ANOTHER ENCOUNTER

Well the other day I was at a stop light and I was singing some song on the radio and I hear this voice saying hey can I take you to Kareoke, I start smiling, then the guy says pull over, I thought "what the hell it's a nice day I am feeling good, summer is in the air and brotherS are coming out", so I pulled over.
I sat in my car and he walk over to me and started talking about how he wants to take me out so that we can sing at kareoke together and he said "you look like you be having a lot of fun" I said I do. He asked me for my number and I gave it to him but I did not take his. So I drove off and thought nothing of that encounter.

Last night I am sitting at home chillin and my phone rings. I was like "hello" and he said "hello" and I said "who am I speaking to" and he said "your new friend" and said his name and I started laughing because I was really surprised that he called. I had forgot all about him. So we go through the initial small talk and he says you know I never take a womens number I always give them my number and I said oh so you broke your rule and he said yea. Well the convo goes on and on and then he asked to take me out tonight and I told him I can't because I had a previous engagement then he was like can I go and I said no and he said why and I said because I don't know you like that and I can't be taken a stranger to a party.

So he says well you have my number will you call me tommorrow and I said I will try but like I said I will be busy so I then said if I don't call you in 24 hours call me, he fell out laughing LOL He was like I think we are going to be friends for a long time. Then I said how old are you and he was like 50 and I said well you should be tired or bullshitting people and he started laughing. The rest is history.

So what I have decided to do is not ask what his sign is I think I will keep that as a myster. And just go for the ride and see what happens maybe I can peg his sign with out asking him.

If I am still talking to him in a month I will let yall know what his sign is. This should be fun.

What a cool story!! I bet he?s an aqua!!

Let's hope this guy doesn't turn out to be another 50 yr old psycho like the last one.

That's my sexy SL! You go hottie!!!!!!!

JP
"Let's hope this guy doesn't turn out to be another 50 yr old psycho like the last one."

Right that is why I don't want to know his sign I just want to see what he is going to do. I've just started to think that maybe if I did not not his sign I would not be to quick to judge him.

Chocolate

"24hrs isn't that long, think if u would have said 48hrs..."

Well after that I changed it to 72 hours, then I said ok If I don't call you buy 10pm call me, he was like I amgoing to be sitting by my phone waiting for your call and I fell out cuz he is really funny and I like guy that is funny and loves to laugh and have fun because I do.

"Scorplady ur such a Hottie. U need personalized plates"

A scorpio will never put themselves out like that.

Sola

"What a cool story!! I bet he?s an aqua!!"

I never dated a aqua.....

Nice ass Scorpionlady...i bet you put this pic for me.

I think you're smart for not asking his sign. That way you don't prejudge his personality. Just let it flow! Plus it's almost like an experiment. It leaves alot open for conversation.

SL

you don't need plates but you surely need a license for that thing you got

JP

"I think you're smart for not asking his sign. That way you don't prejudge his personality. Just let it flow! Plus it's almost like an experiment. It leaves alot open for conversation"

You are so right JP....Oh, you are in LasVages right? Well I just might be taking a trip out there. I won a 2 night 3 days trip to about 13 states and when I saw LV I thought about you. I have not done and inteniary yet but will let you know when I have everything set. SIN CITY HERE I COME.......

EG

"::claps hands:: Another story! I can't wait for more"

Why do you get a kick out of my encounter with men. I think it is funny myself because I always seems to meet these guys that just TRIPPING and think I am going to TRIP with them. NOT

Hyptonic

"Nice ass Scorpionlady...i bet you put this pic for me.

Actually it's for Mr. Negative....

Chocolate
"so when r u guys going to hang out? or u going to make his arse wait..."

Well for starters I am not going to call him. It is mothers day weekend and I am a mother and I am quite sure he has a mother. LOL I don't foresee me hanging with him until early next week, I will got to kareoke though I have never done that so that should be fun. I just hope I can reframe from sleeping with him if the urge hits me. LOL

VAL
"SL you don't need plates but you surely need a license for that thing you got"

You think? Hey it took me a minute to get that, cuz before when I was in my 20's I had a pancake ass trust me when I say....I had no hips, nothing...I was straightup and down, and I was flat chested.

I had a baby and I grew up, up and out.

EG

"Scorpionlady - you tell it sooooooo well, I feel like I'm sitting there watching a movie or something. And since I can't go play the field anymore - I'm depending on YOU!

