came along. Things were good but the only issue I had with him is that he was inconsistent. When he mentioned something he wanted or liked, I would surprise him and send it to him. Me when I just wanted flowers or a card, he never sent it. Just kept saying let me be the man and do what I have too. Considering he was from another state he would always tell me I'll send you a plane a ticket or we can meet up in another state and he never came through on his plans and that pissed me off. I felt like after 5 months of us talking he should have his ish together better than he did. I got completely uninterested and bored with that crap and walked away. I would break things off with him and he came running back. I recently ended whatever it was we had going on bc I got tired of the inconsistency. I do miss him bc he grew on me but at what point will a Sag man be more consistent—

They aren't consistent in stability and if you are the typical Taurus female who wants a man with his "ish" together, a sag is not the man, generally speaking...

My sag male friend owns two Italian restaurants, and is a wonderful provider for his two young children but he is currently cheating on his long-term partner (Virgo) with a married aqua (who is currently divorcing her husband)... He is a lovely friend, but obviously his cheating habits spoil him and I have told him so and have spent the last 2 years helping to make a decision..

Taurus females need to keep away from sags. They make good platonic friends.

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John you are right!!! The first one I dated would bring me roses without asking this one just makes excuses. He always put plans together on how he wanted to marry me and have a kid with me but when I seen all those red flags I stopped. I watched my uncle and cousin cheat on the women they loved and still flirted and cheated and that was devastating for me. I fell for him and he told me how he was tired of fighting with me and that I won but he never executed any plans through and that's what did it for me. I got a feeling although I told him to leave me alone and go on with his life, he's going to contact me soon. I'm not waiting around for him just pray he gets it together for the sake of the next woman he meets.

What does it matter? He's your ex.

I don't know why i get such anxiety of being alone because i was single all the way up until i was 20 years old basically and it was horrible for me cause i hate meeting new people and letting them in and trusting them. I have a really hard time with new people because I am an introvert so when I get a lot of guys coming up to me and my friends saying how beautiful i am and how they wanna meet me, i literally dont feel comfortable or interested. And as long as i still care for someone else especially. I miss the part of me that the cap brought out but I also get that i should be single. I am just scared of making a mistake because once my bf and i break up again i know it's done FOR GOOD. I only have 2 close friends that I talk to every day and only 1 I tell everything to. my sag bf is just a good friend and someone to make plans with. I feel like we love each other, there's just no passion or in love feeling. But too scared to let go of someone who I know loves me and I don't even know what to say.