Am I over reacting?..Scorpio vs. Leo

So me and my Ex-hubby LEO meet down South while i was there for biz. Me and my co-workers planned this certain week/weekend because it is her B'day last Sat and mine is on Wed.

The first pissy thing that happened is that he expressed his concern about me being intimate w/other guys and said he did not feel confortable with that if we are dating. Told him the truth, he has been the only man I have slept with for months.... but I do go on dates. He told me he was sleeping with no one else as well. We are 1500 miles apart, what does he expect? He questioned me every time my cell phone rang "Who is that...your boyfriend?"...on and on...

Well, we all went out to celebrate on Saturday, me and my GF exchanged cards, etc. But guess what? Not one thing from my Ex- husband...not a card...nothing. I did not say anything but he did mention "Sophie, your B'day isnt until Wednesday" So perhaps there will be at least a little card or something on Wed....doubt it though. I even bought him a BB Cap from LA last month and gave it to him this weekend.

But no gift or card even after he requests me to NOT be intimate with others? Huh?? Whats that about—

He wants me to come back down next month for Thanksgiving...this time away from my co-wrokers who joined us for this trip.

Think I am just over reacting (typical Scorpio) and shouldn't expect even a B'day Card from my ex-husband whom I have only been dating for a few months?

Is it me or ...?

You are all right...it NOT about a gift at all, just recognition (ie...Card or even an e-card).

And I am very sensitive to that kind of aluffness/disregard.

We do live 1500 miles apart so unless he sends flowers of something,it is not happening.

I'm hoping, for his sake, that he does do something, because with his jealous tirates while we were in Miami, he's got some sucking up to do.

Hehehehehe...we'll see my friends. :-)

BlueStar...your right...ha!

Atlantic...its not as easy as that considering we were married 15 years ago and went through a horrible divorce and our families hate each other. Its not a matter of knowing if I want him or not, its so much more.

We CANNOT be seen together in our town here in the East Coast (he comes for Holidays, etc)

He called me last night and was saying he was not coming home for the Holidays (If he did...we could not see each other or have to sneak around) talking about plans for Thanksgiving and Xmas. He Spoke about going to Delray Beach for Thanksgiving and Bahamas for Xmas...said "we should start making plans"...but I did not know what "we" (him and his friends?) meant. I just listened and said "Sounds like a good time" He didn't just come out and say "Lets do something for the Holidays"..perhaps is almost like an assumption.

Oh...and at end of conversation said "Have a good B'day tomorrow and don't party too hard"....hm....still waiting for the card today.

I don't know...Leo/Scorp relationships take work. They are so much more blase about things. While we get upset they are not bothered at all. They're like "whatever" I am JUST dealing with a Leo now and I know it's gonna be hard but I'm up for the challenge.

Good Luck Sophie with your ex and I hope he gets on the horn and sends you a nice big birthday present ✨

Toodles..

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NOTHING FROM EX-HUSBAND FOR MY BIRTHDAY ......... NOW WHAT———?

NOTHING FROM EX-HUSBAND FOR MY BIRTHDAY ......... NOW WHAT———?

Does he deserve you ?

He does not deserve me...I am better than to be treated this way.
I have not heard from him since Tuesday night.
I do not call him nor ever have so if he calls me...will go into voicemail.

I've had it....

Sophia your a scorp?

hell ya.....:-)

Yes and tie some concrete slab to his feet while your at it..so he doesn't have a chance of escape...

Get your claws out woman!..don't be letting the side down

Well it gets worse....

Last weekend at dinner he was trying to make me jealous or something by trying to feel my GF up and talking about having sex with her and I....perhaps joking but nonetheless disrespectful and my GF told him to "get away from me"

right in front of me and my other co-worker!

My God...he';s 44 years old!

Is this insecurity or just a pig...

Last weekend at dinner he was trying to make me jealous or something by trying to feel my GF up and talking about having sex with her and I....perhaps joking but nonetheless disrespectful and my GF told him to "get away from me"

That is very disrespectful - having no consideration for you. You should have chucked him off right then and there itself.

He said "I'll have you both by the end of the night..." I said "Ya right" and then he was trying to feel GF up and she pushed him away.

I was kind of in shock ...but pretty drunk because the next morning I completely forgot about it.

My GF reminded me just 2 days ago...but I had forgotten about it (drunk)..so I hadn't brought it up in any of our conversations since we got back.

Now I am sick to my stomache and cannot wait to confront him and say "I refuse to be with someone who is so disrespectful" and end it...

leo most of the time they have special someone so if you are the one, he will remember you, even just a phone call saying " happy birthday my honey" for me even just saying this word im contented at least he remember you even his million mile away from you.. okey chill up... my dear

well sophie68 i'm sorry to hear that your relationship with mr. leo isn't working out very well....

i learned from certain experiences that most people dont' change, they just cover up their behaviors...

you def deserve someone a lot better than this guy.

sophie68... my birthday is on this coming nov.9 i used to remind him about by JOKE, sometimes im singging for myself in front of him and he always saying about his plan by joke too.. what i mean to say is even by joke he know its your birthday will come, so why dont you try to sing on his voice mail, then say what you want...rigth? just try...

Hi Irah,

He knew my B'day was last week, he called me Tuesday night to wish me a Happy B'day. Thats the last I heard from him. Its all good, because it made me realize was an A $ $ he is, especially after what he did/said in front of my girlfriend while we were in Miami (which I flipped the bill for!)

And, I ended up with my ex-Virgo Friday night. We had a a real connection back in January through March, but it ended as he stopped calling when he thought I wanted a relationship (more than what he wanted). I still saw him weekly (owns the bar I hang around)

We've been talking ever since, but nothing too serious, but Friday night something got into both of us (umm....I was drunk, no food and alcohol don't mix...hehe) and he ended he up coming over and sleeping over. Don't remember inviting him over but I must have. Its bneen a long time since I tied one on like that(hey, it was my B'day!). Woke up the next morning, he gave me a big hug and a kiss then left.

Hopefully, I can leave the door open with tha one for a "just in case of emergency, break glass".

Your ex should know better. At 44 years old! When the hell is he planning on growing up?

I saw you and your Virgo got it on...so work with that for awhile and see how it turns out. Men have us on rotation all the time. Time to return the favor!

Dogs all of them! And they wonder why so many women are lesbians...

So after a week of not hearing from him on my B'day, Ex husband LEO calls Tuesday night and leaves a message. I did not return his call.

Last night he calls once AGAIN...I did not answer. Leaves a pathetic message

"Where are you hiding? You havn't returned my calls? I want you to know I have been sick all week with the same thing you had, so give me a call when you get this message"

I have no desire to return his calls, after what he did in front of me to my friend and nothing for my B'day...he can kiss my arse

Phew...I feel better