"I also like how you tell it to 'em straight. Some of them seem to hang in there for a bit and some of them run for the hills. You are in control at all times, g/f! I love it"

I am so glad that I can entertain you by way of cyberspace LOL

Yea, I sometimes think my bluntness and tack of tolerance with men is one reason why I am still single, not to mention my big trust issues....

But you know what? I love my live and I love who I am and if a man can't love me for who I am then I don't need him anyway....HIS LOST SOMEONE ELSE'S GAIN.

I just hope I can reframe from sleeping with him if the urge hits me. LOL

That's always the tempting part. Refrain and get to know him or hump his brains out on the first date—? You know what I'd do! 😉

Yea, I sometimes think my bluntness and tack of tolerance with men is one reason why I am still single, not to mention my big trust issues....

HAHA maybe because all men are dogs??

"That's always the tempting part. Refrain and get to know him or hump his brains out on the first date—? You know what I'd do!

U know I thought about that JP I alwasys go striaght to the Penis LOL,

I can't stand being teased, I do all the teasing..

There not really dogs VAL...They are stupid, and there thinking is totally out of space(MARS)

"You know what I'd do!

What will you do JP....Tell me, give me some pointers I am trying to change...LMAO

I say they're dogs and I should know

I usually let my curiosity take over and I go for the penis. I can't help it. I am infatuated by hands. So after watching a man and his hands the temptation is to much. I admit it. I don't refrain. I'm a ho.

"I usually let my curiosity take over and I go for the penis. I can't help it. I am infatuated by hands. So after watching a man and his hands the temptation is to much. I admit it. I don't refrain. I'm a ho."

LMAO, my point exactly...why wait, as far as I am concerned, if I wait for a man I will never get it.

That's my story and I am stick with it.

Just don't hold it in for months. Your going to blow his mind when you finally do it and then he'll follow you around like a lost puppy.

"I say they're dogs and I should know"

Damn VAL I don't know your stoy but it seem like men have hurt you alot and that is what you think of them know

I been hurt but I don't think they are dogs I think some men mainly the ones I've been meeting are just stupid and think that they can run game...but thre plans always seems to backfire because of me being straight with them

And some men are just plain punks, sissy's they run hide, don't communication that is just a sucker way of not facing the truth.

Maybe you should toughen up some.

"Just don't hold it in for months. Your going to blow his mind when you finally do it and then he'll follow you around like a lost puppy."

LOL Like the libra? Well JP, it is giong on 2 months what do you think I should do? How should I approch it if I want it....LOL

I agree with Val. I think most men are dogs. It takes alot of training to get them to be loyal.

One of the last guys I dated slept with my best friend because he and I were having problens in the relationship. He said he needed someone to talk to and she was there and one thing led to another blah, blah...

Shit my current boyfriend slept with another close friend of mine. We just broke up and it was the same story. I missed you, she was there, blah blah......

At least I find sexual release with strangers. Not his best friends. I should rephrase that, not strangers but people he is not connected to.

HAHA SL I think im tough enough, and i know myself well enough, to see the truth- woof

True

Women just hoin big booty rollin'
Soon I'll be on them and goin "D!"
Hittin no less than "Three!"
Block will style like "Whee!"
Girl I can tell you ...

LOL Like the libra? Well JP, it is giong on 2 months what do you think I should do? How should I approch it if I want it....LOL

Masturbate before you meet up with him. Get some of the sexual tension out of you so you don't explode like last time! LOL

"Masturbate before you meet up with him. Get some of the sexual tension out of you so you don't explode like last time! LOL"

You I do get a kick out of blowing a mans mind and it's not like I don't give them a heads up...I let them no that I have not had sex in months and this is where they become stupid and think with there penis and not there heads...

I want the real deal I want to blow his mind...LOL

"HAHA SL I think im tough enough, and i know myself well enough, to see the truth- woof"
cool not problem, do you...

What song is that from...I don't do rap to much I kinda grew out of that.

SMACK THAT don't cha know it

I let them no that I have not had sex in months and this is where they become stupid and think with there penis and not there heads...

Duh!!! They are usually always thinking with the penis. But yeah, when you say that they become all penis! That's it game over, they just want to jump in the sack. Can't blame them.

You are funny Sl! I love reading about your life!

What the hell song is that....Who is it by

AKON and SLIM SHADY

I am glad you do JP...You give me hope girl.....you give me strength..LOL

Akon and eminem?

Ok see that is why I don't do rap

yes i see -

"yes i see -

LOL

guessin you do R & B plenty though

yes in deed...I love me some Macy Gray, John Mayer, Jill Scott, Beyonce, Heather Headly, India Arie just to name a few

Neo Soul...

