Sags with Venus in Cappy

Hello again,stags!Bare with me on this one please Lol

Anyone with a Venus in Cappy,please come out and shed some light on me.

I met my Sag in October,I didn't mind him much in the beginning,then we had a big row and didn't speak for 2 months.Then he came out of hiding with the words 'I'm mad at you'.2 months of silence and thats all I get.My reply was just a sad smiley..and then him replying with "i have love for you".Since then he's been very inconsistent but he has sprung the word a few times on me but never "i love u".The part of me that loves him wants to hope that he might suppress some feelings for me.The part of me that is frustrated and impatient wants to just leave it all..we barely see each other or speak to each other anymore.It doesnt look realistic.I dont feel wanted at all.

I guess I'm keeping him on a very long leash.

I don't know how to handle him.He's not your direct blunt chasing type of Sag.He is so controlled I could scream.

controlled, unemotional and can come off cold at times, not the typical sag and if Im not in control I'm thrown for a loop. We think if we lay out exactly how we feel we'll lose the control we have and are vulnerable