Two Timing

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by EvelynneK on Tuesday, October 25, 2011 and has 59 replies.

Sagittarius Women and Multiple Relationships

Sagittarius women often seek excitement and variety, which may lead to multiple relationships. Their love for adventure and independence can make them attracted to different partners, but honesty and communication are essential for healthy interactions. Understanding individual motivations can help navigate such dynamics effectively.

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@Mebs
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Not I said the fly. I only mess with one guy at a time

When I used to date more than one at the same time, no one was told a lie. I didn't put my business out there, but I wasn't anyone's girlfriend. I always take pride on keeping it real.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by beccy
this is not love your are talking about evelynneK.
that word is being abused too much.

you're in love with yourself and you might love the fact that they both love you.
thats the simple truth.

+1

there's no way it's real love.

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

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Have you heard the male version?

Wait is there one?

Oh I get it....

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

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i will fuck who i want, when i want. some in the same day.

now go eat that!

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

hahaha there goes the king of the one-liners πŸ˜›

but, really? we might as well put women back in chasity belts. sex is there to be enjoyed, what's with all this finger pointing and shaking of heads?

no wonder so many women are so fucked up when it comes to their relationships...trying to please everyone and end up pleasing none...

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue
hahaha there goes the king of the one-liners πŸ˜›

but, really? we might as well put women back in chasity belts. sex is there to be enjoyed, what's with all this finger pointing and shaking of heads?

no wonder so many women are so fucked up when it comes to their relationships...trying to please everyone and end up pleasing none...

I still like 'one at a time ladies', anything else is too much effort.

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seriously. tried multiple dating last year, it was a nightmare. way too lazy for that. i'm no juggler πŸ˜›

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@Mebs
15 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

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+1 Deep.

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by DMV

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

i will fuck who i want, when i want. some in the same day.

now go eat that!

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DMV,
Nevertheless, you are free to do whatever you want, but you are enslaved to the consequential accountability of whatever you do.
That is like unto "you reap what you sow".
Come now..., let's be honest with ourselves, that's a rule that applies to all of us.

True freedom is the ability to first, weigh the choices and consider the consequences thereof, that are given to us, then choose wisely the choice that do NOT have consequences, but rather.... true rewards and benefits. ie... True FREEDOM is realized AFTER the fact....., after the choice has been made and not before.

I am NOT judging you nor anyone else here with a condemning heart.
Rather, I write as one with a broken heart.... one that's been through living hell and seen the torments in the lives of others.
I didn't write that to upset you or anyone else.
>>> I wrote it.... because I care.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by DMV
i do sleep around with multiple men. usually these men are not relationship potential but they are bedroom potential.

There was a woman who did this. At the end of the day, she felt chopped up and divided, incomplete and utterly confused.
The day came when she lost her youth and all of her charm and none would have her. Alone, she was. Independance was
what she wanted, but her freedom came with a terribly heavy price. All those rendevous' had robbed her of her true self. She couldn't connect with anyone, no matter how hard she tried, for she had become detached from her own self. Her own self was lost. Insanity set in and one day, a once happy little girl bouncing on her daddy's knee became another statistic.

The greater danger with this life style is not that you will be harmed by another, but that you can ultimately destroy yourself.

Just food for thought.

i will fuck who i want, when i want. some in the same day.

now go eat that!

DMV,
Nevertheless, you are free to do whatever you want, but you are enslaved to the consequential accountability of whatever you do.
That is like unto "you reap what you sow".
Come now..., let's be honest with ourselves, that's a rule that applies to all of us.

True freedom is the ability to first, weigh the choices and consider the consequences thereof, that are given to us, then choose wisely the choice that do NOT have consequences, but rather.... true rewards and benefits. ie... True FREEDOM is realized AFTER the fact....., after the choice has been made and not before.

I am NOT judging you nor anyone else here with a condemning heart.
Rather, I write as one with a broken heart.... one that's been through living hell and seen the torments in the lives of others.
I didn't write that to upset you or anyone else.
>>> I wrote it.... because I care.

