cancer love saggitarius

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by kashmer3 on Wednesday, October 12, 2016 and has 29 replies.

How to Express Your Feelings to a Cancer Woman When Dating a Sagittarius

To communicate your desire for a serious relationship with a Cancer woman, be honest and gentle. Share your feelings clearly while reassuring her of your commitment. Respect her independence and past experiences. Timing and sincerity are key to making her understand your intentions without pressure, increasing your chances of building a lasting bond.

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Me and sag have known each other for a year I'm 30 and she's 26. We have liked each other in the past and date on and off but I am never her boyfriend but a best friend she liked me and same with me. She date other men too on and off but never serious she come back to me always. I really like her and want to be serious with her. I know she will not play with me if I mary her. I'm the man who knows her in and out. How to tell her? I need advice because I'm afraid to lose her. She's going to vacation soon and what if she found another man?

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@kashmer3
9 Years

oh wow.. geez... Cancer, really? ? LOL

Here let me give you some FACTS:

1. Cancer and Sags dont mesh: move on

that is astrology a lot of person can make it. impossible is nothing. Impossible is I'm possible

2. She is stringing you along : move on

no she's not

3. She is putting you in the back burner: move on

no she's not

Are you just a friend or a "special" friend or FWB? Something is missing here? What happen between when you dated her and then she dated another guy? Were you two still together and fine?

We are best friend and lover. We are always together and fine for a year also when she dated another guy.

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@Cancan26
10 Years5,000+ Posts

alright op ...nothing is impossible ..it might work ...even with saggie and cancer if there are other factors involved ..compatible moon signs, venus, mars etc...

but the way to tell her ...is to be blunt and what ever she says accept it at face value ...cause sags are blunt ...they doon't pussy foot around and they don't want you to either ...good luck op! come back and tell us how it went ...

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Rosaknowsya

Posted by kashmer3
Me and sag have known each other for a year I'm 30 and she's 26. We have liked each other in the past and date on and off but I am never her boyfriend but a best friend she liked me and same with me. She date other men too on and off but never serious she come back to me always. I really like her and want to be serious with her. I know she will not play with me if I mary her. I'm the man who knows her in and out. How to tell her? I need advice because I'm afraid to lose her. She's going to vacation soon and what if she found another man?

Is this one of @soul 's troll accounts? Lol.

What?

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I can't even be serious about this

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Not me. I get banned within 20 minutes when I make a new account. I'm forced to be Soul, unless I delete this account first.

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Cancan26
alright op ...nothing is impossible ..it might work ...even with saggie and cancer if there are other factors involved ..compatible moon signs, venus, mars etc...

but the way to tell her ...is to be blunt and what ever she says accept it at face value ...cause sags are blunt ...they doon't pussy foot around and they don't want you to either ...good luck op! come back and tell us how it went ...

She hasn't reply my text messages for 3 days. I'm confused what she want?

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Actually, I am dating a Sagittarius guy for 5 months now, and we get along pretty well. Sometimes there is misunderstandings but talking it out will do the thing.

It is possible to make it work between you two. If you both get along pretty well, then it should be fine. Just be straight forward with it and tell her bluntly. I wouldn't say this for most Cancer's but they do like a guy who knows what he wants and is straightforward with honesty. No games and not sugarcoating.

If you know her pretty well and how she is, just be prepared for the things you haven't seen before when you do date her.

Thank you for advice. Saggitarius here do not want to help same like her always so mean and mystery. I know her in and out, wish me luck

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@Cancan26
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Cancan26
alright op ...nothing is impossible ..it might work ...even with saggie and cancer if there are other factors involved ..compatible moon signs, venus, mars etc...

but the way to tell her ...is to be blunt and what ever she says accept it at face value ...cause sags are blunt ...they doon't pussy foot around and they don't want you to either ...good luck op! come back and tell us how it went ...

She hasn't reply my text messages for 3 days. I'm confused what she want?

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You did it by text!?!? You should have done it in person...you would gotten answer right there on the spot ...well...what did you say?

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Sagsagsags
@kashmer3

Alright, you're right nothing is impossible, true, I second this ?

Can you elaborate more on you being her bestfriend and lover? That does not make any sense, there's always a fine line between a lover and a bestfriend, at least for me.

What makes you think you two are lovers? Did she show any loving affection towards you? did she ever say that she likes you more than a friend? did she ever stroke you caress you kiss you hug you cuddle you (the list could go on)?