Update-

Well the party was nice I was up cooking breakfast the next morning and my phone rang it was about 11am and he called and said "Oh so what happened to the 24 hrs" and I just started laughing. We talked a bit and made a date saturday night, he was to call me an hr before he came to pick me up. He never called,I really did not get mad because I was thinking about calling him and cancelling because I was still suffering the night before and I had to get up early on Sunday.

I called him this morning on my way to work and he was so happy to hear my voice and telling me how I made his moring/day so then I asked him why he did not call me. He said that he fell asleep, and I said a phone call would have been nice, to let me know you did not want to go and he said he apologized and then I said that was find I was tired anyway.
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I met another guy at the party really nice looking sexy guy about 6'3 slim built I was enjoying just talking to him he was agreeing to everthing I wanted and was looking for in a man this guy was really being very attentive to me he took my plate when I was finish eating, got me my drinks and all when we were sitting out side I had on white capris and he took off his hat for me to sit on it and I was feeling him until the party was over. I went outside to smoke a cig then him and his friend comes outside and his friend was like you going and he said naw man I am alright go on without me, and I said you don't think you should go with your friend and he said no then I said how are you going to get home and he said I am going to stay here with you. I said no you are not I think you need to tell your friend to wait and he said I can't stay with you and I said no, I am not in the mood and when I walk in that door I am gong to sleep, and you can't stay here this is not my house he just look at me and huffed I was just sitting on the front porch giving him a look like you better leave cus you are not getting laid tonight and then he hollered to his friend to wait so that he could follow him out. I had already gave him my number and he was like I got your number right and I said yea you can call me and he just looked at me huffed again and then walked away.

I have not idea what his sign is but I think he was was a Capricorn, because he reminded me of my ex cappy, when I first met him.

Whatever happened to guys being romantic?

well,guess you need to meet the ones who still are.😛

You know chocolate I probably would have spent more time with him that night we could have sat outside and talked or something, but he just took it upon himself that he was gonna get some and as intoxicated as I was I would have been crazy to go with him, I could hardly get up and this brother is like I am going to sleep with you....Do you have any type of respect what so ever.

I am trying to contact the girl that invited him so that I can get his name again cuz I totally forgot and maybe an email address because I really need to send him a few more words....

then maybe i am a freak of nature.😛

ask pluto,i never tried to jump her into my bed.
i need to discover a woman in other ways before i proceed to unwrap her most intimate being.

Excuse me dumb ass. They should stop thinking with their little head 1st.....

ouch!😛
*whistles*

You are so right Chocolate, bad choice of words.

Devil
Apprently he was thinking with his head the whole time he was talking to me but I was not on that level I was trying to see where he was coming from mentally. Had he not ASSUME (ass out u me) that he was going to sleep with me I might have been a little nicer with my comments.

CG

"Evidently I am living in the wrong country for romance. The UK is like a shagfest."

Girl the men in the US are in heat and I think the ratio is 10 women to every 1 man....All the men here are basically locked up or dead.

shagfest>>nice descriptive word.haahaa

don't you worry,i think the onle balancing facter here is that,the girls are as much in heat as the guys.so its all bliss.haahaa
when did i say i live in lala land.😛

hello chocoliscious lady🙂

atleast i am only whistling,no catcalls as yet😛

tem men to every woman

you are giving me some pretty vivid imaginary pictures😛
*wipes sweat*

MIAAOOOWWW to chocolady😛

that is the opposite of my thinking actually.
for i want a challenge.
it is nothing for me if a woman is willing so easily.i get turned off.
i like to chase the maidens😛
the more time it takes,the more the thrill

then those men must be stupid to bed them.
or maybe i am a weirdo of some sort.it was drilled in my brain to not go for one-nighters.
it is zilch,useless time spent with a useless person.and moreover,there's aids.a very prominet problem here.got to be very very careful

chocolate

"Not very easy if you find a guy really attractive and he is a good seducer.

Yeh then u would need a straight jacket thats covered from head to toe..."

I have had my share of those types of men and I have learned alot from them. That is why I don't have a problem with a one night stand sometimes, Men are only after one thing I don't see why a women can't either and still keep her dignity, I feel as thought I am keeping mines when I do it. I don't ask for a number I don't get my feelings involve and just walk away like a man would.

I think this type of attitude works for a single women who is very strong and have control or her emotions\.