What are you like in relationships or the way you approach people you like in general if you are a sag sun and Venus in Scorpio ? Info plz 🙂 do you test to see how far your objects will fight for you ? Do you persue etc .🙂
Venus in Scorpio !
I am a Sag sun and Scorp venus, and I will test for loyalty...If you fail, Deal breaker....
When I was younger, I would persue, but now I let him come to me......
this again.
i'm tired of me.
i'm tired of me.
Great info. I feel like I'm being tested. I am being observed carefully and he remembers my every words. People say he's so into me yet act aloof and cold. We are now even closer than before yet haven't discussed exclusivity. I am loyal and he knows that yet I don't want him to take an advantage of my loyalty. Do I keep my options open and still go on dates (Venus in Gemini) or do I keep showing him my sincere interests& loyalty without pushing for anything serious. I love my independent as I have air signs (moon in aqua) and him being a sun sag I respect his personal space. the question is do I keep seeing him and him only or should I see other people.. 😉 which one will make you more willing to commit?
Posted by Ulalume
Right out the gate I will keep crazy surveillance on
the person that has piqued my interest. I'm looking for
things that make them tick, what they like don't like.
Sometimes I might set up little "tests" to see their
reaction and how they handle themselves. The fundamental
thing for me is I need for the other person to have almost
a primal response to me and unflinching loyalty. If that's
not there I won't invest any further.
I pursue in a subtle, wooing, Salome dance-esque way. I
have to be sure you want me just as much as I want you.
Once I'm sure things are mutual and you match me in every
since of the word I stick my pincers in and you're mine 😄
What were your little tests that you done to test your potential mate? What happens if they fail? Do you give them another chance etc?
Thank you all! It makes sense now.. he mentioned though before the kiss that he's not ready for a girlfriend ..as he wants to save up , buy a property b get married etc on his next relationship.. so that's why I am tossing up between seeing other people ... I guess I will give it a few weeks and see how we go ... we are not exactly dating dating.. we are seeing each other more like... so the tests are confidential lol.. Such a Venus Scorpio thing to say..!! if I was to see other people would he think that I don't take him seriously even though he told me he's not ready for a girlfriend? Or is that a test also!!!!
I noticed that he's a guy with less words but more of an action kind of guy. Is that true for this Venus? He does seem very serious when it comes to dating and loving in general.
SunTauVenGem: Omg! its been like forever since the last time i heard from you 🙂 Nice to see you've moved on from the bull, good luck!
Posted by jeannegreyPosted by Ulalume
I don't do second chances in the amorous department.
The tests are confidential lol. It's basically just
stuff done subconsciously sometimes consciously to see
what you're made of and how loyal you are.
Don't play games with this guy to get him to commit
to only you. He'll smell the manipulation a mile away
and just might dead the budding relationship because of it.
When or if he's ready the topic of exclusivity will organically
come up. Whether or not you should see other people while
seeing this guy is totally on you. How long have you been dating?
Don't manipulate or play coy or try to *act* in any way around us. We know, and nothing is more disgusting IMO. Just be you, be honest and open and above all be sincere. He will see the sincerity and we like vulnerability too, even though we don't often give it.... hence him acting cold and aloof..... he is doesn't want to feel "naked" until he feels safe and even then we are not so easy to be pried open. We want to see all of you, but we don't want you to see all of us, I know... its BS.... just be sincere, and true, he will see it and appreciate it. Fake, games, acting coy or superficial=game OVER.click to expand
Thanks! Everyone is giving me some great advices!! I find him to be very " submissive" that department. Is that a typical Venus in Scorpio thing? also do you normally take you timeeeeeeee figuring that person out even if you are into them?? Even if you are .. I know you don't show it with words but action.. What have you done to show them that you are all in? I am very sincere and he has told stuff about himself that he never told anyone about. He must feel vulnerable and naked before we even do anything.. So I guess when I see him (which I do) as I am a Latin dancer and he's a singer of the band.. He watched my every move.. I better calm my Venus down or I might loose him .. Am I doing it right?🙂
Thanks @ Ulalume. I am going to keep my options open as I do believe him that he's not ready for a girlfriend as I don't wanna hang around waiting for nothing. It's just slightly difficult as he can see pretty clearly if I start to mingle with guys on the dance floor and the last thing i want is for him to see that I don't care and I was just playing him so I better keep my dating activities secret? I thought Venus in Scorpio was intensed in love so would you let your object slip away just because you are not ready? He's probably not that into as I would have hoped 😉
Sarah Silverman 😛
^^Yeah, you are crazy.
"Not too long ago, I read coincidentally on facebook, that he wrote some stuff along the lines he tells me, to another woman. Now I don't get jelaous or anything like that, but I must say, it just made me think, I was right to not ever date him, because he is the type of person, who can walk around being in love with several people at once or even just Express a lot of interest in them. To me that seems fake or to be some kind of move or that he just wants some feedback and need a girl to be his security blanket. I know NeXT time he gives me a compliment, I will think a Little less of it.
