Sagittarius friend with Gemini

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Joannat6
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Hi people! I am a lady Gemini and i have a question! why do Sagittarius prefer to go alone and explore the world even if they (supposed to) have dedicated friends?

They don't care about others commitment?

I did had (not anymore) a Sag male friend, i can say that from the first moment we got along great and we used to do a lot of activities together. We were just friends,not lovers although at some point i did consider this option. And after a couple of moths, whooop, i get the news that he moved from Germany to Philippines!!!! In my opinion,at the end of the world! He did had great perspectives in western Europe and a lot of friends and family near.....and still he didn't care about none. That choice of him disturbed me very much...usually i am talkative and social but i don't make friends easily. I like to travel but i care about people around me as well.

Is this something characteristic to a Sag? to do just what they want?

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Hi i am a sag male funny enough I am with a Gemini woman and I am very very happy she is my soulmate and I am hers the sky is the limit for us and many Sag and Gems .

However us Sagittarius’s like to travel it excites us and it makes us feel alive we like to jump head first into things and think about it after. That being said I totally care about everyone around me and I would only explore with a friend or partner it does really depend on the individual to be honest.

It sounds like to me you really had a great thing going for you two in the end but wasn’t realised at the time my advice to you would be to message him and tell him your honest and true feelings being a Sagittarius he will love that and will think about it and will most likely agree with you good luck 😁
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He did what was right for him, not you. You should still be a friend and can go for a visit anytime you want. What's inconvenient for you, isn't his problem. He has his own life to live. You not being a love interest is even all the more reason, there was nothing holding him back, keeping him anchored.

I don't think much can keep a Sag anchored, other then their immediate family.
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Posted by Joannat6

Hi people! I am a lady Gemini and i have a question! why do Sagittarius prefer to go alone and explore the world even if they (supposed to) have dedicated friends?

They don't care about others commitment?

I did had (not anymore) a Sag male friend, i can say that from the first moment we got along great and we used to do a lot of activities together. We were just friends,not lovers although at some point i did consider this option. And after a couple of moths, whooop, i get the news that he moved from Germany to Philippines!!!! In my opinion,at the end of the world! He did had great perspectives in western Europe and a lot of friends and family near.....and still he didn't care about none. That choice of him disturbed me very much...usually i am talkative and social but i don't make friends easily. I like to travel but i care about people around me as well.

Is this something characteristic to a Sag? to do just what they want?


You've made quite a few leaps in your deductive reasoning.

Saggis are our own best friends. We have friends all over the globe. Our friends are just not regulated to one area.

With traveling and leaving his comfort zone he will find growth, expansion, and evolution that he determined he could get at his old place.

He was brave and left his comfort zone.

You sound a bit salty tha he moved away.

Did you feel that you had ownership of his comings and goings? Did you feel that you should have had a say?
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Yeah, like wow - people are different - just because he's adventurous doesn't mean it's wrong. And being a Sag, well, ok, so that has a little to do with it but he's not like that just because he's a Sag. A lot of people love to travel, move around, etc. Type A personalities. Risk takers. The movers and shakers. Thank God for Them. And apparently he understood that he didn't need your permission to do what he wants to do.
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Posted by Joannat6

Is this something characteristic to a Sag? to do just what they want?


YES. Gemini to Gemini (My moon sign is Sagittarius so I feel I'm qualified to say this lol). YES, they do what they want. He may also feel that he needs to do that to grow. Sagittarius tend take themselves out of their comfort zone to evolve, and gain new perspectives, and better themselves. They don't know how to do evolve themselves without experiencing completely different new things.

But they always come back. It might take years but they ALWAYS come back. After they've learned what they needed. (Mine wants to go to Spain btw, lol)