
roamingfree
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Posted by happykitsune
I never understood a persons need to take a break. Sure I get irritated, very busy, tired of people, but I force myself to stick with it.
Idk, just never understood why someone would take a break unless they were planning to break up. Why not just fix stuff with him still in your life? Or is he always up your ass?
I could see where a mr.nice would do that


Posted by brianafay
😛 on another note...I feel like you just went through this a couple months ago? No?


Posted by roamingfree
he's a good guy. 😢
I'm overwhelmed with stress and very many things that happened recently and he consumes my thoughts, where I should be thinking about other priorities.
I never understood why people need a break at times either. If you are with someone, than you are, regardless... I never did, until now.
I don't like it, but it's the first day where I feel like I can focus on my priorities.





Posted by ReasonPosted by roamingfree
my crappy days are better with him in it.
You are not alone. People readily share their crap with us. We are definitely flattered. Feel so special. In the last 24 hours Gems scored the highest. Keep the competition on.click to expand






Posted by roamingfree
ohh...it's not annoying... it's me being watery that annoys me.... he seems to dig it though.
&
what do you mean "the Sag with Taurus venus"? - waaaaa....what's wrong with him? waaaa....now you got me neurotic 😢

Posted by roamingfree
lol. yeah, I know, we only talked for 20 minutes today, texted a couple times only - we are both busy, I'm here running around with my stuff and he is busy doing Army stuff working 12-15 hour days...we barely have the time. We make time. I think the intensity of this is freaking me out maybe... I like my crappy days with him more than without him - learned that pretty fast... didn't need 24 hours.



Posted by roamingfree
uuuhmm.... sooooo..... that was ok, untill two days ago we had a skype date, I rushed through the whole day to be ready for the evening. I haven't heard from him all day, than after midnight I just sent him a text saying: "good night, i'm going to bed" he replied: "good night" I asked him to call me, he did in a few minutes, I said to him in the least guilt tripping way that he could have let me know that we will not talk that evening and that all I ask for is a text or call next time, and he yelled into the phone: "I'm not dealing with this shit" and hung up.... yay me...I haven't heard from him since. I know he was online through out the day because the iphone app we use gives time stamps to the last visits.
I think it's safe to say we are done.
I don't know how to or why I even should bother to want this or fix this...
:/


Posted by Wynter
That guy's a dick. Good riddance.



Posted by Nights22Posted by happykitsunePosted by Wynter
That guy's a dick. Good riddance.
Agreed, kinda a jerk move.
He could be dealing with a lot right now tho. I say if you really like him make a last attempt at getting him back. Ask if something wrong or what he's been dealing with. I can't speak for all sags, but these last few weeks have been rough for me. He could be dealing with stuff too and maybe that's why he's irritable. Sometimes we snap at people. I did the other night. Things got too overwhelming and it's that time of the month so I ended up snapping at my scorpio when he wanted to figure out what was wrong.
Sometimes when the emotions run high we just can't deal. I feel like I wanna shut down, but my scorp didn't let me. So just try to make a last attempt before you say things are done
Oh shut the fuck up you two. He is no dick.
She wanted a break because she couldnt handle a real relationship once the honeymoon faze ended. So now she got her break and if he doesnt feel like talking to her he has every right since theyre on this break and all. I think once someone in a relation wants a break its a signal for the beginning of the end. I think he realized that as he should have.
This is ALL on her. She cant just go asking for breaks and then when she wants it to all be over and better expect him to be all happy joy joy.click to expand

Posted by Nights22Posted by happykitsunePosted by Wynter
That guy's a dick. Good riddance.
Agreed, kinda a jerk move.
He could be dealing with a lot right now tho. I say if you really like him make a last attempt at getting him back. Ask if something wrong or what he's been dealing with. I can't speak for all sags, but these last few weeks have been rough for me. He could be dealing with stuff too and maybe that's why he's irritable. Sometimes we snap at people. I did the other night. Things got too overwhelming and it's that time of the month so I ended up snapping at my scorpio when he wanted to figure out what was wrong.
Sometimes when the emotions run high we just can't deal. I feel like I wanna shut down, but my scorp didn't let me. So just try to make a last attempt before you say things are done
Oh shut the fuck up you two. He is no dick.
She wanted a break because she couldnt handle a real relationship once the honeymoon faze ended. So now she got her break and if he doesnt feel like talking to her he has every right since theyre on this break and all. I think once someone in a relation wants a break its a signal for the beginning of the end. I think he realized that as he should have.
This is ALL on her. She cant just go asking for breaks and then when she wants it to all be over and better expect him to be all happy joy joy.click to expand





