Would enjoy some insight!

So, I’m just basically curious on how to interpret this from a friendship perspective, mainly from male sags. If a Sagittarius doesn’t ask you (as a friend) to go to events together how should I interpret that? As in he seems to ask others more and never asks you even if you try mentioning going yourself. Or you ask directly and seems to avoid saying yes. You hang out every once in a while. Although I’m told he enjoys hanging out with me. Basically I’m never invited along to social events.

Sags don't like to be put on the spot like that.

Telling you why you aren't invited to social events.....imo sag would only tell you that in an outburst when you push buttons. In any other circumstance they'd just avoid the issue and avoid bringing you along.

He doesn't like you that much. Probably a bit annoyed with you too. If he goes out of his way to ignore your innocent innuendos where you'd like to go....

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Sags don't like to be put on the spot like that.

Telling you why you aren't invited to social events.....imo sag would only tell you that in an outburst when you push buttons. In any other circumstance they'd just avoid the issue and avoid bringing you along.

He doesn't like you that much. Probably a bit annoyed with you too. If he goes out of his way to ignore your innocent innuendos where you'd like to go....

Sorry, I think I wrote something wrong. I actually never questioned him. Not once. I’m just wondering why on the behavior.

Also, he does go to more than half the invites I do give him but that’s always 1 on 1. It’s never the other way around where I’m invited. I just want to figure out why I don’t get invited back.

My interpretation would be... he feels little connection or is socially spreading himself too thinly. If a Sagittarian likes you as a friend (or more) they will be positively excited to invite you along and as many people as possible. Especially if you are close buddies, male or female included.

Another possibility is if he's sensing the slightest whiff of being "clung onto" or tied down or cornered. Remember that freedom is essential to our sign, but this can manifest in some very strange ways. The slightest "cling" can spook a Sag out.

I was feeling that with a Capricorn friend today, but realise its more my mentality.

Modern Cosmic has some wonderful vids on Youtube going into Sag claustrophobia. And it is a complete dichotomy of states as Sagittarians enjoy networking, bringing lots of different people together and have many different friendship groups (often with little in common with each other). It's all about expansion, experimentation and achieving a greater breadth and honesty.

Best bet is just to ask him straight up. Just be prepared for the truth, whatever it is! Or maybe... be sneaky... stop the invites... see what reaction you get... good luck x

Posted by AzureBlue
My interpretation would be... he feels little connection or is socially spreading himself too thinly. If a Sagittarian likes you as a friend (or more) they will be positively excited to invite you along and as many people as possible. Especially if you are close buddies, male or female included.

Another possibility is if he's sensing the slightest whiff of being "clung onto" or tied down or cornered. Remember that freedom is essential to our sign, but this can manifest in some very strange ways. The slightest "cling" can spook a Sag out.

I was feeling that with a Capricorn friend today, but realise its more my mentality.

Modern Cosmic has some wonderful vids on Youtube going into Sag claustrophobia. And it is a complete dichotomy of states as Sagittarians enjoy networking, bringing lots of different people together and have many different friendship groups (often with little in common with each other). It's all about expansion, experimentation and achieving a greater breadth and honesty.

Best bet is just to ask him straight up. Just be prepared for the truth, whatever it is! Or maybe... be sneaky... stop the invites... see what reaction you get... good luck x

Thank you so much for your insight! I actually ended up doing that yesterday. Didn’t contact at all cause I’ve been having problems and such. Contacted me this morning saying he was a little concerned for me since he hadn’t heard back from me in a while. I would say he’s really good at responding. Too good that it actually scares me. I leave something for a conversation to end and he somehow adds something to end it.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I asked my Aries friend out once and she declined. I fuking ignored her for 2 months

Just went super cold

I'm petty tho

That happened with my Aries friend but reversed. He had feelings for me, I rejected. Shortly after he started to say our friendship was toxic, freaked out. I didn’t respond back. He deleted me from Facebook and everything. I didn’t care then slowly after 4 months he came back and now we’re friends again. He did the contacting. Aha, I guess I don’t care that much. If I did I wouldn’t allowed him back in. I have pride, just not large amounts of it.