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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

maybe she is not sure about your feelings for her from one capricorn i can tell you if we are not sure we tend to be hesitant and we are sensitive just like you so we tend to mask our feelings to protect us i guess both parties are unsure about the other. i knw both of u wouldnt stick around for so long if there wasnt something special capricorns tend to be very serious about time so they wouldnt waste it if she didnt love or at least like u

I understand

Unfortunately there is no way,i embarrassed myself 100 times asking her out and got rejected,got insulted and fighting on chat with her,it always ended by me apologizing and saying politely goodbye to her,trying to move on

Then she would come back indirectly,following me on street,saying hi and wanting my attention again

Dropped her phone when i passing by,pretended she doesn't know me so my cousin would introduce us,walking beside me on the street ,she ignored me 100 times and avoided me also

But also there is my fault cuz i am an introvert and secretive,she knows many girls like me,her best friend likes me but also i confessed many times,got rejected and in a fight with her then saying bye only for her to want my attention back after few weeks minths

Idk anymore,i cant try more,i have my pride
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

maybe she is not sure about your feelings for her from one capricorn i can tell you if we are not sure we tend to be hesitant and we are sensitive just like you so we tend to mask our feelings to protect us i guess both parties are unsure about the other. i knw both of u wouldnt stick around for so long if there wasnt something special capricorns tend to be very serious about time so they wouldnt waste it if she didnt love or at least like u

I understand

Unfortunately there is no way,i embarrassed myself 100 times asking her out and got rejected,got insulted and fighting on chat with her,it always ended by me apologizing and saying politely goodbye to her,trying to move on

Then she would come back indirectly,following me on street,saying hi and wanting my attention again

Dropped her phone when i passing by,pretended she doesn't know me so my cousin would introduce us,walking beside me on the street ,she ignored me 100 times and avoided me also

But also there is my fault cuz i am an introvert and secretive,she knows many girls like me,her best friend likes me but also i confessed many times,got rejected and in a fight with her then saying bye only for her to want my attention back after few weeks minths

Idk anymore,i cant try more,i have my pride
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maybe you should let her come to you now instead amd stop playing games maybe a good thing can come from it cause obviously she likes you so
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

maybe she is not sure about your feelings for her from one capricorn i can tell you if we are not sure we tend to be hesitant and we are sensitive just like you so we tend to mask our feelings to protect us i guess both parties are unsure about the other. i knw both of u wouldnt stick around for so long if there wasnt something special capricorns tend to be very serious about time so they wouldnt waste it if she didnt love or at least like u

I understand

Unfortunately there is no way,i embarrassed myself 100 times asking her out and got rejected,got insulted and fighting on chat with her,it always ended by me apologizing and saying politely goodbye to her,trying to move on

Then she would come back indirectly,following me on street,saying hi and wanting my attention again

Dropped her phone when i passing by,pretended she doesn't know me so my cousin would introduce us,walking beside me on the street ,she ignored me 100 times and avoided me also

But also there is my fault cuz i am an introvert and secretive,she knows many girls like me,her best friend likes me but also i confessed many times,got rejected and in a fight with her then saying bye only for her to want my attention back after few weeks minths

Idk anymore,i cant try more,i have my pride

maybe you should let her come to you now instead amd stop playing games maybe a good thing can come from it cause obviously she likes you so

The only way is for her to come to mevand be clear but that will never happen,shes to insecure,also she hurts me everytime and acts like nothing happened,we actually never talked much in person😅

Shes 22

I am 30

I always was direct and honest,she doesn't trust me and i doubt in her after everything what happened,maybe she wants just to fxck with my brain
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have you ask her for a sit down let her know that you want to talk if she refuses let her be one things for sure you cant force her to be with you probably too she is immature and your looking for someone who is a bit more mature🤷‍♀️
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Oh yeah I forgot...Scorpio men like younger women...They are into sucking the life out of someone so full of it.

i believe that all comes down to control maybe they feel the younger ones are more easier to control but what i have notice is that scorpio have peter pan syndrome my friend who is 52 told me he is in his 40s and he goes to clubs and bars acting all young etc and he is a grand father so
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Oh yeah I forgot...Scorpio men like younger women...They are into sucking the life out of someone so full of it.

i believe that all comes down to control maybe they feel the younger ones are more easier to control but what i have notice is that scorpio have peter pan syndrome my friend who is 52 told me he is in his 40s and he goes to clubs and bars acting all young etc and he is a grand father so
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So i have been posting in here about a scorpio man who i have been friends with for some time he would act interested in being more than friends. But would pull back and said we are just friends anyway i grew tired of his games and went no contact. And on the 35th day of no contact he called me on watsapp and straight call i didnt answer his calls. Why would he contact me after that time of no contact. When the last time i called him he acted like i was annoying him so i just left him alone.

