shaiessence
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So Sag and Cancer . . . . . . . .
I'm a july 21 cancerleo and I'm in love with a sag! Without the leo part...horoscope tells me cancer and leo is not too good. My sis is a sag...but she's truly a scorpio sag cusp....when we argue, we ARGUE.
Hey shaiessence,
I'm a cancer (well.. cusp gemini-cancer) and I've got a male friend who's a sagittarius. We were in the same class together for a year and so we went out a few times afterwards. We had great fun, we started flirting (boy they are flirtatious), we kissed and I think there was even firework for a moment (man, those beautiful blue eyes!!). I have to admit, we both were somewhat very tipsy 😉 and although it was verrrry nice, I didn't think it meant anything serious.. At the time I was very much in love with an aries (*sigh*) so I didn't quite care about what my Sag could be feeling, but we kept on seeing each other and kept on having wonderful conversations. During that time I sensed that he was falling in love with me. Unfortunately I couldn't get my mind of "Aries-man", so my Sag could stand on his head for all I cared, the darned sheep kept on my mind 😄 Sag didn't know that there was somebody else, and now I feel it was unfair for him not to know! Cause I enjoyed the attention (of Sag) that Aries was refusing to give me (accept for his own benefits of course :p). I kinda backed off in the meantime, 'cause things really got complicated and I'm just not ready to consent to all of his wishes 😉 But My Sag is still really making an effort and he's still sending me the sweetest messages, calling me honeypop, princess and stuff like that. It makes me feel very appreciated! He totally wants to get to know me completely, but there is just one thing: being a cancer we normally don't open up very easy and that can be a bad thing, but it can be a good thing too, 'cause it makes us kind of mysterious (I've heard it right out of his mouth!). It can drive them nuts, but at the same time, they want to know WHAT we are hiding because they are sooooooooooooo damned curious ;-D And even though they run away when we get moody or sticky or whatever, they will always come back to unravel our mystery :-) (yesterday he said it was "his mission" to get to know all my secrets).
Now when it comes to men in general, I feel that the less you care the more they start yearning. I've experienced it several times now. I was giving aries to much attention and he wouldn't bite, Sag got, well.., not much actually, and he's all over me... Now I don't know if you really want a romantic relationship with him, but I can tell you that the less you get fixated, the more your sagittarius will start wondering why the attention is fading. It's because HE wants to be the one playing games and he wants to make YOU crave for HIM 😉 not otherwise! So maybe next time, if you meet up, I'd try to be a little drawn back.. Think; "mystery" 😉
Once you've got his interest don't give in immediately.
And about those other girls.. If he's not interested in you, then yes he will be flirtatious with those others (it's his nature). The moment he's in love with you, "the other ladies" will still be there, but then you really needn't worry about any of them, just remember that boys will be boys (and he's a typical one..)! He needs his freedom and he needs to know that he's stil wanted (everyone has its own way of finding out of course).
So a relationship between a cancer and a sagittarius? I wouldn't be to negative about it. He was born 15th december, so he's a real one!! with girls all over him and all.. But he's as sweet as can be and he nurtures me and cares for me in a way I would never think possible from a sagittarius to a cancer. He's honest and he demands the same from me. And I know for sure that he would be there for me every step of the way. But I can say he's worked for it and somehow men really need that, sagittarius or aquarius or aries or... But hey, there's nothing a cancer can't do!! We know how to play "the game", we just need to take some distance from time to time. We're cardinals so we know all about taking control 😉
Greetz (hope I didn't bore you too much) Mimi *
I'm a cancer (well.. cusp gemini-cancer) and I've got a male friend who's a sagittarius. We were in the same class together for a year and so we went out a few times afterwards. We had great fun, we started flirting (boy they are flirtatious), we kissed and I think there was even firework for a moment (man, those beautiful blue eyes!!). I have to admit, we both were somewhat very tipsy 😉 and although it was verrrry nice, I didn't think it meant anything serious.. At the time I was very much in love with an aries (*sigh*) so I didn't quite care about what my Sag could be feeling, but we kept on seeing each other and kept on having wonderful conversations. During that time I sensed that he was falling in love with me. Unfortunately I couldn't get my mind of "Aries-man", so my Sag could stand on his head for all I cared, the darned sheep kept on my mind 😄 Sag didn't know that there was somebody else, and now I feel it was unfair for him not to know! Cause I enjoyed the attention (of Sag) that Aries was refusing to give me (accept for his own benefits of course :p). I kinda backed off in the meantime, 'cause things really got complicated and I'm just not ready to consent to all of his wishes 😉 But My Sag is still really making an effort and he's still sending me the sweetest messages, calling me honeypop, princess and stuff like that. It makes me feel very appreciated! He totally wants to get to know me completely, but there is just one thing: being a cancer we normally don't open up very easy and that can be a bad thing, but it can be a good thing too, 'cause it makes us kind of mysterious (I've heard it right out of his mouth!). It can drive them nuts, but at the same time, they want to know WHAT we are hiding because they are sooooooooooooo damned curious ;-D And even though they run away when we get moody or sticky or whatever, they will always come back to unravel our mystery :-) (yesterday he said it was "his mission" to get to know all my secrets).
