I need help

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Kittenofthenell on Friday, February 12, 2010 and has 19 replies.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Cancers and Sags are just a doomed combination. I know you probably think he's so cute and sweet and loveable -but if you stay together, you will seriously end up hating him & yes, hate is a strong a word and I'm not using it out of context.

You'll get sick of his whining and sulking and temper tantrums

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Totally a love-hate situation & the line is very thin between those two emotions.

I don't know about other Sags, but Cancers make me feel DERANGED. I can absolutely love them one minute, and the next I want to rip their face off. ...and I know I'm not the only Sag to feel this way.

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@FUMRedFairy_tales
17 Years1,000+ Posts

wow... did you say 2 years?

hm.. you are pretty good keeping up with his moods, honey. I dealt with a cancer man for 15 years. I still can't imagine how I did it..

they sure are cute, but if you want to stick to him, then learn not to take things personally and just blame it on his moods because they can change as fast from a morning sun to a sudden hurricane in minutes, but they will need adjusting and YOU will need to be flexible. Also.. if you have a problem.. not sure if he will be there for you. That is the time when you need to be strong because he will tell you that.

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@amyl
16 YearsSagittarius

Posted by brianafay
I need my choir

you are not the only one,

I cant stand Cancer guys dating/relationship wise.. they are really clueless of our nature,
they cant give us what we need, I know I need to feel free, stay with positive people, and I am gerenous by nature etc..

they are too attached to their mommy too, tho theres nothing wrong with that, to me thats a time bomb..

tho I have never dated one, I had a few cancer guys asking me out, I never felt good with one, so I would actually take any step beyond being friends, and even at friendship I find it hard to keep it, it just doesnt flow, and there are so many fun things to do, than that.

Have fun!! 🙂

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@silentdoll9
17 Years

Im glad to know that I am not the only Sagittarius that can't stand Cancers. People say we sagg??s are bipolars then what are Cancers? No offense to anyone here but they are nuts! and have the strangest and biggest mood swings ever!

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@cancergem
17 Years500+ PostsCancer

hmm... i've dated a couple of cancer boys, they were both quite different from each other but neither sulked or had temper tantrums and they most definitely never cursed at me. i used to be friends with a sag who had all the supposed bad traits of a cancer. he was clingy, possessive, had multiple temper tantrums (some violent), and was always crying about something... ugh! anyway, you're bf is just being a jerk. is this a recent thing? or has he always been like this?