So i have been posting in here about a scorpio man who i have been friends with for some time he would act interested in being more than friends. But would pull back and said we are just friends anyway i grew tired of his games and went no contact. And on the 35th day of no contact he called me on watsapp and straight call i didnt answer his calls. Why would he contact me after that time of no contact. When the last time i called him he acted like i was annoying him so i just left him alone.
SCORPIO MAN MADE CONTACT AFTER NO CONTACT
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Quarantine attention

He’s checking on you. You guys are friends, right? What’s the big deal?
a simple question was asked theres no need for sarcasm or name calling
Posted by saggurl88
He’s checking on you. You guys are friends, right? What’s the big deal?
i believe i was more of a friend to him than he me so in other words it was lopsided
Posted by DMV
Quarantine attention
i think so since he cant go out drinking or clubbing with his friends

Posted by candykane38Posted by saggurl88
He’s checking on you. You guys are friends, right? What’s the big deal?
i believe i was more of a friend to him than he me so in other words it was lopsidedclick to expand
You put time limits on friendships? You were more interested in a relationship than him. It’s up to you if you want to continue the friendship.
He is obviously wondering about you, whether he’s bored or not. He is still checking in on you.
Everyone has tons of time on their hands right now. So don’t hold that against him. There are plenty of people not worth reaching out to at all. You clearly aren’t one of them in his eyes.
Posted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.click to expand
thank you for your response for the better pary of six months i allowed myself to be abused emotionally if i said something that he didnt like he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment if he invited me out and he didnt follow through and i question him as to why he didnt he would become very defensive and said were just friends etc. so we were just or only friends when it suited him other times he flirted and gave me false hopes so i decided to go no contact and let him be. The last time i contacted him he sounded annoyed so i gave him what he wanted and leave him alone that should make him happy that i am gone from his life


Posted by candykane38Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
thank you for your response for the better pary of six months i allowed myself to be abused emotionally if i said something that he didnt like he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment if he invited me out and he didnt follow through and i question him as to why he didnt he would become very defensive and said were just friends etc. so we were just or only friends when it suited him other times he flirted and gave me false hopes so i decided to go no contact and let him be. The last time i contacted him he sounded annoyed so i gave him what he wanted and leave him alone that should make him happy that i am gone from his lifeclick to expand
If you feel you were being emotionally abused by him then you did the right thing and shouldn’t accept any contact from him.
Wondering why he actually contacted you is something no one can tell you except him. But protecting your own mental health is something you should be doing always.

Posted by HearttofTopazzPosted by saggurl88Posted by HearttofTopazz
Are you related to Candy Cane?
I think she’s related to CandyLand
😂 if you only knew how obsessed I was with that game when I was a kid
Candy land, is dat doo?click to expand
I was too! I loved it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Posted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄click to expand
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.

He sounds like a pain in the arse....I’d move on >>>>>
Posted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
they never give up but deal with people on their terms
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
Posted by BathHouseCulturePosted by candykane38Posted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
they never give up but deal with people on their terms
So self orientated like a child
It’s quite sickeningclick to expand
and they cry if they dont get their way i know its manipulation they dont like to be corrected either
Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Posted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.
Reading comprehension. You don't even know what I meant by that so chill. I think my other fellow scorpios know why I posted that comment. Because weirdo shave been posting some annoying thread on our board lately. You sound so offended for 0 reason. You twisted everything as if somebody personally victimized you. Whether you dislike Scorpios or not, please get some help. 🙄click to expand
First of all, much love for mature scorpios everywhere. It's the unevolved ones, the ones that bully and cause problems to avoid dealing with their darker qualities that I don't take smack from.
You called a fellow DXP user names for posting an astrology question over an astrology board. If, like you say, other users are posting questions you cop an issue with then just be upfront and deal with them dead on. You're being passive aggressive, by lashing out at me and kandycane38. Also, no one is posting over your, or "our" forum as you mentioned. This is everyone's forum, a public forum for anyone with questions about a particular a zodiac sign.
Projecting the blame is manipulation, another hallmark of unevolved scorpios.
Uhm, "I don't know what you meant by that" but, the conversation is between you and me at this point. You said other scorpios understand what you mean. By your own admission, you never intended for me or candykane38 to understand what you meant when you bullied her, since during this conversation, you're too busy communicating with a whole other group of people. Indirect communication, projecting the blame, talking over themselves; hallmark unevolved Scorpio symptoms.
