What's causual dating means to Sags—

OK, I'm a Taurus/Aries. I'm recently dating this Sag. His the third Sag that I've been dated and I have no complains about him and he is so completely different then those other sags I dated. I tend to stay away from Sags but when I met him it was comppletely different. We're always laughing and making each laugh, I mean silly stuffs. We felt like we were both back in high school lol I dont know if as you go older or with more expierence,I mean, I used to be go-forth type girl I dive right in. But I stopped searching but when he came into my life I was totally swept away. It's the smiles, his gentleness, caring(very naturing like a cancerian...strange), silliness, easy going, lovable and smart that caught my attention. Esp the little things that he does...so sweet and cute. I'm a sucker for little gestures. lol

So I want to know, he had mentioned it many times that we're causually dating right now. I think he's just so afraid of commitment and being tight down. I'm not rushing into it either so I have no problem with that. But I'm just curious if we're just causual dating, then why is he acting like he's my boyfriend? He wants me to come over hang out at his place and cook together...Isnt this a couple thing not causual dating? He did say that he loves being with me and hanging out with me but it's just too early to say...hmm.

Anway, one word to describe him: CHARMING

another thing that confused me is that if this is causual dating, why is he constantly texting me cheking me and so attentative to everythig I do? Even would ask me what did I do the other day after he dropped me off sort of like loves to follow up with me lol My other Sags would never check on me and if I text them hardly hear a word from them. But with him, he's very attentive to my feelings and needs. I'm not sure if this is his caring nature or what. I thought Sags loves freedom and hates boredom, the thing with him is that it seems like he wants to hang out with me everyday lol soooo contradicting with Sag traits and his saying we're causual dating. Maybe he likes me more then he think he realized it lol

by the way, I'm older then him.

hahahahahahahh jeesh thanks so much for the encouragement jk 😉 Well, yeah we're in the honeymoon phrase I guess. The lovey dovey type lol But strange thing is that with my other 2 sags they werent like him at all. That's why I'm confusing with. He's more like a cancerian to me. Funny about your comment about most sags turns out bad in the end...I mean, is it really that bad? I think if I were 5 yrs ago we met then we probably wouldnt stand a chance. The last one broke up only in 4 months. I think I didnt know how to handle a sag but now I know lol Thanks for the advise and I'll try to slow things down and give him the space he craves, becaues I'm at the point of my life where I want my space as well. I have my life too you know lmao

The ultimate question is: Does Sags ever fall in love at all and make that big leap for commitment? Not that I'm rushing it but just curious.

OMG that's so funny. That's exactly what he said to me and he thinks for the fact that I'm very goal-oriented and know what I want in life is so hot hehehehehe Not to mention fun to be with and we both feel very comfortable being around each other. When I first found out he's a sag I got totally turned off lmao but he did his charms on me alright hahahaha Yes, I need to take things slow, cuz I got this Aries trait and Taurus stubborness in me. Thanks for the wishes. =)

Oh and anther thing is weird is that he's kind of sentimental. He keeps little stuffs that has meanings for him. Kind of contradict the sag traits isnt it?

Can you imagine him being so charmy and in uniforms...gosh lol

He just told me his whole agenda for the day today lol OK, I started to think he's not a Sag......

yeah speaking of phone he would go and check my text message sometimes if it goes off or ask me if i was texting to whom lmao on how the way he did it so discreetly not not possessively which seems very amusing to me...keeps me wondering which is good hahaha I thought that was cute cuz he'a a sag and he shouldnt be doing stuffs like according to the traits....yeah he would show me his phone too. Last time we were going through his pics he saved on his phone...he was showing me his family pics!!!!!

lol not that long. We were friends for two months before he asked me for date. Now here is the thing, asking out and ask for a date are they the same according to guys? Heck yeah, he's VERY consistency that's why I dont get it!!!! This is not something a Sag would do. Belive me gosh my ex bf was so like a sag he drove me crazy really but they're all charmers. This one I'm seeing, however, is more "sincere". Like he would do stuffs in action to prove it not just saying it. So that kind of reassure me from time to time. It's pretty cool to meet someone like that with mutual respect and understanding. For his age he's pretty mature.

