@desilove333
9 Years
Is my Scorpio Ex Harassing Me—
Get another job, move, get a new number and move on with your life.
It's clearly not a healthy situation.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Get another job, move, get a new number and move on with your life.It's clearly not a healthy situation.
You're right.... Well my job is paying for my school so until I complete my full degree I have to stay, luckily we only see each other once a week due to different shifts. I blocked the number that was harassing me and I'm going to dismiss the rest I guess. I just don't know the lengths he would go to get a reaction. If this is him, he could go further. I read scorps are revengeful and somehow I think he really thinks I did HIM wrong smh. Just don't want it to get worse.
I would not put this past a truly angry person, let along a Scorpio, although with them it can be extra special!! Your own experiences are familiar to mine..... my Scorpio has lavished various women in my face, and also come to me to tell me he slept with another woman because I had ended our relationship and he was upset.... yes, he came to me and told me this in an effort to win me back! Nutcase.
He planned things to exact his so called 'revenge' with a smile on his face. Of course it hurt BUT never let it show!!
I think the best thing for you is to leave things well alone, as you say block numbers, get on with your life and keep a pleasant demenour if you see him..... don't raise your voice, don't allow yourself to get into conversations or arguments, don't react and don't get even.... leave it well alone if you are not able to move away completely.
Good luck
Trying to understand a Scorpio is like trying to get out of a corn maze...... I just don't get these individuals
Posted by Ellygant
I don't see anything difficult to understand.This man clearly cares about nothing but himself. He desires relationships so he can practice his control and toxicity over others and use them as props for his own severely depleted ego. There's nothing complicated about his selfishness.
Block unknown numbers. If he continues to harass you get a new one. If you can't leave your job see if they can change your schedule so you don't see him anymore. Do whatever it takes to remove such a cancerous person from you life quickly and decisively.
Yes yes... It truly seems like this is exactly what he is doing. He is behaving like a crazy person and I can't prove for a known fact that its him but I never had anyone play on my phone before. Not one time..... All of a sudden I move on and this happens. On top of him blaming me for harassing him. He is a jerk and dilusional and I'm just going to try to stay away from the madness
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Posted by Gob_Shite
And the moral of this story is: don't shit where you eat.i couldn't read, but another sex affair at work?
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no not an affair because while I was with him I didn't know he was messing around and the girl doesn't work at our job and we don't have drama at our job. We both need our jobs so the drama has never spilled over in that direction. He just crazy once he punches out.... Then it seem like he goes in crazy mode. But I will make it in paragraph form so you can read it. One second.....
Posted by Gob_Shite
And the moral of this story is: don't shit where you eat.
no drama at work though so in this case its more about the individual and less about where I met him.
Posted by Impulsv
You like dramaYou keep entertaining
No I didn't keep entertaining..... I blocked the number. Who wants someone playing on their phone and enjoys it— Especially someone calling you names?? That's stupid.....
Posted by bumboklatt
You bit the baitNever respond to a Scorps negativity
He saw you were in a better place so he dragged you down to his personal hell
Rise above and love yourself.
Might need to cut off all ties and move
My mom said the same thing smh. She said he knows you were done because you officially met someone and you were happy and he is trying to destroy that happiness. But why?? If you have a whole life at home (clearly) why focus on me. Focus on your own life because I moved on. What is with this zodiac sign. I see similar stories all the time about scorps and their stalkish, vengeful ways. Is this true about the majority??
If you have to ask whether someone is harassing you = feeling harassed = your being harassed.
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Posted by desilove333
Posted by bumboklatt
You bit the baitNever respond to a Scorps negativity
He saw you were in a better place so he dragged you down to his personal hell
Rise above and love yourself.
Might need to cut off all ties and move
My mom said the same thing smh. She said he knows you were done because you officially met someone and you were happy and he is trying to destroy that happiness. But why?? If you have a whole life at home (clearly) why focus on me. Focus on your own life because I moved on. What is with this zodiac sign. I see similar stories all the time about scorps and their stalkish, vengeful ways. Is this true about the majority??