Why not just "Phoenix" up already..
Posted by dilettantePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.
Reading comprehension. You don't even know what I meant by that so chill. I think my other fellow scorpios know why I posted that comment. Because weirdo shave been posting some annoying thread on our board lately. You sound so offended for 0 reason. You twisted everything as if somebody personally victimized you. Whether you dislike Scorpios or not, please get some help. 🙄
First of all, much love for mature scorpios everywhere. It's the unevolved ones, the ones that bully and cause problems to avoid dealing with their darker qualities that I don't take smack from.
You called a fellow DXP user names for posting an astrology question over an astrology board. If, like you say, other users are posting questions you cop an issue with then just be upfront and deal with them dead on. You're being passive aggressive, by lashing out at me and kandycane38. Also, no one is posting over your, or "our" forum as you mentioned. This is everyone's forum, a public forum for anyone with questions about a particular a zodiac sign.
Projecting the blame is manipulation, another hallmark of unevolved scorpios.
Uhm, "I don't know what you meant by that" but, the conversation is between you and me at this point. You said other scorpios understand what you mean. By your own admission, you never intended for me or candykane38 to understand what you meant when you bullied her, since during this conversation, you're too busy communicating with a whole other group of people. Indirect communication, projecting the blame, talking over themselves; hallmark unevolved Scorpio symptoms.
Why not just "Phoenix" up already..
why do you care so much?click to expand
Dilettante, thank you. That was a direct question free of insults. You want to understand me, and I respect you.
I care because I care about people. People are the real riches of life. We all need them. While candykane38 doesn't have all the answers, she's trying to improve her skills dealing with a certain type of person by seeking counsel. And I feel that someone with leverage in this situation to help her is abusing their status by publicly shaming her for it.
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.
Reading comprehension. You don't even know what I meant by that so chill. I think my other fellow scorpios know why I posted that comment. Because weirdo shave been posting some annoying thread on our board lately. You sound so offended for 0 reason. You twisted everything as if somebody personally victimized you. Whether you dislike Scorpios or not, please get some help. 🙄
First of all, much love for mature scorpios everywhere. It's the unevolved ones, the ones that bully and cause problems to avoid dealing with their darker qualities that I don't take smack from.
You called a fellow DXP user names for posting an astrology question over an astrology board. If, like you say, other users are posting questions you cop an issue with then just be upfront and deal with them dead on. You're being passive aggressive, by lashing out at me and kandycane38. Also, no one is posting over your, or "our" forum as you mentioned. This is everyone's forum, a public forum for anyone with questions about a particular a zodiac sign.
Projecting the blame is manipulation, another hallmark of unevolved scorpios.
Uhm, "I don't know what you meant by that" but, the conversation is between you and me at this point. You said other scorpios understand what you mean. By your own admission, you never intended for me or candykane38 to understand what you meant when you bullied her, since during this conversation, you're too busy communicating with a whole other group of people. Indirect communication, projecting the blame, talking over themselves; hallmark unevolved Scorpio symptoms.
Why not just "Phoenix" up already..
I agree with you about peachy on this one... when I posted my first thread a few years ago, and poured my soul out...I was a nervous wreck...she wrote the same and I was soooo miserable because of it that I succumbed and deleted my account... Now...I don't give a shit because who knows what's her catch. She can't help it I suppose.click to expand
See this response Dilettante? This is why I care--
Posted by Sailor_Mars
You will never be on clear terms with a Scorpio. They aren't clear with themselves and are ignorantly fueled by their own passions...This might be one bad example, but I was the love of his life to one, and that didn't help him become consistent and willing to work as a team. So much intensity and drama...And after all those years I don't believe he ever loved me. Just a creature fueled with jealousy, lust, possessiveness...I mean he's great and he is all I love in a man...but was never worth a normal person's life...but me...man, I could write horror stories about a weak man with no courage to feel and fight for true love.
To get back on You...yes he wants attention, yes he will again...but you will never have him and your peace of mind at the same time.
i thank you for sharing your experience with me i have never dated a scorpio but since being friends i have been reading up alot about them and one thing keep coming up is how inconsistent they are. giving mix sgnals hot and cold etc i have to wonder if its being done intentionally just to get a rise from the other person or if its a game they playing
Posted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and allclick to expand
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...click to expand
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
Posted by peachy06Posted by dilettantePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.
