Being alone

Scorps, how do u handle being alone?

I just realized, my scorp is sometimes paranoid & crazy cuz he's alone sooooooooo much. He swears I would cheat cuz he's jealous and I'm flirty (ven in gem 😢 )and he's gone so much... Or what am I doing, and don't go with out me, then...love u need u, u get the point.

He is on the road driving from mon-fri this week, b4 he's back I jump on plane to see my family and get back just after he goes on the road again.

2 weeks and we live together!!! Oh, and he's by himself 10 of those days.

I love being by myself...TG did you read the Introvert/Extrovert spread to get an Idea of how many scorps like being alone.

I am fine with it., I go through moments of parinoia but it's not like crazy bad.

I think he is just very insecure and jealousy but of course you know that right?

I don't ever get paranoid about being alone..might miss the companionship once in a blue moon but generally am fine pootling around doing my thang..LOL

You scorp is definitely a bit cuckoo...you sure he don't need any psychiatric treatment??

I am a tad worried about him..

MM I think he is just so in Love with TG.

Yes I guess so...why does he need to be soooo overly dramatic about it..I mean if you love, then accept..

And as for you young lady..I hope you don't give him reason to faff around like a headles chicken with your venus being in Gem..

::wags finger at TG::

I am spending a lot of time alone lately,i mean i see people only for 30 minutes everyday,i guess i am in depressing period..and it starts to effect my mentality and my brain cells..i start reading about devils ,Necronemicon,and black magic ..damn it..i should get myself together..
As for your BF..maybe he should lighten up too,go to somewhere together,go skiing or anything else..it works.

LMAO @ Brahn...I agree but Branh that was a little nasty 😉

Scorps do like to be alone. But yours sounds a little on the "far-out" side. Talk to his crazy ass. Communication is Key in relationships baby. I know you know that. So work on it.

...not nasty at all - totally true. Who cares, this is a discussion board, no? In fact it wasn't a question, just something I noticed and wondered how u guys were. I know my scorp sis HATES being alone too.

mm, yes I am a guilty flirt and soooooooo wish I could control it, but I will never cheat. It's just I love people - men, women, kids. And when ur the boyfriend who has a jealous nature - I am a little frustrating. 😢

Hey, any bulls here, I feel fuc

I couldn't put up with it so I would've left ages ago...but each to their own I guess..

So your guilty of adding fuel to the fire..hmmm..well if he was stable it wouldn't bother him..

He hasn't got a pisces moon has he? lol..sorry

i sometimes get lonely...but as soon as i have companionship Im not sure if i really want it..maybe not now. But I really enjoy being by myself...

notso that is was not nice, she is In Love, and if you ever been in love sometimes we can't see the forrest for the trees, she needs time to wake up or hope that he wakes up before it is to late, I commend her for her patients.

I have been where she is before and Love can sometimes be so strong your thinking is off. Not saying that TG's is but she is just going through some a tough moment in her relationship.

TG how long have you and him been together if you don't mind me asking...

I live by the first year is just full of crap the second year is when you start to see the real person....I am thinking that you are seeing it in this first year which I sincerly hope that you make it though these tough times.

Just over a year.

Question - do you people get worse when u get to know someone? F, when I learn things about people I learn to grow & adjust, be considerate. Be inspired. I NEVER become worse, if ANYTHING I realize it's not for me, but I don't treat people worse when I get to know them, that is for sure!

In re to: "I live by the first year is just full of crap the second year is when you start to see the real person" - yikes! If the first year is THAT - supposedly when people are on their BEST behavior, I tremble in anticipation of year 2.

"I have had more than one relationship unravel in year 2 because they had a facade they could not maintain."

My point exactly EG....that is why I don't believe a damn thing they say. Men are suspect to me and I tell them...Like I told my date. I said last night you are suspect and he said I am supposed to be.

"In re to: "I live by the first year is just full of crap the second year is when you start to see the real person" - yikes! If the first year is THAT - supposedly when people are on their BEST behavior, I tremble in anticipation of year 2."