Posted by roamingfree
i did. i sent him a text yesterday about 6 saying that I haven't heard from him and is it safe to say we are done. - the way he acted was like mind as well say: "go f*** yourself" to me. there was no answer back at all. I can't chase some one who doesn't want to take the effort to even say "I need a few days to cool off" for whatever reason. if I make yet another effort than he can just was well walk all over me. I can't be bothered with that - I already had that in my life, don't plan on having a man act this way towards me again. 😢
I miss him dearly, but it's best probably that I move on and let him be. He obviously doesnt want to talk, if he did there is nothing in his way to do so.
When a man wants a woman, he will make it happen. If he wants to talk to one, nothing will stop him.
He's not making it happen.
😢
I'm so upset at this 😢

Posted by happykitsunePosted by roamingfree
i did. i sent him a text yesterday about 6 saying that I haven't heard from him and is it safe to say we are done. - the way he acted was like mind as well say: "go f*** yourself" to me. there was no answer back at all. I can't chase some one who doesn't want to take the effort to even say "I need a few days to cool off" for whatever reason. if I make yet another effort than he can just was well walk all over me. I can't be bothered with that - I already had that in my life, don't plan on having a man act this way towards me again. 😢
I miss him dearly, but it's best probably that I move on and let him be. He obviously doesnt want to talk, if he did there is nothing in his way to do so.
When a man wants a woman, he will make it happen. If he wants to talk to one, nothing will stop him.
He's not making it happen.
😢
I'm so upset at this 😢
Yeah, a last attempt is all you can do. You made the effort. The balls in his court now. But you'll prob just wanna move from this, at least it sounds that wayclick to expand


Posted by DMVPosted by Nights22
Oh shut the fuck up you two. He is no dick.
She wanted a break because she couldnt handle a real relationship once the honeymoon faze ended. So now she got her break and if he doesnt feel like talking to her he has every right since theyre on this break and all. I think once someone in a relation wants a break its a signal for the beginning of the end. I think he realized that as he should have.
This is ALL on her. She cant just go asking for breaks and then when she wants it to all be over and better expect him to be all happy joy joy.
+1click to expand
+2 He's going to see getting back with you is going to bite him in the ass. Even if you don't want to acknowledge it, the writing is on the wall. Hope I'm wrong but...




Posted by DeadRingerr
This is like a bad Abbott and Costello skit, "What's on first and Who's on second."


Posted by roamingfreePosted by happykitsune
Yeah, a last attempt is all you can do. You made the effort. The balls in his court now. But you'll prob just wanna move from this, at least it sounds that way
he made it up. I get it. we're even. 8) whatever that means. he had his reasons or whatever. he's under a lot of stress and so I'll give him a break, but this better not be a prelude to a new habit. In the end all is good again. We're a good match, just both are fickle and our placements don't help at time, but also help tremendously. We seem stuck together.click to expand

Posted by roamingfree
relationships make me neurotic. I don't like it. I rather be not dating at all. I need to be either alone or absolutely both feet in. blah...

Posted by roamingfree
omgawd!
I didn't dump him - i need time to sort things out with my daughter and my dog passing if he gets it why no one here does? - it resulted in 12 hours, if that.
than we were good for a few days. than on Saturday he was irritated and this thing happened - he is divorced, he is leaving his 15 and 10 year old daughters behind because he is transferred to another base a few states away, while they live with their mother in another Soldiers house who is deployed right now. He is stressed out and it's getting to him. I get it. Today he apologized sincerely in very many words. We talked things out. Things are good now.... I did. He did. We are even. I get it.
In the end we are so similar it's freaky. I get every single lesson in this... I'm sure he does as well. Relationships flex, it matters only where you are at the end of the day...and I rather be with him.


Posted by happykitsune
I never understood a persons need to take a break. Sure I get irritated, very busy, tired of people, but I force myself to stick with it.
Idk, just never understood why someone would take a break unless they were planning to break up. Why not just fix stuff with him still in your life? Or is he always up your ass?
I could see where a mr.nice would do that

Posted by GemsrGalsBestPals
The only time I need a break is when I am having too much sex,lol.With too many people.At once😉

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but is he? we hardly have any issues, but I get so wrapped up in him that it's too much.
any advice?
I posted about this in the Gem's board, but I thought I should here as well.
Thank you in advance.