why am I superficial?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by monroelove on Friday, November 9, 2012 and has 7 replies.

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@monroelove
13 Years

People keep saying that I am being superficial.

Is it wrong to care about the looks of other people you are with? Why force yourself to be attracted to someone who is not attractive physically to you?

I'm getting tired of hearing this.

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@caligula
16 Years1,000+ Posts

it's not wrong to have preferences. you're just uber-douchy when it comes to the extent of them. essentially, everyone is telling you that you're an asshole and if you hear it enough, it must be true.

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@Wynter
15 Years10,000+ Posts

I've noticed that people with the same degree of physical attractiveness are attractive to each other.

You probably will not notice someone who is less attractive than you.

After all, you don't see many supermodels pairing up with buck-tooth hillbillys.

Don't worry about what others think.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by monroelove
People keep saying that I am being superficial.

Is it wrong to care about the looks of other people you are with? Why force yourself to be attracted to someone who is not attractive physically to you?

I'm getting tired of hearing this.

only ugly believe shit like that.

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@monroelove
13 Years

I know I am not the most attractive person in the world, but I take care of myself. And I expect the person I am with to do the same thing. I also have stopped hanging out with depsressive people. I'm sorry but life is too short to be drug down.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

It boils down to what you make a priority when meeting someone. Apparently your comment was made in the midst of a conversation outlining your dating habit. Simply put, while we are individuals, people who are attractive carry the same types of attitudes and don't think to look beyond the surface before getting deeply involves. If you base your attraction on looks being a priority, then you get shallowness or shallowness. You get what you put in. Karma. How you measure others etc

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Pecheresse
Being superficial is kind of an invitation for nothing more than fast food fun.

You can also surprise men with a sense of humour, intelligence, sharing your own opinions on politics, and overall stuff that will surprise them and keep them interested. Not sure your fake tits or lashes will do the trick in the long run.

lol @ fake tits and lashes.

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@monroelove
13 Years

Posted by Pecheresse
Being superficial is kind of an invitation for nothing more than fast food fun.

You can also surprise men with a sense of humour, intelligence, sharing your own opinions on politics, and overall stuff that will surprise them and keep them interested. Not sure your fake tits or lashes will do the trick in the long run.

Um...I don't need fake lashes or fake tits..

I never said I was fake.

Everyone else, thanks for the comments. 🙂