Capricorn girl Scorpio man first date advice.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by cap2333 on Monday, December 19, 2016 and has 30 replies.

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@cap2333
9 Years

I'm a young Capricorn female, age 23. He's a Scorpio male I believe in his 30s (maybe late twenties but doubt it). We met on Instagram and I think he might have asked me on a date (honestly not entirely sure if it's exactly a date). We spent the whole day messaging each other until we couldn't stay awake and then made plans to meet up at the end of the week the next day.

I'm pretty sure he isn't aware of my age, most people think I'm much older than I am as I have two degrees, wear nice clothes, have nice things, and work very hard and a lot. Most of my friends are in their thirties and I got to bars/restaurants most people my age wouldn't generally go to. I don't want my young age to deter him, I know he is a serious guy, he owns a business and manages another. He is extremely well dressed and appears to be the typical good old school kind of guy to bring home to mom and pop until you see under his clothes. He is completely covered in tattoos (and I'm talking chest pieces, back pieces, and complete arms) which I LOVE. He's very calm and smooth with just the right amount of flirtiness in his messages that I am absolutely charmed. I have a thing for water signs, my last love was a Pisces who was my age and though I loved his creativity and emotion he was just too immature and unrealistic for me at times so I'm hoping a mature Scorpio maybe the right fit? Just wanted to see if anyone had any advice on how to present myself or impress him on our "date". I'm really into this one and would love to really blow him away.

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9 Years

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by cap2333
I'm a young Capricorn female, age 23. He's a Scorpio male I believe in his 30s (maybe late twenties but doubt it). We met on Instagram and I think he might have asked me on a date (honestly not entirely sure if it's exactly a date). We spent the whole day messaging each other until we couldn't stay awake and then made plans to meet up at the end of the week the next day.

Be sexy but classy.

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Thanks! Do you have any sort of tips on maybe what I should wear? How I should flirt stuff like that?

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@cap2333
9 Years

Posted by iCloud9
all very good advice!

one more - be sweet and considerate but don't be a pushover (probably don't need to tell since you are a cap lol)

Thank you for the advice, Im usually pretty good at holding my ground — hahaha stubborn cappy ways lol

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@cap2333
9 Years

Posted by confusingconfused
Just be yourself and show interest in things he talks about (e.g. ask clarification questions, ask him to explain more, don't pretend you know what he's talking about when you don't, etc. etc.).

Age difference doesn't matter +1

Oh it's very good to hear from others about the age difference just gives me one less thing to be nervous about. Lol! Thank you for the advice!

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@cap2333
9 Years

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by cap2333
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by cap2333
I'm a young Capricorn female, age 23. He's a Scorpio male I believe in his 30s (maybe late twenties but doubt it). We met on Instagram and I think he might have asked me on a date (honestly not entirely sure if it's exactly a date). We spent the whole day messaging each other until we couldn't stay awake and then made plans to meet up at the end of the week the next day.

Be sexy but classy.

Thanks! Do you have any sort of tips on maybe what I should wear? How I should flirt stuff like that?

Be comfortable with silences. Nothing too extroverted.

With dress, leave something for the imagination. And maybe a feminine fragrance.

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My perfume is fig and grass lol but I also have one that is plumeria which I guess is more feminine

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@cap2333
9 Years

Posted by AnnabelleJames
Can't agree more - caps and scorpio's are a hot combo. Enjoy!

PS: wear something sexy, but not super-revealing

So I put a lot of thought into it, and I decided to wear all black! a short sleeve with a cut out in the front (not deep enough to reveal cleveage though it's juuuust shy lol) and black fitted pants with some nice leather boots with a slight heel. It's kind of cold here so I couldn't do my leather skirt 😢.

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@AnnabelleJames
9 Years

Posted by cap2333
Posted by AnnabelleJames
Can't agree more - caps and scorpio's are a hot combo. Enjoy!