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whatd you say?

i had a mouth full of cock and couldnt hear.

who are YOU to tell me how many cocks i can screw at any given time?

stop talking out the side of your mouth and then apologizing and rationalizing what you say b

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

stop talking out the side of your mouth and then apologizing and rationalizing what you say because you have a broken heart.

her dmv, your slut...sorry, my hearts just been broken so hard

hey happy, no one is going to want a used car....sorry, im just having a hard time coping with my sag

stop.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue
haha you mean like a harem! :/ your libra's showing πŸ˜‰

HAhah as if ! My harem would be so shit, I'd probably end throwing my hands up and going "I give up, do as you please !! "
Although I do think it's funny that talking to a woman = wifey to some hehe 😈 j/k
It's a hard life being a daywalker at times.

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psssh it's true though. if i was a man, i'd probably go monk. some people are so focused on the 'end result' they forget to enjoy the process. i blame beyonce! 'if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it?' fucking hell.

how about, if you like it...then take me out friday night? πŸ˜‰

a daywalker...a half ginge? google wasn't clear!

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@nimbue
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Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue
haha you mean like a harem! :/ your libra's showing πŸ˜‰

HAhah as if ! My harem would be so shit, I'd probably end throwing my hands up and going "I give up, do as you please !! "
Although I do think it's funny that talking to a woman = wifey to some hehe 😈 j/k
It's a hard life being a daywalker at times.

psssh it's true though. if i was a man, i'd probably go monk. some people are so focused on the 'end result' they forget to enjoy the process. i blame beyonce! 'if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it?' fucking hell.

how about, if you like it...then take me out friday night? πŸ˜‰

a daywalker...a half ginge? google wasn't clear!

Daywalker = cusp or as you guess, half-ginge (does a ginger beard count ?)
Umm no, not monk lol and no not beyonce, that's the other extreme lol.
Ok, where do you want to go ? No hipster nests, and iirc Jungle nights are banned lol

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it does. ginger cusp just sounds cool.

but hipster nests! so much piss taking material. ah man...we can chalk the pavements outside buckingham palace πŸ˜›

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

DMV, I find it amazing that you think that I am telling you what to do. That is not the case at all.
Nevertheless, I can tell you are an angry woman. However, in your anger, you are misjudging my motivations and intent.
Maybe you have every reason to want to kill yourself. Down deep you cannot stand yourself... and fcking is your way of dealing with your pain.... who knows, but the fact remains, I simply offered a thought to ponder. You never know.... something I've said may sink in. I don't need know if it does or not. Whether you do yourself in, doesn't matter... the world is full of Jack the Rippers and you never know when you will find yourself in the arms of a man who leaves you another annonymous statistic or perhaps, another... Black Dalia.
If bits and pieces give you a hard-on well.... that's your decision.

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by Sagittarius89
Well if we are just pondering firebird, maybe your sag just used you and never thinks twice about you?

Just a ponder...

Yep, she sure used me and I gave her two girls that she taught to hate me.
I've already contemplated suicide if that's what you're drivin' at.
I've also contemplated murder.
How's that grab you, young lady?

For what it's worth, I've got heartaches older than you.

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@EvelynneK
14 YearsSagittarius

Rationally ideally for a sagi who realises oneself as much as i do relationships are impossible.
Men with egos as high as mountains suck. Men who doubt my honesty sucks. Men too afraid of showing their hearts suck. Men too cold suck. Men too sentimental scare the shiz out of me. Men too behaviourally dumb suck the most... And more and more. Yet when I found the perfect man I was so dazed I decided to just be friends becoz it's best that way.
Steamy bedroom encounters would not have become a win-win situation unless my heart had not been SHATTERED after 6yrs of wholehearted love. And the adrenaline comes from such a satisfying feeling of enjoying the attitude that often men enjoy giving to their women (consciously or unconsciously). Men are best being loveable pets somehow... And I love my pets.

(Would you believe all that written? But don't you think it's revenge. Since a real sagi has a very expansive life and philosophy, such a trail of thought is only one aspect.)
+ The guy who shattered my heart is that libran guy I'm still in love with. Woo life's good!

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@EvelynneK
14 YearsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Sagittarius89
Well if we are just pondering firebird, maybe your sag just used you and never thinks twice about you?

Just a ponder...

Yep, she sure used me and I gave her two girls that she taught to hate me.
I've already contemplated suicide if that's what you're drivin' at.
I've also contemplated murder.
How's that grab you, young lady?

