@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra
Scorpios can sometimes appear distant or reserved due to their intense emotions and need for control. They value deep connections but may take time to open up fully. Recognizing their signs helps manage expectations and build trust in the relationship.
Yes, i was ready to tell him to take a hike, but i liked him too much to be so petty. Help, any opinions?
I already know that im very contrary, no wonder im always in such a mess!
"no wonder im always in such a mess!"
LOL..oh dear..your not a pisces are you?
Nope..Libra!
LOL..Should've known really..
Yeah just chill...theres not a lot else you can do..he'll do whatever he wants in his own sweet time..
Come on..tell me about "the signs".
Why hasnt he proposed yet?!
I love mr. bad scorpio..i cant help it, its just happened
Yep that's why Scorp men love the libra. Fasten your seat belt. And for god sake learn some Espanol quick.
What city are you in BTW
Well said EGEM.
"You teach people the way you want to be treated."
Who said that, Dr. Phil?😛
'Ya gotta look out for yourself first.'
Yes...Itz difficult but rather essential.
"Did you see that controversial book about how to get men to do what you want them to do - and it was all based on training a dog?"
If it works on men it'll almost certainly work on women as well.:/
That pretty much sucks.
"Sounds despicable, doesn't it? Yet girlfriends do it to men all the time. Why? Because we let them. We allow them to treat us like obedient pets, with sex as our reward for the "correct" behavior."
Fuck's sake, people don't really act like that, right?(I'm not counting Capricorns, as they're not really people)
Well Sola, if you do manage to marry the man, I wish you well. Don't expect christmas presents. Dont' expect to much affection or passion. Sounds like he is saving that for his friends. But if all you want is someone there that YOU like, well he sounds like the one! You can adore him close up. And that's about all you are going to get! Good luck.
*shakes head in disgust*
Seriously now, Lost for words on this one.
What a bunch of pusillanimous nay sayers you all are.
You got the rules of love all neat and tidy in your granny's little box of memories how sweet.
Ever hear this one "nothing ventured nothing gained"
"nothing ventured nothing gained"'
Scorpio is one dark alley. Cul-de-sac.
Its the journey not the goal - the destination is always unknown
No gem im afraid where we end up is not a simple matter of choice. the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry. And in love... all bets are off
The worst of all fears is the fear of living
"STATUTARY WARNING: MAY BE ADDICTIVE"
It Shud be -
Scorpioning Kills.
Pluto Jee...Hope U remember what U had promised to deliver.
JuiCy!!....First Rule of the Gemini Handbook. 1. Never at a loss for words.
I was being sarcastic em-gem! lol
me too, Juice. Me too...
i understand!
He is just playing games and hard to get with you..
"I wanted to stay for longer but he had plans with one of his friends"
Sounds familiar to me..have you ever heard about David Di Angelo?
Im sick of games..there?s no point playing with me, i cant think of a quicker way to get bored so quickly. Anyway, i met someone else in a club last night, so he can play whatever game he wants, he?s being strung along now!! Ha..bet he didnt see that coming.
LOL..You said that last time..
I know..but i dont feel bad about it, that?s the sign that his time?s up. I can still use him for sex though..that?s all he?s good for.
Poor guy,he`s being used for sex.
You will come back to him..we Scorpios are irresistible.
Bling, what do you mean "true side"??
You see, Libra?s can be anything at any time, and we can also be hard ass bitches behind the charm. So what, i liked the guy..a lot and i admit it. But I?ll only put up with someone?s shit for so long. I can be bothered wasting my time, i expect equal reciprocation in everything. So, my chummies..i have to disagree with you both here..im the winner in this game.
Who wants what?? God, you?re being a bit cryptic today!!
Hmm, i cant make sense of this! It doesnt matter though..its a new week tomorrow and im young, free and single..yaaay!
Aww, thanks! Just what i needed.
Do you have a burd?
Why not?
I did tefl last September.. thats how i ended up teaching over here..Its great by the way. Do you need any info?
So, after he neglected giving the woman a Christmas present, he somehow made her stick to him, and then "decide" she is going to "use" him for sex, and feel like she one-upped him in the process...The guy is a fucking genius.
WTF?? Being played at your end own game isnt genius..it makes you a fucking loser!
Come on, he?ll carry on "playing" when im long gone. You kiddies have a lot to learn. Stupid, yeah that?s right..not a fitting description, but clearly this is over your head.
*shakes head solemnly*
*bursts up laughing*
I was just thinking the same thing.
*** Damn, he just doesnt seem to feel the same, he?s quite distant, like he?s not really bothered if he?s with me or not. Sob.
Just incase no one covered this Sola. It is because he has lost respect for you. He treated you badly and he knows it and you know it, yet you are still sleeping with him. Respect is the precurser to love and attraction. If a man (or woman) doesn't respect you, they can't find you attractive.
*** I just think librans' naivety is almost touching
I think it is a strength not a weakness.
Not really an ace up the sleeve. I think being able to trust and believe in people and just accept them for who they are is a good thing. If people treat trusting people poorly, it is really a reflection on their own lack of character.
nope. not at all. people are people. whatever they do is a reflection on them, not me.
I find if you believe the best in people, they often suprise you. In good ways. 🙂
hear! hear!
totally agree.
I find just accepting people and not taking it personal to do the soul a wealth of good.
I dont take anything personally. I just think its completely shite that there are such wastes of space sharing my planet.
Is this a contradiction or a very subtle logic
LS: I find if you believe the best in people, they often suprise you
J😱 disappointment comes from expectation by removing your expectations, you will simply see people for who they are, and not rate them based on what you thought they would be
LS:totally agree.
I find just accepting people and not taking it personal to do the soul a wealth of good.
How do you believe the best in people and still see them for what they are??
We?re Libra..its a gift.
ya mean like magic
Not really, just loving people, and yet seeing right through them at the same time (not always a blessing..sometimes ignorance is bliss im sure)?!
Is love not blind on your planet?
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I love mr. bad scorpio..i cant help it, its just happened. Last night he picked me up and we went for dinner to his house, it was so lurrverly. I wanted to stay for longer but he had plans with one of his friends. Damn, he just doesnt seem to feel the same, he?s quite distant, like he?s not really bothered if he?s with me or not. Sob.