confused

i am in a state of confusion because my scorpio man iced me out, we were friends and a year and half ago he confessed his feelings to me, i didnt respond because back then i was dealing with some personal issues and i didnt felt as strongly for him, but he didnt mind and continued his efforts for me, i fell for him, he has the biggest heart but is a true scorpion with his jealousy and possessiveness, a week ago we had an argument and i think i hurt him deeply by saying sth about his homeland, which is sth i didnt mean, i apologized and explained my side, but he told me he needed some days to cool off because he was angry with me. Now he is back to talking but he said that he doesnt want to hear anything about feelings and just wants to stay friends, i think that part of this is the fact that he will leave the country in a few months and he isnt sure of our future together but its like the fight was the breaking point, but i dont want to lose him, what should i do ?

He's gone either way. Ltr rarely end well and scorpions are only swayed by forces greater than them. They love to be upgraded.

Posted by Erinelda

If he wants to throw you away for insulting a country then who the crap cares? That is some petty assed bullshit lol. If he is that easily hurt it was just a matter of time before you said the wrong thing. Tell me Canada sucks, who give a flying fuck lol, people are entitled to that very wrong opinion.

I couldn't agree more! 🤦

Posted by Erinelda

If he wants to throw you away for insulting a country then who the crap cares? That is some petty assed bullshit lol. If he is that easily hurt it was just a matter of time before you said the wrong thing. Tell me Canada sucks, who give a flying fuck lol, people are entitled to that very wrong opinion.

You are right, we work together and in our place of work there are alot of ethnicity, so as i come from different background i made a remark on the woman from his side and he said it was racist and that i didnt know what i was saying, which is really ridiculous because i didnt mean any harm

But what i dont understand is that yesterday he teased me about some guy who is intersted in me, and was saying here u go he wants to talk to u, and u will have children with him....etc and he was staring at me in a weird way, its was really childlish what he did for a 27 year old man

Posted by Erinelda

Yikes. Everytime you talk I like him less and less. You should totally have children with the other guy.

Lol.

LOL well this immaturity comes from fear and indécision about the future but its his loss not mine i juste wanted some clarity, thank you for your input

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Erinelda

If he wants to throw you away for insulting a country then who the crap cares? That is some petty assed bullshit lol. If he is that easily hurt it was just a matter of time before you said the wrong thing. Tell me Canada sucks, who give a flying fuck lol, people are entitled to that very wrong opinion.

Whenever I tell an Australian, that I don’t think Australia is the greatest place on earth, they say “if you don’t like it, then leave!”

Then I say, “no, I’m an immigrant and I’m here to take your jobs.”

This whole convo comes after they make fun of Canada and call me a canook and wonder why I’m so tanned if I was raised in the snow.

I go into conversations of ethnicity and the fact that snow has a high albedo and reflects sun on my face

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Yes in my workplace thez make racist remarks all the time, but when i told him that their women are in it for money he got angry and whats funny is that he said that it didnt bother him at first and then anger kept on building, now he is besides me and trying to act normal even though i can see his bull and two can play this game, besides i decided to get along with my life, if he wants to talk he knows where am at, thank you for your input