For what it's worth, I've got heartaches older than you.

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I'm guessing firebird you are a Capricorn? O_O

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@EvelynneK
14 YearsSagittarius

Posted by everevolvingepithet
So you want to put it about to get a 6 year heartbreak out of your system ?

Oh no i'm making use of such a very interesting experience dontya think? And tell you what I'm happy I got it.
Oh and it wasnt broken the normal way anyway, barely bcoz somehow the guy was somewhat a disappointment.

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@EvelynneK
14 YearsSagittarius

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Men with egos as high as mountains suck. Men who doubt my honesty sucks. Men too afraid of showing their hearts suck. Men too cold suck. Men too sentimental scare the shiz out of me. Men too behaviourally dumb suck the most... And more and more. Yet when I found the perfect man I was so dazed I decided to just be friends becoz it's best that way.

Date men, not boys ?
I always chuckle when Saggys get on their high horse about being philosophical and what not, prob. the least so of all the signs, but hey ho so long as you're doing you and take responsibility for all actions (big hint here for he horsies) then keep doing you ! πŸ™‚

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+ Taking responsibility for all actions sounds a bit naive πŸ˜„

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by EvelynneK

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Sagittarius89
Well if we are just pondering firebird, maybe your sag just used you and never thinks twice about you?

Just a ponder...

Yep, she sure used me and I gave her two girls that she taught to hate me.
I've already contemplated suicide if that's what you're drivin' at.
I've also contemplated murder.
How's that grab you, young lady?

For what it's worth, I've got heartaches older than you.

I'm guessing firebird you are a Capricorn? O_O

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No mam, I am of the sign called "Misunderstood".

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by EvelynneK

Posted by nimbue

Posted by beccy
this is not love your are talking about evelynneK.
that word is being abused too much.

you're in love with yourself and you might love the fact that they both love you.
thats the simple truth.

+1

there's no way it's real love.

It was real, you bet.

i was referring to this.

Posted by EvelynneK
Just wanna find out how many other sagi females enjoy the adrenaline from doing so... I love both guys, one is a libra, the other a cancer.

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@nimbue
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Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by nimbue
haha you mean like a harem! :/ your libra's showing πŸ˜‰

HAhah as if ! My harem would be so shit, I'd probably end throwing my hands up and going "I give up, do as you please !! "
Although I do think it's funny that talking to a woman = wifey to some hehe 😈 j/k
It's a hard life being a daywalker at times.

psssh it's true though. if i was a man, i'd probably go monk. some people are so focused on the 'end result' they forget to enjoy the process. i blame beyonce! 'if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it?' fucking hell.

how about, if you like it...then take me out friday night? πŸ˜‰

a daywalker...a half ginge? google wasn't clear!

Daywalker = cusp or as you guess, half-ginge (does a ginger beard count ?)
Umm no, not monk lol and no not beyonce, that's the other extreme lol.
Ok, where do you want to go ? No hipster nests, and iirc Jungle nights are banned lol

it does. ginger cusp just sounds cool.

but hipster nests! so much piss taking material. ah man...we can chalk the pavements outside buckingham palace πŸ˜›

Make sure to do a chalk like with a bouffant/crown shape, just for the tourists ? πŸ™‚

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niiiice. πŸ™‚

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird
DMV, I find it amazing that you think that I am telling you what to do. That is not the case at all.
Nevertheless, I can tell you are an angry woman. However, in your anger, you are misjudging my motivations and intent.
Maybe you have every reason to want to kill yourself. Down deep you cannot stand yourself... and fcking is your way of dealing with your pain.... who knows, but the fact remains, I simply offered a thought to ponder. You never know.... something I've said may sink in. I don't need know if it does or not. Whether you do yourself in, doesn't matter... the world is full of Jack the Rippers and you never know when you will find yourself in the arms of a man who leaves you another annonymous statistic or perhaps, another... Black Dalia.
If bits and pieces give you a hard-on well.... that's your decision.

are you kidding me? stop being so pessimistic. i love my life and wouldnt even dream of ending it.