Reading comprehension. You don't even know what I meant by that so chill. I think my other fellow scorpios know why I posted that comment. Because weirdo shave been posting some annoying thread on our board lately. You sound so offended for 0 reason. You twisted everything as if somebody personally victimized you. Whether you dislike Scorpios or not, please get some help. 🙄
First of all, much love for mature scorpios everywhere. It's the unevolved ones, the ones that bully and cause problems to avoid dealing with their darker qualities that I don't take smack from.
You called a fellow DXP user names for posting an astrology question over an astrology board. If, like you say, other users are posting questions you cop an issue with then just be upfront and deal with them dead on. You're being passive aggressive, by lashing out at me and kandycane38. Also, no one is posting over your, or "our" forum as you mentioned. This is everyone's forum, a public forum for anyone with questions about a particular a zodiac sign.
Projecting the blame is manipulation, another hallmark of unevolved scorpios.
Uhm, "I don't know what you meant by that" but, the conversation is between you and me at this point. You said other scorpios understand what you mean. By your own admission, you never intended for me or candykane38 to understand what you meant when you bullied her, since during this conversation, you're too busy communicating with a whole other group of people. Indirect communication, projecting the blame, talking over themselves; hallmark unevolved Scorpio symptoms.
Why not just "Phoenix" up already..
why do you care so much?
Dude obviously got stung by one, judging by how angry he sounds lmao.click to expand
Actually, I've never been stung by one. And I've had *quite a few* in my life.
**Getting the last word in when you're clearly in the wrong--another hallmark unevolved Scorpio trait.
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.click to expand
i believe this is what happen in my case and he needed to get rid of me cause things were begining to heat up . but do you think they ever find what they looking for or do they end up alone . in their quest for perfection they tend to cause alot of hurt tho
Posted by F0RTUNA
I’D JUST LEAVE IT BE. SEEMS LIKE THIS SCORP ISN'T YOUR THING. IT’S GOOD THAT IT HAPPENED THIS WAY, EARLY ON, SAVES YOU BOTH HEADACHES. 😄
i have left him alone he hasnt me tho
Posted by candykane38Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
i believe this is what happen in my case and he needed to get rid of me cause things were begining to heat up . but do you think they ever find what they looking for or do they end up alone . in their quest for perfection they tend to cause alot of hurt thoclick to expand
I've said this before, scorpios are happy with, like a cat. They usually prefer being alone or having extreme experiences where everything is perfect. Yes, they cause a lot of problems for people because they are loyal (to themselves and their agenda), but only if people let them in. Unfortunately, everyone else oftentimes is reduced to tool to make it happen.
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...click to expand
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
i believe this is what happen in my case and he needed to get rid of me cause things were begining to heat up . but do you think they ever find what they looking for or do they end up alone . in their quest for perfection they tend to cause alot of hurt tho
I've said this before, scorpios are happy with, like a cat. They usually prefer being alone or having extreme experiences where everything is perfect. Yes, they cause a lot of problems for people because they are loyal (to themselves and their agenda), but only if people let them in. Unfortunately, everyone else oftentimes is reduced to tool to make it happen.click to expand
yes a means to their end
Posted by dilettantePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
all signs do this.
cancers, leos, aries, capricorns. it isnt identified through astrology.click to expand
Other signs do, but the other person has a chance to be more "in the know." When a scorpio does it, they silently suggest intensity and reciprocation, which comes off to others as "the real deal." When other signs keep placeholders, they're less intense in their dealings, which makes it easier for lesser sensitive signs to understands what's happening.
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
i believe this is what happen in my case and he needed to get rid of me cause things were begining to heat up . but do you think they ever find what they looking for or do they end up alone . in their quest for perfection they tend to cause alot of hurt tho
I've said this before, scorpios are happy with, like a cat. They usually prefer being alone or having extreme experiences where everything is perfect. Yes, they cause a lot of problems for people because they are loyal (to themselves and their agenda), but only if people let them in. Unfortunately, everyone else oftentimes is reduced to tool to make it happen.click to expand
Scorpios will respect you if you are true to yourself, don't put up a front and respect yourself (handle yourself with respect). If you're someone who minds their own business and maintains purposeful relations with them, it should quell most if not all problems. This thread got a little heated because of one person.