I don't think you should be worrying about this man.

You clearly aren't a priority to him and he most likely called you because he was bored out of his mind.

Move on and build your self-esteem, otherwise you'll keep finding yourself in very similar situations to this one.
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy
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I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him
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Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

I done my part

There is nothing more i can do

She must come to me and be honest

Unfortunately i think she never gonna do it



U can sit with him and discuss it too,be honest,both of u
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So you will love her from afar? It’s more painful that way.

I contacted him. We are going to talk today.

I hope he doesn’t flake again. if he does, I am done for good.

Wish me luck 😬😰
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.
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just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life
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You know what (sorry Neno, you are probably a good guy and give good advice) he stood me up again.

I got the message loud and clear.

I’ll disappear complete. It’s a sign.

You were right , @candykane38

I’ve had enough.
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So i have been posting in here about a scorpio man who i have been friends with for some time he would act interested in being more than friends. But would pull back and said we are just friends anyway i grew tired of his games and went no contact. And on the 35th day of no contact he called me on watsapp and straight call i didnt answer his calls. Why would he contact me after that time of no contact. When the last time i called him he acted like i was annoying him so i just left him alone.


He’s horny
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life

You know what (sorry Neno, you are probably a good guy and give good advice) he stood me up again.

I got the message loud and clear.

I’ll disappear complete. It’s a sign.

You were right , @candykane38

I’ve had enough.
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sorry sweetie just move on and enjoy life one day at a time he just wasnt interested in you if he is anything like my friend he will come back with an excuse and crying
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Posted by candykane38
Posted by Sailor_Mars
Posted by BathHouseCulture

Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life

You know what (sorry Neno, you are probably a good guy and give good advice) he stood me up again.

I got the message loud and clear.

I’ll disappear complete. It’s a sign.

You were right , @candykane38

I’ve had enough.

I see

Time to move on then
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He apologized 3 times. I accept his apologies but I don’t want want to be a fool.

I never demanded or requested to chat.

This is all his idea yet he flaked on all of them.

I don’t understand .

This all builds up insecurities and resentment...

I guess it’s time to move on.

Thank you, @neno2

I still have hopes for you and your Capricorn girl.

She likes you. Both of you should do something about it.
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Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life

You know what (sorry Neno, you are probably a good guy and give good advice) he stood me up again.

I got the message loud and clear.

I’ll disappear complete. It’s a sign.

You were right , @candykane38

I’ve had enough.

I see

Time to move on then
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I contacted him.

It was cordial and we came up for another time to speak...I was honest as to why I was frustrated and upset (I thought he should have a reply because he apologized ) but now I am afraid he’s going to sting me for taking almost a month to reply. 😞

I just don’t want to hurt people by replying when I am hurt or upset. I don’t want to say something that I will regret.
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Posted by Sailor_Mars
Posted by candykane38
Posted by Sailor_Mars
Posted by candykane38
Posted by Sailor_Mars
Posted by BathHouseCulture

Of course he did. He’s a loser with attention deficits.

I have 3 Scorpios on my ass 8 years later. Sad little bitch asses.

Mine told me I ruined him and that he will never love again...2 weeks later he found love with a 10 years younger barely legal girl...

i believe they are conflicted their heart and mind isnt unified one min they feel this way next they feel that way i believe as well that they dont like being alone or not being showered with affection or atrention hence the reason they move on so quickly

I moved on so I don't contemplate often. I do love him. He will always be the love of my life and someone I consider a soulmate, no matter the good and the bad he's done. It's just in me, the feeling. But it's mine and has nothing to do with him in the sense that it wouldn't have and will not change him. I know different types of Scorpio men, but all have a same trait...They ruin their girlfriend by making her the one with their possessivnes and jealousy...while at the same time having a lot of girls they chat with online...