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@scorpdiva
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Dating numerous men is something I can do and have done it okay if you have the time and patience for it, however when it comes to sex it's hard for me to spread my self thin I like sex a lot but I can go without for a long time until I meet someone I am really into to. I get tunnel vision where I am normally into one guy at a time and only have eyes for him but when I have dated two men it is always inbetween relationship like I am breaking up with one but it's not all the way over yet and I meet another men who I like and then the two timing or love triangle starts. Normally towards the end of my relationship I will talk to my partner and let them know before I cross the line with the other person but sometimes it just happens.

DMV sometimes I wish sex came freely to me where I could have a lot of sexual encounters but I think that would make me worse, if I did that I would feel so guility that I am having to much sex that I would go years without it to redeem myself if that makes sense.

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@Xin
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I won't lie either I like to talk to several guys at once when I am single. A girl has to have her options. Once I figure out who is the butter Ill go with that choice. However being involved with them seriously is another. I don't believe I have ever seriously dated two people at once. Mostly because my mind is so flighty. I know I am going to treetrunk butter up and get their stories mixed up thinking it was Guy A's story when it was in fact Guy B's story. I should know! I do it already when I am single! Yeah it pisses them off, so I think to myself "Damn wonder what would have happened if I did that and I was serious with both these guys..." EEP!

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@happykitsune
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I have two timed at different times in my life. As far as loving I can really only say I've loved one guy and still do.

I could see where you CAN love more than one person. Venus in aqua. Shame shame on you πŸ˜›

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Sagittarius89
Well if we are just pondering firebird, maybe your sag just used you and never thinks twice about you?

Just a ponder...

Yep, she sure used me and I gave her two girls that she taught to hate me.
I've already contemplated suicide if that's what you're drivin' at.
I've also contemplated murder.
How's that grab you, young lady?

For what it's worth, I've got heartaches older than you.

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It's grabs that if that is the hardest thing you have had to deal with in your life you have had a easy life. Congracts.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by scorpdiva
Dating numerous men is something I can do and have done it okay if you have the time and patience for it, however when it comes to sex it's hard for me to spread my self thin I like sex a lot but I can go without for a long time until I meet someone I am really into to. I get tunnel vision where I am normally into one guy at a time and only have eyes for him but when I have dated two men it is always inbetween relationship like I am breaking up with one but it's not all the way over yet and I meet another men who I like and then the two timing or love triangle starts. Normally towards the end of my relationship I will talk to my partner and let them know before I cross the line with the other person but sometimes it just happens.

DMV sometimes I wish sex came freely to me where I could have a lot of sexual encounters but I think that would make me worse, if I did that I would feel so guility that I am having to much sex that I would go years without it to redeem myself if that makes sense.

people should do whatever comes natural to them. what they feel comfortable with. what they can live with.

you know from your own experience that multiple partners doesnt work for you.

ive just always been different. i can go from guy to guy without flinching. however, when im ready to settle down, i do. ive done it b4. im a quality over quantity person when it comes to committed relationships. i just dont make every guy i meet my boyfriend, nor do i want 2.

because i view sex differently then someone else, i get a "come to geezus" meeting about how i need to change my ways. gtfo. not

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Posted by DMV

Posted by scorpdiva
Dating numerous men is something I can do and have done it okay if you have the time and patience for it, however when it comes to sex it's hard for me to spread my self thin I like sex a lot but I can go without for a long time until I meet someone I am really into to. I get tunnel vision where I am normally into one guy at a time and only have eyes for him but when I have dated two men it is always inbetween relationship like I am breaking up with one but it's not all the way over yet and I meet another men who I like and then the two timing or love triangle starts. Normally towards the end of my relationship I will talk to my partner and let them know before I cross the line with the other person but sometimes it just happens.

DMV sometimes I wish sex came freely to me where I could have a lot of sexual encounters but I think that would make me worse, if I did that I would feel so guility that I am having to much sex that I would go years without it to redeem myself if that makes sense.

people should do whatever comes natural to them. what they feel comfortable with. what they can live with.

you know from your own experience that multiple partners doesnt work for you.

ive just always been different. i can go from guy to guy without flinching. however, when im ready to settle down, i do. ive done it b4. im a quality over quantity person when it comes to committed relationships. i just dont make every guy i meet my boyfriend, nor do i want 2.

because i view sex differently then someone else, i get a "come to geezus" meeting about how i need to change my ways. gtfo. not

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