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want himclick to expand
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by dilettantePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by candykane38Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he was just bored and cycled back around to you after 35 days. Or, he could have been seeing someone else and now that's on hold he's back around to you. What do you want from him?
i think its both things that you mentioned. they are known to be sneaky and womanizers during our so called friendship he always said we are friends an we should take things slow smh i was fine being his friend it was his mixed signals that i couldnt deal with plus i felt like i was being back pocketed and an option so i left friendship and all
Scorpios are known for keeping people as "placeholders" until the real deal (for them) shows up. Benefits of a placeholder? Sex, ego stroke. Possibly connection. But they don't really want to connect too much with you because then a bond forms, which is hard for them to break because they feel things deeply, and making you"the one" was never on the table to begin with.
all signs do this.
cancers, leos, aries, capricorns. it isnt identified through astrology.
Other signs do, but the other person has a chance to be more "in the know." When a scorpio does it, they silently suggest intensity and reciprocation, which comes off to others as "the real deal." When other signs keep placeholders, they're less intense in their dealings, which makes it easier for lesser sensitive signs to understands what's happening.
Scorpios are usually honest and let you know where you stand. If you read into it more than that, it’s your own undoing.click to expand
Agreed, if you ask them, they will more than likely give you an honest response.
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
what's your sign?click to expand
capricorn
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
what's your sign?
capricorn
well You can work and You do share a lot of things by Sun compatibility 🤷🏻♀️click to expand
i was told our signs are compatible but right now i am focussed on working on me
Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributedclick to expand
ur honest enough to admit your part
He’s bored. Using you.
Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed
ur honest enough to admit your part
Yes
Shame she doesn't admit hersclick to expand
maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to
Posted by Fireflower12
He’s bored. Using you.
was using me
Posted by GirlygirlNadia
Sheesh! Crosses fingers to never date a scorpio man they seem like horrible partners fuk
i doubt all is like mine in every sign you have good and bad
Posted by GirlygirlNadiaPosted by candykane38Posted by GirlygirlNadia
Sheesh! Crosses fingers to never date a scorpio man they seem like horrible partners fuk
i doubt all is like mine in every sign you have good and bad
I'm still good tho lmao I gel better with earth sign dudes mainly Taurus and some
times Capricorn, that's jus me
what sign are youclick to expand
Posted by GirlygirlNadiaPosted by candykane38Posted by GirlygirlNadia
Sheesh! Crosses fingers to never date a scorpio man they seem like horrible partners fuk
i doubt all is like mine in every sign you have good and bad
I'm still good tho lmao I gel better with earth sign dudes mainly Taurus and sometimes Capricorn, that's jus me 🤷♀️click to expand
whats ur sign
Posted by GirlygirlNadiaPosted by candykane38Posted by GirlygirlNadiaPosted by candykane38Posted by GirlygirlNadia
Sheesh! Crosses fingers to never date a scorpio man they seem like horrible partners fuk
i doubt all is like mine in every sign you have good and bad
I'm still good tho lmao I gel better with earth sign dudes mainly Taurus and sometimes Capricorn, that's jus me 🤷♀️
whats ur sign
Same sign as your man ♏️click to expand
ok so ur afraid of dating your own sign just wondering i dont knw how they say scorpios and cappies are compatable do you get along well with capricorns as lovers or just friends
Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed
ur honest enough to admit your part
Yes
Shame she doesn't admit hers
maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to
Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still
Idk what her intentions areclick to expand
so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well
Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed
ur honest enough to admit your part
Yes
Shame she doesn't admit hers
maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to
Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still
Idk what her intentions are
so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well
4 years of mind games from both parties
Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me
idk anymore
Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guyclick to expand
maybe she is not sure about your feelings for her from one capricorn i can tell you if we are not sure we tend to be hesitant and we are sensitive just like you so we tend to mask our feelings to protect us i guess both parties are unsure about the other. i knw both of u wouldnt stick around for so long if there wasnt something special capricorns tend to be very serious about time so they wouldnt waste it if she didnt love or at least like u
Posted by dilettantePosted by peachy06Posted by dilettantePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by peachy06
Why do we keep having weirdos posting about Scorpios.
I wouldn't call her weird for asking a logical question, I'd call the Scorpio's behavior weird.
