What should I do? Male sag stressed...

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by happykitsune on Sunday, June 26, 2011 and has 3 replies.

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@happykitsune
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I think I know already, but I'd like some outside advice.

I haven't texted my sag after he told me he couldn't come with me to the blueberry farm today. He's dealing with stress from his family. His aunt is losing her house and she's trying to find a place to stay, like with him and his sister, but there is no room for her at his house. He's having to help her move out all day so I haven't received any texts from him at all today after I talked to him earlier.

I've let him know last night that I'm here for him if he needs me, so now I'm just going to leave him alone and give him space until he wants to contact me.

...I guess this is all I can do..right?

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@Gemini78
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Yes i think given him space is the right thing 2 do for now so he can clear his head i think he will eventually come around
i have a Sag nefphew and my moon is in Sag so we get along and understand each other really well he always knows the right time 2 contact me and vice versa. Also U can always call and touch Bases with him just 2 say hi all in all everything will B kool because Sages wont stay stressed for 2 long 2 optimistic for that 🙂

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@happykitsune
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Posted by Gemini78
Yes i think given him space is the right thing 2 do for now so he can clear his head i think he will eventually come around
i have a Sag nefphew and my moon is in Sag so we get along and understand each other really well he always knows the right time 2 contact me and vice versa. Also U can always call and touch Bases with him just 2 say hi all in all everything will B kool because Sages wont stay stressed for 2 long 2 optimistic for that 🙂

Thanks for the advice. We work together so I will be able to say hi then. I have a feeling this space will do the situation some good.
You're right, we don't stay stressed for too long, so I'm banking on this to cease soon.

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@scorpdiva
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I posted on your other thread but yes give him time to deal with his family and stressed issues he will be distant until those things are settle which like you said shouldn't be long. I would still however let him know he is on your mind by saying hi and being friendly but don't make a big issue of his silence.