alrauneTB
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Any insight? No attempts to be more physical on dates from the Sag Sun guy, Cap Mars, Scorpio Venus
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He Sag Sun, Aquarius Rising, Cap Mars, Scorpio Venus.
Is he waiting out something? An clear invitation from a woman's side? Or he is building up trust? Or testing my loyalty and long-term prospect?
We met slowly but steadily 4 times over the course of 1,5 months (on his initiative to start). He shows no rush with that (not either excessive texting but only for setting up dates) which fits me well so I can consider how I feel and process our meetings. He is chivalrous, we have great communication, fun, and he's giving me all small back/neck/arm touches. Body language is Ok! I see some other subtle references that he cares and might be interested however insufficient they are for ME to feel safe to open up. But I observe them. And lastly, he took me to his flat and showed me around how he lives - without making it appear creepy lol (a trust sign?)
But he also makes me unsure of his motives. Him being a Sag who are normally rather active and direct, he is very well-controlled and economical. He still never touched relationships/love subject in conversation, hardly asks me about my past, feelings, personality. It's all about all kinds of subjects (very lively and deep talks but very little of the personal). I want to do various things together but I hold it back after I suggested twice and he shows no major enthusiasm (I felt a bit wounded here but didn't show). He sticks to the same pattern: walk, talk, 2 drinks, home-going - even thou he tells me he often has guests and he is very active going places with them, travel out. I don't want to push but i feel getting into grove here and wonder why he doesn't suggest doing those things to me, I hinted I'd love to! 😢
We always start off great, then, after 3-4 hours, I sense like his energy goes down and he becomes unfocused and a bit boring. So I mirror his emotion (against my own needs to open up and bond emotionally) and put up my guard :S I hate feeling ignored and less desired and so I detach.
With him it seems, though it has wonderful potential, but yet it's somehow never carrying over to that steady build-up of of a stable sexual attraction (for me). It ignites quickly over certain points but he somehow cools it with the next boring move and I have to bottled up my own fever. He kissed me on lips goodbye on the 3d date and I could clearly feel his desire. (and hoped to repeat on the next to secure direction) Then, on the overall great 4th date, he once again became aloof by the end of it and I left home with giving him a 'friendly' hug. I didn't want to expose myself by kissing him first if he doesn't makes any moves for it.
I wonder if this might be a Cap Mars/Scorpio Venus in the works that might make him rather calculating and impassive? Is it temporarily or these planets make ppl boring for fires like me (however earthy fire I am). I've never experienced such a half-half behaviour from men before (dated fires, and sensual Cancers and one uber-sexy Pisces) Or this behaviour is likely preparing for friendzoning me? I do like him and prepared to move slower if that's what his placements NEED him to do ere in order to achieve something bigger. But I definitely don't want to waste my time with a dead fish (even a very good-looking/smart one).