"
^^^You can have connections with a lot of people in this life. If a Water Venus doesn't realize this and keeps forcing issues, then it fails to see how manipulative and emotionally selfish they are. I talk from experience..also a Water Venus. People are not obligated to be loyal to you in the lack of any connection and even then they still aren't tied to you. It's a rope that binds both, not just one. Deciding who should be vulnerable first is a huge issue though.
"Not too long ago, I read coincidentally on facebook, that he wrote some stuff along the lines he tells me, to another woman. Now I don't get jelaous or anything like that, but I must say, it just made me think, I was right to not ever date him, because he is the type of person, who can walk around being in love with several people at once or even just Express a lot of interest in them. To me that seems fake or to be some kind of move or that he just wants some feedback and need a girl to be his security blanket. I know NeXT time he gives me a compliment, I will think a Little less of it.
"
^^^You can have connections with a lot of people in this life. If a Water Venus doesn't realize this and keeps forcing issues, then it fails to see how manipulative and emotionally selfish they are. I talk from experience..also a Water Venus. People are not obligated to be loyal to you in the lack of any connection and even then they still aren't tied to you. It's a rope that binds both, not just one. Deciding who should be vulnerable first is a huge issue though.
Wow some interesting feedback !.. I am not intending to hide secrets from him... we agreed on being "friends" as he said when it comes to relationship stuff I think differently... I don't know how he's feeling or anything.. The only thing I know is he never post love statuses on social media untill he been with me.. 2 days after we been together he posted this " you can't control who your heart beats for.. Who it would die for etc" and just before he comes on show as he's a singer he posted this " I don't have a billion dollar to give you.. I live in illusion...I can only sing you my love.. " n he knows I would be there... I am a little upset coz that could be for any girl...I dun know who this is about at all... Just strange he posted these stuff after we been together... Nothing make sense to me... I don't know whether to walk an wait.. If I move on he will just think I'm not that into him... But that's not fair as he is letting me go!....
Posted by Damnata
^^Yeah, you are crazy.
"Not too long ago, I read coincidentally on facebook, that he wrote some stuff along the lines he tells me, to another woman. Now I don't get jelaous or anything like that, but I must say, it just made me think, I was right to not ever date him, because he is the type of person, who can walk around being in love with several people at once or even just Express a lot of interest in them. To me that seems fake or to be some kind of move or that he just wants some feedback and need a girl to be his security blanket. I know NeXT time he gives me a compliment, I will think a Little less of it.
"
^^^You can have connections with a lot of people in this life. If a Water Venus doesn't realize this and keeps forcing issues, then it fails to see how manipulative and emotionally selfish they are. I talk from experience..also a Water Venus. People are not obligated to be loyal to you in the lack of any connection and even then they still aren't tied to you. It's a rope that binds both, not just one. Deciding who should be vulnerable first is a huge issue though.
+1
What is your experience with Leo Venus or does it work that way?
Perhaps a Cancer sun trine a Scorpio Venus. Hmmm
Discuss........
Perhaps a Cancer sun trine a Scorpio Venus. Hmmm
Discuss........
I see your point silent killer. what I don't understand is.. You didn't want him coz you said have no feelings towards him then why do you doubt his feelings toward you? Just a bit unfair don't you think? I'm not arguing I'm just trying to understand how your Venus work. Also we had a deep conversation last night and he said he can read me and trust me for some reason and in his life he doesn't trust many people.'i take that as a good thing. >
Updates : Things are heading towards positivity with us. We are bonding deeper and deeper. I can read underneath his cool surface which he tried to hide. I'm not sure why it's working.. I'm a Taurus sun . He's a sag sun. I'm an aqua moon. He's a capricon moon. I'm a venus in Gemini he's a venus in scorpio. I find him so interesting. I think his cool surface lures me in. I have such curious mind that he keeps me interested. We are extremely open to each other's weaknesses. The question is how do I go about dating and not dating other people...😢 on my birthday there was a massive party and I was enjoying myself to the max. I was performing and there were heaps of people admiring me etc . He pretended he didn't rememebr my birthday(lol). I knew he was lying. In the end he was the one I wanted out of everyone that were interested in me. He told me his friends are obsessed with me and I was a popular lady that night. He told me he has such soft spot for me and he really really likes me.... He told me I was very cute when we were having sex .... I love it he's so passionate...... So deep yet so cool .... I better take it slow... Thoughts?
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Great info. I feel like I'm being tested. I am being observed carefully and he remembers my every words. People say he's so into me yet act aloof and cold. We are now even closer than before yet haven't discussed exclusivity. I am loyal and he knows that yet I don't want him to take an advantage of my loyalty. Do I keep my options open and still go on dates (Venus in Gemini) or do I keep showing him my sincere interests& loyalty without pushing for anything serious. I love my independent as I have air signs (moon in aqua) and him being a sun sag I respect his personal space. the question is do I keep seeing him and him only or should I see other people.. 😉 which one will make you more willing to commit?