Now when it comes to men in general, I feel that the less you care the more they start yearning. I've experienced it several times now. I was giving aries to much attention and he wouldn't bite, Sag got, well.., not much actually, and he's all over me... Now I don't know if you really want a romantic relationship with him, but I can tell you that the less you get fixated, the more your sagittarius will start wondering why the attention is fading. It's because HE wants to be the one playing games and he wants to make YOU crave for HIM 😉 not otherwise! So maybe next time, if you meet up, I'd try to be a little drawn back.. Think; "mystery" 😉
Once you've got his interest don't give in immediately.
And about those other girls.. If he's not interested in you, then yes he will be flirtatious with those others (it's his nature). The moment he's in love with you, "the other ladies" will still be there, but then you really needn't worry about any of them, just remember that boys will be boys (and he's a typical one..)! He needs his freedom and he needs to know that he's stil wanted (everyone has its own way of finding out of course).
So a relationship between a cancer and a sagittarius? I wouldn't be to negative about it. He was born 15th december, so he's a real one!! with girls all over him and all.. But he's as sweet as can be and he nurtures me and cares for me in a way I would never think possible from a sagittarius to a cancer. He's honest and he demands the same from me. And I know for sure that he would be there for me every step of the way. But I can say he's worked for it and somehow men really need that, sagittarius or aquarius or aries or... But hey, there's nothing a cancer can't do!! We know how to play "the game", we just need to take some distance from time to time. We're cardinals so we know all about taking control 😉
Greetz (hope I didn't bore you too much) Mimi *
Hey 😄! I'm a cancer with a Sagittarius moon.... whoo hoo.
"The only thing I can say is that yes. its true. Sag men are great as friends. Promiscuous and non committal are all sagittarian traits. Astrologically speaking, Sag and cancer aren't a good match. "
lol
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I am a Sag women who has been in Love with a Cancer man for about 8 months. I love this man so much but where so different at times and I just trying my best to work it out with him but sometimes I just feel like giving up. Plus another reason I don't want to break up with him cause hes the father of my unborn child that due in July '09. We fight so much and I'm just done with all the fighting and crying. Since I'm pregnant my emotions are even worst and the arguments are getting worst. I just don't know what to do. I want to call it quits but he is the father of child. And this had been one of the toughest relationship Ive been in. I need some advice on how to make things better.
cancimini- YOU ARE AWESOME!!! I have Gemini as my moon and cancer as my sun and my roommate was like.. dude, she talks like you >.> LOL
But yeah, I'm trying to figure out my Sag. he's December 17 with a Sag rising and cancer moon. He's like WAY TOO PERFECT and I can't find a flaw! And unlike the usual promiscuity, he does have it in him to be, but I guess he got it out of his system online and realized that it caused more problems then it's worth, he's extremely loyal, and fun. So give it a chance, they seem to be really fun so far X3.
But yeah, I'm trying to figure out my Sag. he's December 17 with a Sag rising and cancer moon. He's like WAY TOO PERFECT and I can't find a flaw! And unlike the usual promiscuity, he does have it in him to be, but I guess he got it out of his system online and realized that it caused more problems then it's worth, he's extremely loyal, and fun. So give it a chance, they seem to be really fun so far X3.
SAG an Cancer is a love, hate relationship. Always pulling, always falling in and out of love. But man... its hard to let go!
^True.
Some days I feel bad for hating my boyfriend's roomate so hard...and I think he's not so bad after all.
But then he always manages to do something totally obnoxious and make me feel like assaulting him, all over again.
Some days I feel bad for hating my boyfriend's roomate so hard...and I think he's not so bad after all.
But then he always manages to do something totally obnoxious and make me feel like assaulting him, all over again.
Run for the hills honey.
So...any sag and cancer relationship out there that works like magic in wonderland?that is without much fights?anyone? probably not? i guess, like moon_eyes said, prepare boxing gloves...lol
I have this sag friend of mine who fell in love with me for so many times and for so long too. I gave the relationship 2 tries but felt I cannot get the sense of security that i needed and i didn't feel any connection with him at all, and i remember feeling frustrated most of the time. Besides, i knew that astrologically, we wouldn't work. But we enjoyed each other's company very much. Somehow, I feel i cannot love him anything more than a friend.there was no sex. no lust for him. Then we broke our friendship in order for him to move on, and also i was soooo in love with my scorp.
With the scorp. Astrologically, we worked and man, the chemistry, connection and sex is goooood. However, parental objections had caused much pain in this relationship. And in the end, i choose to honour my parents wishes.To choose between family and bf, family would come first. Our interest in life differs from each other anyway.
Now i'm single again and i'm thinking of going back to my sag friend, reconcile our friendship and maybe...hopefully... move to the next level. He's is a sag/ox and according to a book by Suzanne White, sag/ox "exhibit fervent fidelity in love relationship". I mean, if they exhibit it like that, it means he can't be accused of infidelity right? I'm a cancer/rat, I know rat and ox can work, which probably explains why we can be such good friends. Can friendship like this maintain a relationship in the long run?
i feel so evil for breaking his heart so many times and then want to get back with him when me and my scorp didn't work...dotn' know whether to laugh or cry. feeling so uncertain and lost these days...
btw, if anyone wants to know the eastern/western astrology description for the one you are interested in, you can get yourself the book call The New Astrology by Suzanne White. It's really interesting.