Yeah there's this tendency with Scorps , they are very emotional, black and white emotions
But aside from his sign he has a problem with himself, probably stemming from childhood
Scorpio just interprets things in an extreme way. He's obviously not happy with his family.
So since you are his scapegoat/punching bag, I suggest stay away or cut off ties cause you will never convince a Scorpio, the more you try and explain the more they will try to manipulate you and get angrier
right now he wants revenge and is searching all avenues on how to get it
Trust me I've had confrontations with Scorpios and as a Scorpio Moon, nothing they do surprises me, they get down and dirty
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This is a shame..... And so much of the truth its scary. My Scorp ex had popped up over my house before, has blew up my phone and has bugged me before during our involvement.
I know he is a bit off, but I thought maybe it was just because of his past or because he was just different or you know (misunderstood) and he is the epitome of a Scorpio. He even brags about having all of the Scorpio traits you'll ever read about
Uh yeah like being a manipulator, a stalker and seek to destroy— Smh
I never thought he'd go this low. Even if we had a fight we contacted each other directly. Never with a different number. Its scary.
Posted by LadyNeptune
If you have to ask whether someone is harassing you = feeling harassed = your being harassed.
I now for a fact that I am, I'm just wondering could this be my ex or a crazy case of coiensidence
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by desilove333
What is with this zodiac sign. I see similar stories all the time about scorps and their stalkish, vengeful ways. Is this true about the majority??Sure is. Every Scorpio has an inner Charles Manson just waiting for the right opportunity to express himself....Be careful...
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lol I'll keep my guard up
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by desilove333
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by desilove333
Posted by bumboklatt
You bit the baitNever respond to a Scorps negativity
He saw you were in a better place so he dragged you down to his personal hell
Rise above and love yourself.
Might need to cut off all ties and move
My mom said the same thing smh. She said he knows you were done because you officially met someone and you were happy and he is trying to destroy that happiness. But why?? If you have a whole life at home (clearly) why focus on me. Focus on your own life because I moved on. What is with this zodiac sign. I see similar stories all the time about scorps and their stalkish, vengeful ways. Is this true about the majority??
Yeah there's this tendency with Scorps , they are very emotional, black and white emotions
But aside from his sign he has a problem with himself, probably stemming from childhood
Scorpio just interprets things in an extreme way. He's obviously not happy with his family.
So since you are his scapegoat/punching bag, I suggest stay away or cut off ties cause you will never convince a Scorpio, the more you try and explain the more they will try to manipulate you and get angrier
right now he wants revenge and is searching all avenues on how to get it
Trust me I've had confrontations with Scorpios and as a Scorpio Moon, nothing they do surprises me, they get down and dirty
This is a shame..... And so much of the truth its scary. My Scorp ex had popped up over my house before, has blew up my phone and has bugged me before during our involvement.I know he is a bit off, but I thought maybe it was just because of his past or because he was just different or you know (misunderstood) and he is the epitome of a Scorpio. He even brags about having all of the Scorpio traits you'll ever read about
Uh yeah like being a manipulator, a stalker and seek to destroy— Smh
I never thought he'd go this low. Even if we had a fight we contacted each other directly. Never with a different number. Its scary.
The sad thing with Scorpio is they are misunderstood, because their emotions are so extreme. They have a tendency to do the opposite of what they should to heal themselves.
Trust me I'm no saint I know these things for a reason, I've just learned to use them to grow and not to hurt
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He'd never listen though
Trying to tell him how to help his self always lead to me being cussed out because I guess he felt like I was coming down on him. Sadly, they don't recognize their own weaknesses
But regardless...... If this is my Scorp harassing me secretly, its so messy and inappropriate.
I guess since I was ignoring every other thing he did he had to start harassing me from a different number. But now I blocked that number..... So now what—?? Now what are you going to do— Gggeeeasahhh smh
report these things to the police so there is a record started - continue to block, put up no trespassing signs, etc.
you have a new man so you might want to tell him in general what is going on - no need to elaborate - an old boyfriend stalking me is enough - just in case something happens - cause if you don't say anything now and something happens - you might end up trying to explain a lot more
you did the right thing about no contact - it is his problem
Posted by Impulsv
Posted by desilove333
Posted by bumboklatt
You bit the baitNever respond to a Scorps negativity
He saw you were in a better place so he dragged you down to his personal hell
Rise above and love yourself.
