Should I or shouldn't I (Leo and French Sagi)

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leojulybaby
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Hi all,
I am a Leo female who just started seeing a French Sagi who will be leaving to go back to France next week. We have spent every day together for the last 2 weeks and get along amazingly well, however I have refused to sleep with him so far.

We like each other but I am wondering if it is a good idea to go all the way before he leaves. He is supposed to come back to do business but I don't want to fall into the category of the brief international fling in the US. For now I have told him that if he comes back and we still like each other we can be intimate but I am wondering if having sex will make us closer or it will just sex only? So far he has respected my decision but I am not sure what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!
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wheelhomies
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it depends on where you're coming from. if you want to have sex with him before he leaves simply for the experience then you should. however if you think that having sex with him will lead to a connection that simply cannot be deteriorated by distance 😉 then you really shouldn't. that is to say if there will be a lot of emotional attachment when he is leaving.
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leojulybaby
@leojulybaby
18 Years

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I am surprised there are people as rude as sagitTAUries on these posts. These posts are meant for people to come for advice not to be insulted. If you have nothing beneficial to say, why even bother posting? If it is an idiotic plan, at least elaborate and say what you mean. There is a reason why this is called a message board...it is meant for people to convey a message not insults.