i remember when i use to talk to my scorpio friend he would get jealous if a guy talks to me or vice versa he was the one that started showing intimate interest and when i started to receprocate he backed off then come at it again and ..... so just got tired of it and leave him he came to my workplace crying and looking all pitiful then i said i can be ur friend and he started the intimate suggestions and like a fool i receprocated again and u guessed it the cycle continues until i just said forget friendship and all else leave me alone no contact but he calls i dont answer he hasnt showed up at my workplace yet well he has but he hasnt spoken to me

what do you want? to me it seems like you want him

not now back then when he use to play me i believed it was not until i found this site and started to read other persons experience and when i post and other people provides me with some level of clarity i realized that i was the only one that really wanted something so i am just trying to make sense of everything and not trying to be malicious i like hearing other peoples experience some of which sounds similar to mine like i have said i have never been with one and no i dont think all scorpios are the same as no two people are alike but i have seen similar behaviours in other peoples post about them.

I had the same problem with a Capricorn girl,all because of her insecurities,also i contributed

ur honest enough to admit your part

Yes

Shame she doesn't admit hers

maybe not to you but she probably knows she has contributed but her pride wont allow her to

Idk anymore😑part of me loves her still

Idk what her intentions are

so have you told her or even try to make amends for your part maybe then and there she would open up about hers are you a scorpio as well

4 years of mind games from both parties

Its very complicated,u wouldn't believe it,long story,part of me thinks shes a real narcissist,a manipulator,another part thinks shes just insecure and is afraid of me even though likes me

idk anymore

Yes,i am a scorpio,sun,mars,mercury,asc,pluto,cap Venus,cancer moon guy

I am going through the same...it’s been a few years and I can’t get myself to tell him I like him because of my insecurities.

He has hinted he likes me (Scorpio guy) but I don’t know if he’s doing it as a joke (he seems to be a ladies man) or if he truly does.

So I back away. I try to play it cool because I don’t want to give my heart and have it broken later on .

We don’t argue but our “fights” are passive aggressive.

He stood me up twice and gave me stupid excuses. I tend to play it cool and brush it off , keep my distance ....then he pops up again , wanting to talk. I ignore him or make sarcastic remarks (for being upset about his past behavior).

It’s a cycle and I am tired of it.

I came very close to tell him my feelings early this year but then life happened (work, covid-19, etc)

Perhaps it’s better this way...who knows.

So yeah, I completely understand your Capricorn girl. I feel like I am walking in her shoes.

I Understand your scorpio guy well😅

He sounds like me

I love this cap girl too much but i cant try anymore,she insulted me so much then day after saying hi,last time we were at the same place at a club few months ago,she was walking up the stairs and saw my cousin that she knows,saying hi to him and actually shaking hands with me,we looked at each other so surprised,i think my cousin was just an excuse to say hi to me.

She ignored to look at my way half of the party

I changed table and was standing 2 meters behind her,ignoring her

after midnight half the people left she turned towards me and i could see she was silently watching me where i pretended to have fun not looking at her

She was leaving and got little mad at her friends because they still werent prepared to go,she was waiting at the stairs sending them evil looks😂i could see she was embarrassed,probably knew i watched that

my advice to u is to confess to him

Hey Neno , sorry your girl ignored you. In person I cannot ignore someone. I have this guilt trip afterwards.

By the way, would you ever sit down with her and talk about how you feel and how she has made you feel or do you think it’s time to move on? If she ever calls you , would you reveal how you feel about her? Do you think it’s worth it?

As for me and Scorpio dude. When we see each other, it’s like we are alone in the room. It’s fireworks everywhere and I can feel how he feels or know what he’s not saying from staring into his eyes. It’s an unspoken language we have. Unfortunately , when it comes down to texting or communicating in a normal way, we tend to act stupid.

The other day he text me drunk . Then afterwards he asked me to do FAceTime - he never called. I asked him what happened and he said he forgot. Then he asked me again for another FT and he again came up with a lame excuse. I got annoyed and I told him in a good way that perhaps “another time” (he asked me to FT the next day) , then he sends me a few links the following day.

I didn’t reply. I felt like he was leading me on all along.

I don’t even know if it’s worth confessing that i am head over heels for him. It makes me insecure to reveal my feelings (I know he knows I like him very much - I have showed him through actions ).

So yes, I am scared and insecure about it. I prefer to hide under a rock and daydream about him.

☹️

INFPs tend to daydream too much.

just let it be i use to be like you i use to allow him to string me along and get all upset when he ask me out and never follow through and i mean it was alot of times let him chase you stop chase him its all a game and you will be the loser crying wondering why so free yourself and live your life

You know what (sorry Neno, you are probably a good guy and give good advice) he stood me up again.

