Confused

A Scorpio and I eat lunch together everyday, most of the time he provides. He brings lil things to work he knows I like. He even comes to my work area everyday so that we talk for hours. We are not in a relationship and never even went on a date. Recently I've noticed that he talks a lot about the future. When we go on a date or if I ever meet ur mom. I've also noticed that he get jealous and jokes about other men smiling or speaking to me. The other day was different because he actually got mad I believe but tried to act as if he wasn't. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing but later brought up the fact that I get lots of attention from the men at work. I've even noticed if he looks for me at work and can't find me right away. He always ask where I've been in a suspicious way. I'm confused as to what he expects from me.

I think that's called an Office Husband. Might want to either date him or acknowledge that you won't date him but doing nothing is only going to be more confusing because he thinks he had a chance even though you thoroughly have him friend zoned.

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Posted by CooCoo2
A Scorpio and I eat lunch together everyday, most of the time he provides. He brings lil things to work he knows I like. He even comes to my work area everyday so that we talk for hours. We are not in a relationship and never even went on a date. Recently I've noticed that he talks a lot about the future. When we go on a date or if I ever meet ur mom. I've also noticed that he get jealous and jokes about other men smiling or speaking to me. The other day was different because he actually got mad I believe but tried to act as if he wasn't. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing but later brought up the fact that I get lots of attention from the men at work. I've even noticed if he looks for me at work and can't find me right away. He always ask where I've been in a suspicious way. I'm confused as to what he expects from me.

Just marry the guy?

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Right ! like what is there to think about LOL

Posted by Epi
I think that's called an Office Husband. Might want to either date him or acknowledge that you won't date him but doing nothing is only going to be more confusing because he thinks he had a chance even though you thoroughly have him friend zoned.

I have a office has been and we have been a member for a year and a half drive me fucking insane and I have decided to let it go but I can't truly move on unless I change jobs same thing though nothing ever happened physically but there are feelings there. It never ends well you have to define relationship. Maybe even if you jokingly said you know you're my office has been right then he would have to think about what that really mean but you could just be really comfortable with you as well and in return is very protective of you so it comes off as possessive

This moron haven't even asked her to DO anything!

What is she supposed to - ask him out?

Who needs man like that—

Then he will lay next to her and talk about how people have sex in general and never take a lead?

Strange Scorpio! Defective...

I want to know where OP works where people can talk for HOURS? and not being fired...

Posted by Gemitati
This moron haven't even asked her to DO anything!

What is she supposed to - ask him out?

Who needs man like that—

Then he will lay next to her and talk about how people have sex in general and never take a lead?

Strange Scorpio! Defective...

I want to know where OP works where people can talk for HOURS? and not being fired...

We actually work and talk but that's a good question.

Talk for hours during work time?? What the fudge? Get back to work!

And why on earth that guy is soooo weird, man.

Anyway, you like him a lot or nah?

If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Epi
I think that's called an Office Husband. Might want to either date him or acknowledge that you won't date him but doing nothing is only going to be more confusing because he thinks he had a chance even though you thoroughly have him friend zoned.

I have a office has been and we have been a member for a year and a half drive me fucking insane and I have decided to let it go but I can't truly move on unless I change jobs same thing though nothing ever happened physically but there are feelings there. It never ends well you have to define relationship. Maybe even if you jokingly said you know you're my office has been right then he would have to think about what that really mean but you could just be really comfortable with you as well and in return is very protective of you so it comes off as possessive

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It's very confusing. I do like him and I guess we both are feeling each other out. I don't like rejection either. We have so much in common, to the point I finish his sentences when we talk. He says (we are family). Very nice guy, I guess just moving at a slow pace. However I am Aries so the patience is killing, and teaching me.

Posted by CooCoo2

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Epi
I think that's called an Office Husband. Might want to either date him or acknowledge that you won't date him but doing nothing is only going to be more confusing because he thinks he had a chance even though you thoroughly have him friend zoned.

I have a office has been and we have been a member for a year and a half drive me fucking insane and I have decided to let it go but I can't truly move on unless I change jobs same thing though nothing ever happened physically but there are feelings there. It never ends well you have to define relationship. Maybe even if you jokingly said you know you're my office has been right then he would have to think about what that really mean but you could just be really comfortable with you as well and in return is very protective of you so it comes off as possessive

It's very confusing. I do like him and I guess we both are feeling each other out. I don't like rejection either. We have so much in common, to the point I finish his sentences when we talk. He says (we are family). Very nice guy, I guess just moving at a slow pace. However I am Aries so the patience is killing, and teaching me.