What's your horoscope/animal zodiac sign?
I have this sag friend of mine who fell in love with me for so many times and for so long too. I gave the relationship 2 tries but felt I cannot get the sense of security that i needed and i didn't feel any connection with him at all, and i remember feeling frustrated most of the time. Besides, i knew that astrologically, we wouldn't work. But we enjoyed each other's company very much. Somehow, I feel i cannot love him anything more than a friend.there was no sex. no lust for him. Then we broke our friendship in order for him to move on, and also i was soooo in love with my scorp.
With the scorp. Astrologically, we worked and man, the chemistry, connection and sex is goooood. However, parental objections had caused much pain in this relationship. And in the end, i choose to honour my parents wishes.To choose between family and bf, family would come first. Our interest in life differs from each other anyway.
Now i'm single again and i'm thinking of going back to my sag friend, reconcile our friendship and maybe...hopefully... move to the next level. He's is a sag/ox and according to a book by Suzanne White, sag/ox "exhibit fervent fidelity in love relationship". I mean, if they exhibit it like that, it means he can't be accused of infidelity right? I'm a cancer/rat, I know rat and ox can work, which probably explains why we can be such good friends. Can friendship like this maintain a relationship in the long run?
i feel so evil for breaking his heart so many times and then want to get back with him when me and my scorp didn't work...dotn' know whether to laugh or cry. feeling so uncertain and lost these days...
btw, if anyone wants to know the eastern/western astrology description for the one you are interested in, you can get yourself the book call The New Astrology by Suzanne White. It's really interesting.
What's your horoscope/animal zodiac sign?
Posted by Versuvius
So...any sag and cancer relationship out there that works like magic in wonderland?that is without much fights?anyone?
...well I'm not so sure in your case...
You said yourself, you had no connection with the Sag at all, you couldn't love him as more than a friend, and there was no sex or physical attraction. BUT if you're able to reconcile the friendship, you're planning on trying to "take it to the next level" with the same guy—?
Oh wow. 🙂
But seriously, no relationship works like "magic in wonderland."
& If they do, be afraid, be very afraid.
Posted by brianafay
BUT if you're able to reconcile the friendship, you're planning on trying to "take it to the next level" with the same guy—?
Oh wow. 🙂
But seriously, no relationship works like "magic in wonderland."
& If they do, be afraid, be very afraid.
A very good question.I guess I am trying to form some sort of permanent relationship with him. He's after all the most trustworthy male friend that i know. Some marriages out there are based on friendship and other conveniences. Whether these are happy marriages or not, i wouldn't know.
I'm kind of drowning in my own emotional turmoil here, being single and all..........
Relationship that works like "magic in wonderland"...one can only dream of it.LOL!! reality will always come and slap you hard in the face. *WAKE UP!!✨ haha...
Seriously. Reality is so unpleasant.
I'm a cancer dating a Sag guy. I agree it's a tough relationship, but it can work if you understand each other. I'm also a cancer with a rising air sign so I like the adventure and don't mind starting and stopping things on a whim or being social. It's hard to deal with the Saggy's big mouth as I don't take criticism well as a Cancer, but I think we've set some boundaries. I try to not take things too seriously. I did find early on that he played with my moods too much, but I've since learned to enjoy the time I have with him while I'm there and then be independent when I'm not with him.
It helps that I am mostly looking for fun and adventure with my Sag guy and not a serious relationship. I just ended one with an aries who never showed affection.
I think my Sag likes my secretive personality, my creativity, and my compassion and tenderness. Of course, there is a lot of like about the Sag guy, but I think it works so long as I don't want to tie him down. He was dating an Aries when I met him, but she was too clingy after just a month of dating and he bolted. He and I were just friends then, but I know to keep my distance. I kinda don't think it will work long term, but you never know. You have to learn a little bit about every one in a relationship, and it takes 2 to make the commitment.
It helps that I am mostly looking for fun and adventure with my Sag guy and not a serious relationship. I just ended one with an aries who never showed affection.
I think my Sag likes my secretive personality, my creativity, and my compassion and tenderness. Of course, there is a lot of like about the Sag guy, but I think it works so long as I don't want to tie him down. He was dating an Aries when I met him, but she was too clingy after just a month of dating and he bolted. He and I were just friends then, but I know to keep my distance. I kinda don't think it will work long term, but you never know. You have to learn a little bit about every one in a relationship, and it takes 2 to make the commitment.
^ Girl, no cancer takes criticism well...you're normal. 🙂
You just have to keep in mind, Sag isn't "criticizing" you - he just speaks honestly, and sometimes with little forethought. The truth hurts, and alot of the time, feels like criticism.
You just have to keep in mind, Sag isn't "criticizing" you - he just speaks honestly, and sometimes with little forethought. The truth hurts, and alot of the time, feels like criticism.
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