you as a sagi (jealousy and possessivness)

do you feel that you are possessive and get really jealous when you are in love? i know i do but i do not always chow it to prevent problems and to keep the one i love but just the thought my man cheating (which he will never do... unless he stops loving me) about it hurts a lot and then a get so angry of the thought of it actually happening. i get so upset that i actually has happened lol

am i crazy or just madly in love? oh yeah i do calm down though as the optimism kicks in 😛 😄

so what about you as a sagi?

i meant show no chew. (and i get so upset that it actually has happened). with that i mean that just thinking about it makes it seem real in my head 😛

No and all the sags I know aren't either. People are usually of us, other way around. If we ever get worried it's because we know we aren't a "realtionship sign" there for if they cheat its cause were probably too neglectful or were too secure with ourselfs and scared the man away. Felt like he wasn't needed. I've seen this happen to alot of my sag friends and myself. But you know we are the sign of friendship and adventure! If you can't deal with it than get the hell out! lol

absolutely there is no question about it, i will end it and seek revenge later on as it is unacceptable... but that would need some planing as i would like to hit the right spot!!! would probably be better to brake up and then do what you want as i see it as the same thing. cheating is like telling them you do not love them anymore so brake up instead. both will break a heart but one will do it more than the other.

You know it was weird, my Sag ex was like this, and he said he's never been like that with any of his other girlfriends and he hated it. He has a Pisces moon and was a Scorp cusper though.

Lol what the fck does being jealous have to do with being unfaithful...

You're grasping now.

*bangs head against desk*

I heard that too

one of my sagittarius besties loves being in relationship, doesn't make her any less sagi to me though. she's the most independent person i know. crap dude, if i cant meet up with her she'll hit the bar alone and have 30 new best friends and a new job by the end of the night. she's awesome and fearless and she's lived in like 4 states in the last 4 years and know she's an international rep for her company. she comes to visit me this weekend 😄 😄 😄

^Awesome

Actually all saggies are awesome with a capital A, never met any of them that I don't like yet.

As a half sag, I think I can be jealous in a relationship but then the weird thing is I hate being jealous and know its a stupid reaction that I can reason or solve in my head, its either I outright say something about that jealousy to my partner to solve the issue at hand or I think its dumb that I am even jealous. Can't explain it.

I think Sagg aint jealous type at all.. each time a guy tried to make me jealous, it back fired. I normally say "Yeah have fun" and smile. I guess everyone is different but Sagg are the most chilled out people I know...No drama with us but yeah its hard to keep us 😉

I can completely relate to this. I could never figure out why considering my chart is primarily Fire/Air. But yeah. I think when we really really love someone but we don't have a full grasp on them, we become jealous/possessive/needy, ect. It may have a lot to do with the "chasing" aspect. But honestly, I've had deep feelings for this one guy who was extremely emotionally detached. I told him that I just needed to feel like he really wanted me. I can't figure it out but I think it may have been like a security thing. Maybe we see something in ourselves and how destructive it is to people who are emotionally attached to us, that when we become emotionally involved we need instant reassurance in the relationship. It's not really a control thing, I don't want to control someone. It's more of a "I really love you. So I need to know how you feel before I jump into this and get hurt. Are you going to faithful? Are you reassured in your love for me? Are you going to tell the world about me and be proud, even when it means you have to proudly tell the super pretty colleague of yours who is also interested in you?" I think when we become emotionally involved to that extent, more then anything we need to be rest-assured in the loyalty of the other individual. If we are reassured that they do care, they are faithful, and proud of what they have in us. We can sleep easier at night and so can they. haha. When we truly trust someone else consider your freedom ALL yours. We will not be clingy or needy.You're free to come and go as you please. We want the same. But we will remain faithful and you will still have our love. But back to the guy who was emotionally detached, or so he acted. Eventually I got tired of trying to figure out if he really had any passion for me and moved on to someone else after 3 years. I know some Sagittarians will chase for a lifetime trying to get that guy who plays the game well. But eventually you realise it's just not worth it. About a year and a half into the relationship I saw no change and I started thinking I don't really know how he feels because he never displays it. I got worked up because I thought that meant he didn't care and was with someone else. It ate me alive for the longest time. I kept waiting for him to show how he truly felt and he didn't. I broke it off with him and it nearly killed him. He said that he cared but he just never showed that he did and he was sorry. By then my neediness was gone and it was too late for him.

my sag ex was very jealous and possessive. if he called and i didnt answer he'll call allll nite. den pop up at my door actin a fool. he was also very insecure. if he saw me talkin 2 n e guy he would start given me the third degree. i will say dat sumtimes im a flirt and dnt realize it. i think it was a ego and pride thing wit him. he's convinced he could have n e chick he wants and hav deem bow at his feet. and he attracts a lot of dumbs girls so he prob can get dat but i was neva a ego stroker. lol we drove each other nuts ( n gd and bad ways)

Posted by brianafay
*bangs head against desk*

lol

This seems to happen with Sags with Scorp Venus. For some reason, I notice that of all signs that could end up having a Venus Scorpio, Sags have the toughest time managing it. They tend to let all the ickiness of the placement all hang out.. eww.

Libras don't seem to enjoy the placement either...but they tend to only drive themselves crazy with it, lol.

The Virgos, Scorps and Caps seem to have an easier time with it.

C'est la vie...



...but yeah. If the Sag in question has any other Venus sign, I'm stumped.

I am a scorp with a venus/moon is sag. I am jealous. Very much. Maybe you have a point crunchy regarding the sag/scorp combo

This thread is old but h came accross it looking at compatibility since I'm now being chased by yet another sag... The one I previously dated has sag sun Pisces moon... I never knew how he felt about me... But anytime I became distant or got more attention on a post or something or responded and said thank you in a post (not to one person just general thank you). He would act passive aggressive and post mems about not being loyal or started his flirting mems... If he was really angry he would put up an I am single post it mem and this is either after an argument or when he felt I was leaving for real. It used to confuse me cause I know they flirt... But I spy a lot and started noticing the pattern... A shame I didn't make the connection till now but yes I think based on other aspects of their chart, they are jealous at times. He was also married before and told me that he got tired of wondering if she was cheating and vice versa and they split. Funny.... She was a Taurus too. Ah well... NEXT MAN PLEASE.

Posted by rominan-sagittarius
do you feel that you are possessive and get really jealous when you are in love? i know i do but i do not always chow it to prevent problems and to keep the one i love but just the thought my man cheating (which he will never do... unless he stops loving me) about it hurts a lot and then a get so angry of the thought of it actually happening. i get so upset that i actually has happened lol

am i crazy or just madly in love? oh yeah i do calm down though as the optimism kicks in 😛 😄

so what about you as a sagi?

what about sags making their partners jealous by constantly calling up friends? seriously..