Are Scorpio men very hard on themselves?

I just hung out with a pretty successful Scorp male friend, and he was going on and on about how what he does is not fulfilling. Yet, he doesn't know what he wants to do, and he's kind of lost. On the surface, he's quite successful in the eyes of the world.

My question is, when Scorp males get into this kind of funk, how can I help them?

Side question, when a Scorp guy repeatedly asks you about your relationship life, does that mean anything? Or are they just curious?

Uh oh... girl, you're playing with fire. :/

Posted by brandyp
Well if he's already successful suggest that he spend his free time helping out his community. Go with him to a homeless shelter, or help him pack up some of his stuff for donation. He could foster a child, or help a family out this holiday season.

If hes not into volunteering his time or money, he could try picking up a new hobby or sport like racket ball or tennis that the two of you could play together.

There are so many ways to bring more fulfillment to ones life. If he had nieces or nephews be could offer to watch the children more often

or he could even study his family's genealogy.

Thank you, that's good advice. He seems to want to do more fulfilling work that helps people.

Posted by Andalusia
Uh oh... girl, you're playing with fire. :/

Thankfully my Mom is a Scorpio, so I'm not that put off by his energy...but man it's intense!

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Uh oh... girl, you're playing with fire. :/

hahaha all her positive placements blind her to the world of Scorpio

But yeah Scorps are pretty tough on themselves even tho many of the ones I know makes loads of money and have loving families.

I think its because they are so determined that once they get what they need they have trouble settling down

Also the relationship question is sketchy hahaha. Scorps arent as direct as Sag

helping as a good friend in anything can bring a Scorps faith in humanity back again.

Like Brandyp said anything that helps people is great.

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Can you explain the sketchy part? I've known him for 4 years, and it seems like all of a sudden he's asking relationship questions. He's also offering to do things like "do you want me to pick you up so you don't have to drive?" I left my car because we drank and he messaged "If you need me to drive you to your car tomorrow let me know, there's a lunch in there too 🙂".

He's never offered these types of things before. Open to all.

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Posted by Andalusia
Uh oh... girl, you're playing with fire. :/

hahaha all her positive placements blind her to the world of Scorpio

But yeah Scorps are pretty tough on themselves even tho many of the ones I know makes loads of money and have loving families.

I think its because they are so determined that once they get what they need they have trouble settling down

Also the relationship question is sketchy hahaha. Scorps arent as direct as Sag

helping as a good friend in anything can bring a Scorps faith in humanity back again.

Like Brandyp said anything that helps people is great.

Can you explain the sketchy part? I've known him for 4 years, and it seems like all of a sudden he's asking relationship questions. He's also offering to do things like "do you want me to pick you up so you don't have to drive?" I left my car because we drank and he messaged "If you need me to drive you to your car tomorrow let me know, there's a lunch in there too 🙂".

He's never offered these types of things before. Open to all.

classic Scorpio behavior lol

yeah he likes you, probably cause you give him emotional support. Scorps are emotional and they begin to reciprocate with time/money (like a Taurus) in order to build something out of it.

That's how they get you into bed too lol

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Hmm, yes you are probably right.

I declined both offers. I wonder if he was thinking I would invite him inside and something might happen. And he would be able to check out my place which he's never seen before.

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Posted by Andalusia
Uh oh... girl, you're playing with fire. :/

hahaha all her positive placements blind her to the world of Scorpio

But yeah Scorps are pretty tough on themselves even tho many of the ones I know makes loads of money and have loving families.

I think its because they are so determined that once they get what they need they have trouble settling down

Also the relationship question is sketchy hahaha. Scorps arent as direct as Sag

helping as a good friend in anything can bring a Scorps faith in humanity back again.

Like Brandyp said anything that helps people is great.

Can you explain the sketchy part? I've known him for 4 years, and it seems like all of a sudden he's asking relationship questions. He's also offering to do things like "do you want me to pick you up so you don't have to drive?" I left my car because we drank and he messaged "If you need me to drive you to your car tomorrow let me know, there's a lunch in there too 🙂".

He's never offered these types of things before. Open to all.

classic Scorpio behavior lol

yeah he likes you, probably cause you give him emotional support. Scorps are emotional and they begin to reciprocate with time/money (like a Taurus) in order to build something out of it.

That's how they get you into bed too lol

Hmm, yes you are probably right.

I declined both offers. I wonder if he was thinking I would invite him inside and something might happen. And he would be able to check out my place which he's never seen before.

oooo lol

not only that. The whole reciprocating thing can lead to emotional attachments. The more evolved Scorps can let it go but some are just scary. (that intense feeling)

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Good point on the reciprocal thing leading to emotional attachments.

I'm thankful to have DXP as someone that has virtually no earth and tiny bit of water. I don't get these signs naturally haha.