PS: wear something sexy, but not super-revealing

So I put a lot of thought into it, and I decided to wear all black! a short sleeve with a cut out in the front (not deep enough to reveal cleveage though it's juuuust shy lol) and black fitted pants with some nice leather boots with a slight heel. It's kind of cold here so I couldn't do my leather skirt 😢.

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Sounds like just the thing :-)

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@cap2333
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Posted by AnnabelleJames
Posted by cap2333
Posted by AnnabelleJames
Can't agree more - caps and scorpio's are a hot combo. Enjoy!

PS: wear something sexy, but not super-revealing

So I put a lot of thought into it, and I decided to wear all black! a short sleeve with a cut out in the front (not deep enough to reveal cleveage though it's juuuust shy lol) and black fitted pants with some nice leather boots with a slight heel. It's kind of cold here so I couldn't do my leather skirt 😢.

Sounds like just the thing :-)

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Yes! I'll def keep you guys updated ?

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@Onyxia
9 Years

I think people have given you great advice and I really agree with all of it though being yourself is the best one and basically everything you need to know 😉

I got into a relationship with a scorpio man (also older than me) about more than a month ago and it all played out so fast, it was instant connection and we both admitted that it felt like we have been together for ages.

Connecting on an intellectual level is great but you will very quickly (with the speed of light) develop a deep sexual connection aswell and I think you will just watch everything else fall into place between you two.

Get ready for a sultry winter.

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@cap2333
9 Years

Posted by Onyxia
I think people have given you great advice and I really agree with all of it though being yourself is the best one and basically everything you need to know 😉

I got into a relationship with a scorpio man (also older than me) about more than a month ago and it all played out so fast, it was instant connection and we both admitted that it felt like we have been together for ages.

Connecting on an intellectual level is great but you will very quickly (with the speed of light) develop a deep sexual connection aswell and I think you will just watch everything else fall into place between you two.

Get ready for a sultry winter.

I'm a Scorpio ascendant too! An Aries moon though but I'm hoping for a similar experience to yours, fingers crossed! Thank you for your advice!

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@cap2333
9 Years

Just wanted to say thank you for all the advice! It went very well, I'm completely smitten. also a little confused!

I went into the restaurant so nervous, literally shaking underneath my coat. But when we made eye contact all that nervousness went away and I was so comfortable. He was extremely Scorpio, very well composed, extremely good looking, well dressed and had very nice eye contact. Someone even shattered something at the restaurant while we were talking and he didn't even break eye contact with me. He walked me to the train gave me a hug and said we should hang out this weekend. Was sort of hoping for at least a kiss but he didn't try. Wondering how into me he actually was?

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@Onyxia
9 Years

Posted by cap2333
Just wanted to say thank you for all the advice! It went very well, I'm completely smitten. also a little confused!

I went into the restaurant so nervous, literally shaking underneath my coat. But when we made eye contact all that nervousness went away and I was so comfortable. He was extremely Scorpio, very well composed, extremely good looking, well dressed and had very nice eye contact. Someone even shattered something at the restaurant while we were talking and he didn't even break eye contact with me. He walked me to the train gave me a hug and said we should hang out this weekend. Was sort of hoping for at least a kiss but he didn't try. Wondering how into me he actually was?

Similar thing happened on my first date with my scorpio man, we just hugged but the next time I saw him (basically the next day) we were already making out. Later on he told me that he wanted to kiss me that time but I had jumped right into the cab pretty quickly.

If he suggested another date than I think that's it, he is really into you. People correct me if I am wrong but the persistent eye contact already "fortified" it 😄

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@capcap000
9 Years

I'm in a very similar situation with my scorpio guy! Also a cap female, they seem so mysterious and hard for us to read. I feel like us caps really get into their gaze because we like to be admired. The man I'm seeing is similar in age to yours, maybe they are slower moving as they get older? I also didn't get anything physical from my date and was a little disappointed. The advice given here is extremely helpful, best of luck.