I got the message loud and clear.

I’ll disappear complete. It’s a sign.

You were right , @candykane38

I’ve had enough.

I see

Time to move on then

I contacted him.

It was cordial and we came up for another time to speak...I was honest as to why I was frustrated and upset (I thought he should have a reply because he apologized ) but now I am afraid he’s going to sting me for taking almost a month to reply. 😞

I just don’t want to hurt people by replying when I am hurt or upset. I don’t want to say something that I will regret.

Whats your mbti?🤔
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INFP

5 w 4
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@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.
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most scorpios are just that a mystery just try and forget about him if its ment to be it will they tend to do things in their own time.
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Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

I think its not worth it if hes an istj (many Scorpios are)

Istj only care for themselves,unfortunately

My cap is gone,i hoped at least i would meet her around for the summer but she left to a major city visiting her dad,she gonna stay 2-3 months

Get yourself an intj,enfp,infj guy,if hes istj then run
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i believe humans on a whole are complex beings
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Posted by candykane38
Posted by Neno2
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

I think its not worth it if hes an istj (many Scorpios are)

Istj only care for themselves,unfortunately

My cap is gone,i hoped at least i would meet her around for the summer but she left to a major city visiting her dad,she gonna stay 2-3 months

Get yourself an intj,enfp,infj guy,if hes istj then run

i believe humans on a whole are complex beings

Yes but we are programmed to be a certain way
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thats true but some behaviours leave us in confusion

is there a way i can reach u privately
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Posted by candykane38
Posted by Neno2
Posted by candykane38
Posted by Neno2
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

I think its not worth it if hes an istj (many Scorpios are)

Istj only care for themselves,unfortunately

My cap is gone,i hoped at least i would meet her around for the summer but she left to a major city visiting her dad,she gonna stay 2-3 months

Get yourself an intj,enfp,infj guy,if hes istj then run

i believe humans on a whole are complex beings

Yes but we are programmed to be a certain way

thats true but some behaviours leave us in confusion

is there a way i can reach u privately

Viber,hangouts
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i sent u a message on here check your pm
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Posted by Neno2
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

I think its not worth it if hes an istj (many Scorpios are)

Istj only care for themselves,unfortunately

My cap is gone,i hoped at least i would meet her around for the summer but she left to a major city visiting her dad,she gonna stay 2-3 months

Get yourself an intj,enfp,infj guy,if hes istj then run
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Sorry to hear about your Cap girl. You seem to really like her and have genuine feelings for her.

Neno, can you give me some hints or clues on how to find out what MBTI my Scorpio is? How did you find out Cap girl’s mbti?



I might have to do a lot of reading...
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Posted by candykane38
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

most scorpios are just that a mystery just try and forget about him if its ment to be it will they tend to do things in their own time.
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I just felt bad not replying after he apologized 3 times.

So I had to do the decent thing and replied...a month later .

not pushing for any romantic or emotional relationship. I am not expecting anything because I know we are probably not compatible.
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Posted by Neno2
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Neno2

@chessmess

A infp girl would be way better for me😃unfortunatelly my cap is an istj

I am intj 5w6

Well hello there

😉



I don’t know what my Scorpio guy is - I’m still trying to find out his correct birth chart. He is a mystery.

I think its not worth it if hes an istj (many Scorpios are)

Istj only care for themselves,unfortunately

My cap is gone,i hoped at least i would meet her around for the summer but she left to a major city visiting her dad,she gonna stay 2-3 months

Get yourself an intj,enfp,infj guy,if hes istj then run

Sorry to hear about your Cap girl. You seem to really like her and have genuine feelings for her.

Neno, can you give me some hints or clues on how to find out what MBTI my Scorpio is? How did you find out Cap girl’s mbti?



I might have to do a lot of reading...

I suspect shes an istj because i know her for years and studied her,it makes sense,the istj description

Also u can cross his birth chart with mbti
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Thank you Neno. I’ll study the MBTI profiles and his birth chart.

My Scorpio guy has shown interest...I think. He’s affectionate and caring. He even said something like “let’s continue with our love story”. And he blushed.

The problem I believe is that I can’t show my feelings and I think he gets frustrated with that.

Anyhow. I’ll let you know what MBTI he is.

🙃