Trouble With The X Girlfriend!

Hi, I need everyone?s opinion here on what do about the X. Here?s the story. I met my Sag boyfriend about 1 _ years ago. When I meet him he was still with Orca, which I call her. She has some weird Russian name that sounds like Orca, so I call her Orca. They were together for 3 years and still together when I meet him. Then boom I meet him and he broke up with her the very next day. And now I am his girlfriend. He?s the owner of a hair salon. But ever since he broke up with her she goes to his house, and his work and tells him sweet nothings to get him back. She is there all the time bugging him. Even to this very day. I cannot help but be a little concerned, I know he would never go back with her, because, well just because I know. But it still bugs me when she is there all the time. She is best friends with his mom, but me and him both know its an excuse. So I need your opinion, should I be upset about her coming up there all the time, or should I just let it go and trust him?

Yes you should be upset Cap 77 - but not so much with Orca as with your Mr. Sag.

He's a grown man, he runs a salon etc. etc. - he's not a teeny-bopper!!
He's got to tell Orca in no uncertain terms it's not acceptable to him or to you for her to come around sweet-talking etc. and if she does, he should adamantaly refuse to let her in or speak to her.
As for being best pals with his mam, who can really blame her, it's her one remining thread to him -....which probably cant be cut to easily......but certainly he can do a much better job at telling Orca to back off than he is now.....if he can't do this for you, then I'd say there's some other agenda going on with Mr. Sag.

Good luck.

A x

Was there a film called Orca the Killer Whale or is that in my imagination??
I'm serious about that question folks?

Thanks AM:-)