Have you been playing her this whole year so she feel unsafe settling down for you? If you want a Sag to settle down, you need to assure her that it's safe for her to do so and the feelings is mutual. Sacrificing our independece means A LOT to us and we wont do it for people who are half trying. Go big or go home. If you show her that you're coming at a full force, she'll come at you full force prolly even more forceful than you.

No I will never play her I love her so much. I have try to be there for her all the time when she seperate from many boys. No she never kiss me, touch me I respect woman I respect her. We go 2 of us alone sometimes have fun and laughing. She say she's comfortable with me

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@Kemetisinme
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by everlynn

Posted by kashmer3
Me and sag have known each other for a year I'm 30 and she's 26. We have liked each other in the past and date on and off but I am never her boyfriend but a best friend she liked me and same with me. She date other men too on and off but never serious she come back to me always. I really like her and want to be serious with her. I know she will not play with me if I mary her. I'm the man who knows her in and out. How to tell her? I need advice because I'm afraid to lose her. She's going to vacation soon and what if she found another man?

Sorry I didn't read this whole thread. Yet. But why don't you go with her on her vacation?

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She want to diving. I can't swim

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Sounds like you are just another lover to this woman.

If your feelings are that strong let her know, upfront how you feel and what your goals are.

You would like to start dating her seriously and exclusively.

Sags are not the type to just "know" how you feel.

They are perceptive, not psychic.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Sagsagsags

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Sagsagsags
@kashmer3

Alright, you're right nothing is impossible, true, I second this ?

Can you elaborate more on you being her bestfriend and lover? That does not make any sense, there's always a fine line between a lover and a bestfriend, at least for me.

What makes you think you two are lovers? Did she show any loving affection towards you? did she ever say that she likes you more than a friend? did she ever stroke you caress you kiss you hug you cuddle you (the list could go on)?

Have you been playing her this whole year so she feel unsafe settling down for you? If you want a Sag to settle down, you need to assure her that it's safe for her to do so and the feelings is mutual. Sacrificing our independece means A LOT to us and we wont do it for people who are half trying. Go big or go home. If you show her that you're coming at a full force, she'll come at you full force prolly even more forceful than you.

No I will never play her I love her so much. I have try to be there for her all the time when she seperate from many boys. No she never kiss me, touch me I respect woman I respect her. We go 2 of us alone sometimes have fun and laughing. She say she's comfortable with me

Dude, she views you as a BESTFRIEND with no romantic interest, how can you not see that? Sags are extremely physical, at least she'll hold your hand or touch your face or rub your head if she likes you. 1 year and no physical contact = Friends, ok? Move on, you seem to be a nice guy. Don't ever tell her you love her more than a friend, she'll cut off your entire existence in her life.

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WOW, I guess I should have kept reading. Didn't see this.

I agree the two are just friends. I thought there was at least some sex involved.

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@Kemetisinme
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

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Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

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YES SHE DOESN'T. HOW TO MAKE HER REALIZE?

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@Kemetisinme
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

YES SHE DOESN'T. HOW TO MAKE HER REALIZE?

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Be unconventional. Write her a poem.

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

YES SHE DOESN'T. HOW TO MAKE HER REALIZE?

Be unconventional. Write her a poem.

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I CAN'T. CAN YOU MAKE FOR ME?

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@Kemetisinme
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

YES SHE DOESN'T. HOW TO MAKE HER REALIZE?

Be unconventional. Write her a poem.

I CAN'T. CAN YOU MAKE FOR ME?

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as starwars would say: no

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@kashmer3
9 Years

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme

Posted by kashmer3

Posted by Kemetisinme
Lol @ this. Are you by any chance.. out of shape ? Did she hurt your feelings by asking you to exercise ? People can be very insensitive these days. But yeah you should marry her. Good luck !

I AM VERY HANDSOME WITH GOOD BODY!

Are you tall and rich too ? She doesn't realize what she's missing.. especially with your laid back personality.

YES SHE DOESN'T. HOW TO MAKE HER REALIZE?

Be unconventional. Write her a poem.

I CAN'T. CAN YOU MAKE FOR ME?

as starwars would say: no

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WHY?

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@Shellyd238
10 Years

The way I see it, your only option is to be bold and confident and tell her straightforward, that you love her. She will either give you a try, or disappear. But the way you're going, she's going to disappear anyway, so you have nothing to lose.

Buuuuut, I also read some of your other thread and you seem kinda immature and fucking scary. If you're really like that in real life, she won't stick around long.

Good luck.