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I totally understand that ultimately you have to decide what do you want and you have to feel him out enough to see how he would handle the situation if it went bad. Would mean he would probably freeze you out. But at the same time you don't want to overthink it to the point where you're both so hesitant that nothing ever happens

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Posted by Gemitati
This moron haven't even asked her to DO anything!

What is she supposed to - ask him out?

Who needs man like that—

Then he will lay next to her and talk about how people have sex in general and never take a lead?

Strange Scorpio! Defective...

I want to know where OP works where people can talk for HOURS? and not being fired...

We actually work and talk but that's a good question.

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So the note about him not asking you out didn't catch your attention?

Posted by pinkbird03
If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Why doesn't GUY asking her to hang out?

Posted by Neno2

Posted by ladylibra21

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Posted by CooCoo2
A Scorpio and I eat lunch together everyday, most of the time he provides. He brings lil things to work he knows I like. He even comes to my work area everyday so that we talk for hours. We are not in a relationship and never even went on a date. Recently I've noticed that he talks a lot about the future. When we go on a date or if I ever meet ur mom. I've also noticed that he get jealous and jokes about other men smiling or speaking to me. The other day was different because he actually got mad I believe but tried to act as if he wasn't. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing but later brought up the fact that I get lots of attention from the men at work. I've even noticed if he looks for me at work and can't find me right away. He always ask where I've been in a suspicious way. I'm confused as to what he expects from me.

Just marry the guy?

Right ! like what is there to think about LOL

He likes u,u like him?make sure to be intimate on February so we get more scorpios?

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Who needs that kind? One who takes no actions? Yuck!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Why doesn't GUY asking her to hang out?

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I don't know him so I'm not sure why he's not asking her to hang out.

I personally don't believe it's only a man's role to ask a lady out on a date.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Why doesn't GUY asking her to hang out?

I don't know him so I'm not sure why he's not asking her to hang out.

I personally don't believe it's only a man's role to ask a lady out on a date.

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If he is talking about future - it's his game to ask her out! Otherwise he sounds like a whimp!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Why doesn't GUY asking her to hang out?

I don't know him so I'm not sure why he's not asking her to hang out.

I personally don't believe it's only a man's role to ask a lady out on a date.

If he is talking about future - it's his game to ask her out! Otherwise he sounds like a whimp!

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lol I agree with you there. I love a man who can take charge.

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Posted by CooCoo2
A Scorpio and I eat lunch together everyday, most of the time he provides. He brings lil things to work he knows I like. He even comes to my work area everyday so that we talk for hours. We are not in a relationship and never even went on a date. Recently I've noticed that he talks a lot about the future. When we go on a date or if I ever meet ur mom. I've also noticed that he get jealous and jokes about other men smiling or speaking to me. The other day was different because he actually got mad I believe but tried to act as if he wasn't. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing but later brought up the fact that I get lots of attention from the men at work. I've even noticed if he looks for me at work and can't find me right away. He always ask where I've been in a suspicious way. I'm confused as to what he expects from me.

He is your WORK COLLEAGUE... Never shit on your own doorstep by mixing business with pleasure... Show some restraint... Some people are just "out of bounds"... Work colleagues are one of those group of people, Imo.

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If he is not her superior there is nothing wrong with office romance! Stop paranoia!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by CooCoo2

Posted by Gemitati
This moron haven't even asked her to DO anything!

What is she supposed to - ask him out?

Who needs man like that—

Then he will lay next to her and talk about how people have sex in general and never take a lead?

Strange Scorpio! Defective...

I want to know where OP works where people can talk for HOURS? and not being fired...

We actually work and talk but that's a good question.

So the note about him not asking you out didn't catch your attention?

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Yes it did that's why I'm asking, what's up with this dude. I don't mind being friends if that's what he's after. I don't want to lead him on either. It's nothing wrong with have lunch and chatting in my opinion. It doesn't make a person weird. What makes the situation weird is he gets jealous of other men. Anyway, thanks for ur time. Have a nice day.

Posted by DepthAndDeath
Talk for hours during work time?? What the fudge? Get back to work!

And why on earth that guy is soooo weird, man.

Anyway, you like him a lot or nah?

What's wrong with talking and working? I like him, he's funny. Don't know about the possessive part. I was just wondering what's up with him. Why not ask me out but wanna be jealous etc? Confusing. I would go out with him if he ask. We can be friends or see where it goes. I was just wondering if this is how scorpios act? Idk

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
If you like him, ask him to hang out after work hours. If you don't like him, stop leading the poor guy on. It's obvious he really likes you.