im in my late 30's and he's late 20's

another strange thing about him is he mention so many times about getting married in the future, his kids, his family...weird they not supposed to have ideas like that lol

"How Old are you both if I may Ask..? I Agree they are all Charmers =)
Well It's a bit too soon, Just be cautious so he doesn't break you're heart..."Enjoying him" is the best advice I can give you" Yep.

Thanks for the "warnings" lol I'll make sure I etch it in my heart and keep reminding myself. I know it's too soon to determine the factors but so far so good. I'm going to try to keep that special part of my heart guarded so I dont ended up getting hurt liks last time. What happened with me and my last sag was that I totally put my whole heart into it and we did love each other but it's just that it happens to quick. So it ended up eventually, however we still talk every once in a while and he still wants to get back to me and told me he still have feelings for me. Strange right? Are sags just attracted to Aries/Taurus or what? I know we're not the most compatible pairs according to astrology. I guess for now I'll just have to go with the flows and learn not to plan everything ahead lol I've learned my lesson of being burnt in the past so I'm very cautiously right now although I know my feeling for this dude is truthful and real and that's all that matters. No games here.

Yea I did mention to him that being I'm older then him but he doesnt mind. I think I look younger then my actual age and sometimes act like a kid too lmao

Anyhow, thanks for the advises. I really appreicate em. TGIF People.

yea he told me he likes what i have to offer i guess one of my greatest strength is being truthful to myself. He has mentioned it numberously times that just be myself so i guess he likes me as a whole...well so far. lol

Is it true that once sags are hurt in the past or that the previously relationship didnt work out for whatever reason and they tend to dwell on the facts that "all" relationship is going not to work out— It seems to me that although he's quite a confident self but when it comes to relationship he is not so certain. Maybe it has to be with the fact that they're free-sprited personnel? Well I'm not gonna dig too deep into this trying to figure him out. I'll just relax and take it from there.

Funny at the comment about committment part lol Well I guess if he would have met me few years ago yes I would want his commitment. But right now I'm at the phrase of focusing at my career and further my studies so I don't think I have those extra times to want to have someone commited to me, at least not at this point of my life right now. So yea it's cool that we're always having a good time and get along pretty well and that's all it matters right now. He can take all the times he wants becuase I'm not rush into things. But overall, I'm pretty impressed.

speaking of commitment, i remembered my ex-sag we dated for 4 months and he asked me to marry him and obviously I freaked out cause i'm a very slow person. So it's true that if sags meet the right woman they would dive right into it I guess?

how do you get those charts things

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/<BR>

i know but what confused me big time is the way he acts towards me. It is NOT casual dating at all....he's acting like my bf to be honest. I mean I still get cold feet when I think about a serious relationship due to the fact that I ended a bad one couple years ago so it's been hard for me to really open up to guys....until he came along. I mean, we're basically doing the stuffs what couples would do, we text each other good morning and good night, hang out all the time...the only part is that we haven't make it official yet. Funny was that he menitoned it few times if my parents have asked about him lol I mean I'm really enjoying this "causual" thing(not that I'm seeing someone else nor is he) it puts less loads on both of us while we can truely enjoy being with each other. It's funny how he would keep asking me when we're going to hang out again or he would constantly check on me and see how I was doing. I think it's the little things that he does that's so sweet and really caught my attention. I often think action is better then words so last time i was in his car and I flipped down the visor only to find no mirrors there so that was it. Then the next time I tried to look for mirror he just said it as a matter of factly that he puts the mirror up there for me....that's sweet when guys do stuffs like that without the girls telling them to do so, it means he's paying attention lol Well, so far so good and I'm very happy so is he. Thank you guys for the advices.