Well TG in your situation could be differnt he be the opposite in the second year which is probably rear. I find it very rare that a couple never had any problems within the first and sex year.

Set back and think about all the relationships you had over two years, and see what you come up with.

I learned that lesson with my sons father and the second year was horribly, I found out he was cheating, his family did not like me because I was not dark enough, he first cried in front of me, we got into fights, I left him for like 3 months, he took me back and we spent another 4 years together afterwards until the abuse came.

Oh crap...!

Huh?

"My boyfriend hates being alone."

"Why does he hate it?"

"Because he thinks I might cheat on him, it frustrates him and makes him paranoid."

"That's odd .. why would he think that?"

"Because I love to flirt with people and it makes him jealous."

"Well .. if you KNOW it makes him jealous, why do it?"

"Because I love people, all people, even kids."

"That's nice .. people are good to love. But, that's not being flirty."

"Yeah, I know .. but, I flirt, too."

"Oh, you must mean with men who are attracted to you, because he wouldn't be that way over a kids, would he?"

"No."

"So .. if you KNOW it makes him upset, then WHY would you intentionally put him in a bad place while he's away from you? Don't you love him and want him to be in a good
place?"

"Oh, yes, I care for him deeply."

"Then why do you do it?"

"Because I can't help myslef .. I have no self control."

"No self control? How old are you?"

I would have to kinda agree with P-Angel here..I do think you actually get a thrill out of annoying him and making him feel helpless..wonder how you would feel if the tables were turned...

Everybody has buttons, that IF pushed, it will send us over the edge and put us in a bad place .. over time, our partners come to know "where" these places are .. if our partner KNOWS this and pushes our buttons anyway, knowing we are going to throw a gasket .. how much does that person really care about you?

LOL Notso

"Everybody has buttons, that IF pushed, it will send us over the edge and put us in a bad place .. over time, our partners come to know "where" these places are .. if our partner KNOWS this and pushes our buttons anyway, knowing we are going to throw a gasket .. how much does that person really care about you?"

depends on why they do it! if they do it to hurt us then they probably don't care much. but if it's just what they do, then let them!!!! i believe in freedom, liberty... to me the motives are more important than the deed itself. when i'm deeply in love i tend to be extremely jealous, almost paranoid, even if i don't show it, the feeling is there. BUT!!! if my partner was the flirty type, i'd let her. i don't believe in trained monkeys who do what they're told. i need honesty and authenticity! i'd be happy to let her be that way and i'd deal with my jealousy - especially if she's never cheating, only flirting 🙂 if i knew she was doing something just to hurt me and to make me jealous, if it's just a mind game, i'd instantly end the relationship though. as i said, the motives are far more important...

hello everyone!!! 🙂

Hello..
Finally we got polite person in Scorpio board.

He's a lizard..I wouldn't go that far..LOL..but he's a happy one..drops in every now and then to let us know he's alive

Hi

Some Lizards are nice..atleast he admits he is a Lizard..unlike some people here..

LOL..Oooooooooooooooooooooh!

i a leeeeeezard! 🙂

Not only a polite,but a proud person too.

thank you 🙂

I will even flirt with a cute old man! OK, I don't um, how do I word this? I have a flirty way of talking to strangers. Just basically it's playful, and fun, and not to piss anyone off. I don't do mind games with jealousy.

LS, your hot. 😉 😛 hehehehhe FLIRTTTTTTTTTTT

thank god i have venus in taurus... flirting leads to DEATH. lol

I know, Juicy. 😢 You got the gem in the right spot!

She's aiding it..

But yeah if he was a real man, he would've got a grip on himself..LOL. Sounds like a wuss

LS is on to something here bringing up motives ... as with everything in life, "your intentions create your reality". this is something i try to remember as i go about my own daily life 🙂

i think jealousy is lack of confidence

And who has got supreme confidence ?

Hmmmm....U may be right Notso.

OMG!!! a super hot taurusgoddess flirted with me and i MISSED IT!!!!! 😢