Why doesn't GUY asking her to hang out?

I don't know him so I'm not sure why he's not asking her to hang out.

I personally don't believe it's only a man's role to ask a lady out on a date.

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I agree, I'll see where it goes? WTH. If he declines then I'll know.

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by CooCoo2
A Scorpio and I eat lunch together everyday, most of the time he provides. He brings lil things to work he knows I like. He even comes to my work area everyday so that we talk for hours. We are not in a relationship and never even went on a date. Recently I've noticed that he talks a lot about the future. When we go on a date or if I ever meet ur mom. I've also noticed that he get jealous and jokes about other men smiling or speaking to me. The other day was different because he actually got mad I believe but tried to act as if he wasn't. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing but later brought up the fact that I get lots of attention from the men at work. I've even noticed if he looks for me at work and can't find me right away. He always ask where I've been in a suspicious way. I'm confused as to what he expects from me.

He is your WORK COLLEAGUE... Never shit on your own doorstep by mixing business with pleasure... Show some restraint... Some people are just "out of bounds"... Work colleagues are one of those group of people, Imo.

If he is not her superior there is nothing wrong with office romance! Stop paranoia!

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I agree nothing wrong with office romance, not like we're making love in the office or even kissing in front of ppl. Goodness. Right now it's just laughter and chatting. With a lil jealous tendencies. Lol he's not my superior so no worries there

Why would a Scorpio man invite a woman he knows likes him to his house for a party where his friends and family will be including his girlfriend?

if he is serious about his gf, it's a way to tell you to back off

Posted by iCloud9
if he is serious about his gf, it's a way to tell you to back off

Never thought of that. When I was told he invited her I wondered why the hell would he do that. It's disrespectful his girlfriend and that other woman.

Posted by GetMisted
Threesome

Now that's funny. I guess! It just to me would seem like an awkward situation.

Posted by CooCoo2

Posted by iCloud9
if he is serious about his gf, it's a way to tell you to back off

Never thought of that. When I was told he invited her I wondered why the hell would he do that. It's disrespectful his girlfriend and that other woman.

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if he is having sexual relationship with this other woman also, it's an opportunity to bring him down in front of everyone









i think i'm showing my true color a bit too much lol

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Posted by iCloud9
if he is serious about his gf, it's a way to tell you to back off

Never thought of that. When I was told he invited her I wondered why the hell would he do that. It's disrespectful his girlfriend and that other woman.

if he is having sexual relationship with this other woman also, it's an opportunity to bring him down in front of everyone









i think i'm showing my true color a bit too much lol

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Agree, I'm not sure if their having sex but I am pretty sure he knows she like him. Weird to me.

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Posted by iCloud9
if he is serious about his gf, it's a way to tell you to back off

Never thought of that. When I was told he invited her I wondered why the hell would he do that. It's disrespectful his girlfriend and that other woman.

if he is having sexual relationship with this other woman also, it's an opportunity to bring him down in front of everyone









i think i'm showing my true color a bit too much lol

Agree, I'm not sure if their having sex but I am pretty sure he knows she like him. Weird to me.

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Most ppl say to see if the family likes the other woman before he gets rid of the Girl friend..so dirty. lol I believe that

Posted by Algol-Rising
Maybe he's using you to make his gf jealous.

The only way to do that is if she knows that the girl likes him. Why would he tell his GF that and invite her ova? That's stupid

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Posted by CooCoo2

Posted by Algol-Rising
Maybe he's using you to make his gf jealous.

The only way to do that is if she knows that the girl likes him. Why would he tell his GF that and invite her ova? That's stupid

Well, then, maybe it's the other thing. Have fun getting replaced in the same super respectful fashion some day!

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Never said it was me, but thanks I will. Have a nice day

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Posted by CooCoo2

Posted by Algol-Rising
Maybe he's using you to make his gf jealous.

The only way to do that is if she knows that the girl likes him. Why would he tell his GF that and invite her ova? That's stupid

Well, then, maybe it's the other thing. Have fun getting replaced in the same super respectful fashion some day!

Never said it was me, but thanks I will. Have a nice day

Sorry. I tend to get a little bitchy when someone comes online bragging about how they're pulling the wool over someone's eyes because they think they've stolen away a boyfriend. That girl doesn't even know she has competition, and you're laughing at her. Get your own.

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Anyone would get upset, I thought it was odd, which is why I'm asking. I didn't think that was normal seems like mind games for both GF and other girl. Like I said before I don't know if they had sex. They could just be friends however he does know that she likes him as more than a friend. I would feel uncomfortable around someone I like and their GF, hey but that's just me