Mixed signals is a defining hallmark of Scorpios to disguise their fluctuating self esteem issues and ulterior motives to feel better about themselves. You must be a Scorpio, seeing how you blindly stuck up for one you don't even know, all the while neglecting integrity (proper assessment of right vs wrong, reward vs punishment), another shortcoming of this sign .
Your judgement is misplaced.
Don't talk as if you personally know us all. Who said I stuck up with him ? Nobody. 🙄
This is an astrology forum; the poster is looking for our commentary, but your comment was biased. We only know what the poster is telling us about the situation, and what she's describing is a series of mixed signals by a Scorpio. Your comment in return, was that she's a "wierdo" talking about "a scorpio," which vindicates the scorpio's behavior and dismissed her as some "weirdo" with nothing better to do than talk about "scorpios."
If anything, your response shows that you think you know all Scorpios, by automatically vindicating the behavior of another scorpio that you don't even know.
My feedback re: Scorpios was astrological knowledge, which, your response simply proved to be true.
Reading comprehension. You don't even know what I meant by that so chill. I think my other fellow scorpios know why I posted that comment. Because weirdo shave been posting some annoying thread on our board lately. You sound so offended for 0 reason. You twisted everything as if somebody personally victimized you. Whether you dislike Scorpios or not, please get some help. 🙄
First of all, much love for mature scorpios everywhere. It's the unevolved ones, the ones that bully and cause problems to avoid dealing with their darker qualities that I don't take smack from.
You called a fellow DXP user names for posting an astrology question over an astrology board. If, like you say, other users are posting questions you cop an issue with then just be upfront and deal with them dead on. You're being passive aggressive, by lashing out at me and kandycane38. Also, no one is posting over your, or "our" forum as you mentioned. This is everyone's forum, a public forum for anyone with questions about a particular a zodiac sign.
Projecting the blame is manipulation, another hallmark of unevolved scorpios.
Uhm, "I don't know what you meant by that" but, the conversation is between you and me at this point. You said other scorpios understand what you mean. By your own admission, you never intended for me or candykane38 to understand what you meant when you bullied her, since during this conversation, you're too busy communicating with a whole other group of people. Indirect communication, projecting the blame, talking over themselves; hallmark unevolved Scorpio symptoms.
Why not just "Phoenix" up already..
why do you care so much?
Dude obviously got stung by one, judging by how angry he sounds lmao.
he clearly hasnt seen pari23’s incessant shit threads on the scorpio boardclick to expand
Pari23 is a fellow scorpio (see her second sentence below). I guess every family has their red-headed stepchild?
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He’s bored he called a bunch of people to see who would pick up
Posted by Tenpxd
He’s bored he called a bunch of people to see who would pick up
good for him am done being around
Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Neno2Posted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by candykane38Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by BathHouseCulture
Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.
I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.
Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...
i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly
I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...
i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me
what do you want? to me it seems like you want him
not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.
I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed
ur honest enough to admit your part
Yes
Shame she doesn't admit hers
maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to
Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still
Idk what her intentions are
so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well
4 years of mind games from both parties
Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me
idk anymore
Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy
maybe she is not sure about your feelings for her from one capricorn i can tell you if we are not sure we tend to be hesitant and we are sensitive just like you so we tend to mask our feelings to protect us i guess both parties are unsure about the other. i knw both of u wouldnt stick around for so long if there wasnt something special capricorns tend to be very serious about time so they wouldnt waste it if she didnt love or at least like u
I understand
Unfortunately there is no way,i embarrassed myself 100 times asking her out and got rejected,got insulted and fighting on chat with her,it always ended by me apologizing and saying politely goodbye to her,trying to move on
Then she would come back indirectly,following me on street,saying hi and wanting my attention again
Dropped her phone when i passing by,pretended she doesn't know me so my cousin would introduce us,walking beside me on the street ,she ignored me 100 times and avoided me also
But also there is my fault cuz i am an introvert and secretive,she knows many girls like me,her best friend likes me but also i confessed many times,got rejected and in a fight with her then saying bye only for her to want my attention back after few weeks minths
Idk anymore,i cant try more,i have my prideclick to expand
now i see how both played games maybe u telling her about other girls made her jealous we are known to be jealous people and we hide it very well in terms of her doing all of that she doesnt want to make her true feelings be known to you as you have said she is insecure she is just protecting her feelings from hurt in some way cappies and scorps are similar
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