How long have you two been seeing each other for?
Posted by SunTauVenGem
I noticed that he's a guy with less words but more of an action kind of guy. Is that true for this Venus? He does seem very serious when it comes to dating and loving in general.
YES - Venus in Scorpio is all about showing through actions. Words are easy and mean nothing.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Updates : Things are heading towards positivity with us. We are bonding deeper and deeper. I can read underneath his cool surface which he tried to hide. I'm not sure why it's working.. I'm a Taurus sun . He's a sag sun. I'm an aqua moon. He's a capricon moon. I'm a venus in Gemini he's a venus in scorpio. I find him so interesting. I think his cool surface lures me in. I have such curious mind that he keeps me interested. We are extremely open to each other's weaknesses. The question is how do I go about dating and not dating other people...😢 on my birthday there was a massive party and I was enjoying myself to the max. I was performing and there were heaps of people admiring me etc . He pretended he didn't rememebr my birthday(lol). I knew he was lying. In the end he was the one I wanted out of everyone that were interested in me. He told me his friends are obsessed with me and I was a popular lady that night. He told me he has such soft spot for me and he really really likes me.... He told me I was very cute when we were having sex .... I love it he's so passionate...... So deep yet so cool .... I better take it slow... Thoughts?
It definitely sounds like he likes you and that there is potential for something to develop further. I'd say take it slow - I don't think he would be the type to say something he doesn't mean such as how much he likes you and how passionate the intimacy is between you guys. Just let him slowly become a part of your life and enjoy it 🙂
Posted by SunTauVenGem
What are you like in relationships or the way you approach people you like in general if you are a sag sun and Venus in Scorpio ? Info plz 🙂 do you test to see how far your objects will fight for you ? Do you persue etc .🙂
I have Sun in Sag and Venus in Scorpio and I don't intentionally try to test potential suitors or play games but I think that when you spend time with someone all the little things will say a lot about them (whether it's red flags or positive qualities shining through by how they handle certain situations or things they do/say). I don't pursue men and never have since I believe that if a woman is good enough then she will have the ability to lure men and have them chase her. I only reciprocate the interest if there is a very strong initial attraction or intrigue of some kind which is rare or else I usually wait until they have really proved themselves to have genuine intentions.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by SunTauVenGem
Great info. I feel like I'm being tested. I am being observed carefully and he remembers my every words. People say he's so into me yet act aloof and cold. We are now even closer than before yet haven't discussed exclusivity. I am loyal and he knows that yet I don't want him to take an advantage of my loyalty. Do I keep my options open and still go on dates (Venus in Gemini) or do I keep showing him my sincere interests& loyalty without pushing for anything serious. I love my independent as I have air signs (moon in aqua) and him being a sun sag I respect his personal space. the question is do I keep seeing him and him only or should I see other people.. 😉 which one will make you more willing to commit?
Oh boy I don't know if this is right advise but as a Scorpio venus I would not like the subject of my affection to date others. Even though we aren't exclusive I will guard up.click to expand
Totally agree on that - I am not into casual dating so if I'm seeing someone (even without exclusivity) then it's because I am truly interested in them and want to see where things could go. By them dating other people, it would make me feel like I'm just another one in the flock and I would probably get turned off.
Posted by Ulalume
Right out the gate I will keep crazy surveillance on
the person that has piqued my interest. I'm looking for
things that make them tick, what they like don't like.
Sometimes I might set up little "tests" to see their
reaction and how they handle themselves. The fundamental
thing for me is I need for the other person to have almost
a primal response to me and unflinching loyalty. If that's
not there I won't invest any further.
I pursue in a subtle, wooing, Salome dance-esque way. I
have to be sure you want me just as much as I want you.
Once I'm sure things are mutual and you match me in every
since of the word I stick my pincers in and you're mine 😄
Im not a sag but I have a Venus in Scorpio and this was on the money for me 😉
Posted by vesperlynd83Posted by ImpulsvPosted by SunTauVenGem
Great info. I feel like I'm being tested. I am being observed carefully and he remembers my every words. People say he's so into me yet act aloof and cold. We are now even closer than before yet haven't discussed exclusivity. I am loyal and he knows that yet I don't want him to take an advantage of my loyalty. Do I keep my options open and still go on dates (Venus in Gemini) or do I keep showing him my sincere interests& loyalty without pushing for anything serious. I love my independent as I have air signs (moon in aqua) and him being a sun sag I respect his personal space. the question is do I keep seeing him and him only or should I see other people.. 😉 which one will make you more willing to commit?
Oh boy I don't know if this is right advise but as a Scorpio venus I would not like the subject of my affection to date others. Even though we aren't exclusive I will guard up.click to expand
Totally agree on that - I am not into casual dating so if I'm seeing someone (even without exclusivity) then it's because I am truly interested in them and want to see where things could go. By them dating other people, it would make me feel like I'm just another one in the flock and I would probably get turned off.
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