Might need to cut off all ties and move
My mom said the same thing smh. She said he knows you were done because you officially met someone and you were happy and he is trying to destroy that happiness. But why?? If you have a whole life at home (clearly) why focus on me. Focus on your own life because I moved on. What is with this zodiac sign. I see similar stories all the time about scorps and their stalkish, vengeful ways. Is this true about the majority??
Nah not about zodiac sign
It's about bad men
N you entertained one n let him in.
They exist in all sign
Why are you wasting ur energy on trying to figure out
U got a new man who seems good to you
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Yes I do, but if this is him he could ruin what I have. All because of his spiteful ways. I did let him in, 3 years ago, and now he isn't in anything and I think he is completely upset because of it. But you are right. I will just focus on my new relationship. I blocked the number so it wont come through anymore. I guess I should just let it go now.
Posted by tcta
report these things to the police so there is a record started - continue to block, put up no trespassing signs, etc.you have a new man so you might want to tell him in general what is going on - no need to elaborate - an old boyfriend stalking me is enough - just in case something happens - cause if you don't say anything now and something happens - you might end up trying to explain a lot more
you did the right thing about no contact - it is his problem
I was kind of scared to tell him because I don't want him to think it is anything more than what it is. Because all of a sudden this number is harassing me he could think I have recently been in contact with him and I haven't that's the problem. I blocked the number so it shouldn't go further. I just hope my ex is somewhere not staring at a picture of me casting a spell or something lol {crazy scorpios)
Posted by inmercury
Whatever is going on, don't feel threatened by the Scorpio. Inside they are sad victimized pussycats. My husband's Scorpio exwife is such a pitiful piece of nothing. Don't know how people get captivated by them. I truly think Scorpios just feed on people who initially like that kind of attention until they realize they are drowning.
And you know what I think you are exactly right. At first I liked this type of attention cause I thought he just really wanted me like he was just this attracted to me the same way your husband probably felt about his ex-wife until the realization comes that these people are really crazy and very insecure and don't know how to control their emotions.
I read that Scorpio is a feminine sign and it explains why the women act the way that they do but because the men are drowning in their feminine ways they have no choice but to act that way as well I don't know if this is a total Scorpio thing but everyone I ran across is this exact same way arrogant and confident on the outside, but drowning on the inside. Just probably up staring at White Walls figuring out who lives they can mess up now.
He's obviously a egocentric dude. Stand up to him. Let him know if he doesn't stop you will call the police and change your number. With Scorpios you have to do what they would do quit them cold turkey. Don't engage with his antics. Don't let him scare you. Ignore him. If any number text you don't know don't answer. Just block it. That's how you force a Scorpio out. Push him out the freaking door. This coming from a Scorpio. His pride was wounded when you told him you were moving on. Tell him oh well and keep doing you. He will eventually find another victim. Bastard!!! I hate men like that.
Des I love that's not true for all of us. It really depends on the rising sign and deacon they are under. Second deacon Scorpios are good. My birthday is November9th and I'm as sweet as they come and I would never hurt anyone
But the freaking first deacon Scorpios are nuts
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This is long, but please reply. I met my Scorpio ex 3 years ago and I fell for him fast. He told me he was single and we were heavily involved for a whole year before I found out that not only was he messing with someone else but he had a baby on the way. I was beyond hurt (and felt stupid), so we stopped talking for 6 months.
He then reached out to me, said he missed me and honestly I missed him too so we started back being involved because he said him and the girl were no longer together. A year after that I found out that he was messing around with her. He told me that he was sorry he lied, but he didn't know how to tell me he was still with her because he wanted me so much. I was hurt (again), but my feelings were so wrapped up into him I continued (foolishly) to mess with him for another two months though i had started to detach myself from him everyday.
Soon I met my virgy guy and liked him a lot so I told my Scorp that I had met someone and no longer wanted to be involved with him. He was mad and said how could I just move on from him so fast. (Like dude really—) You have a whole family smh. Anyway after that, about two weeks later, he texted me and told me that someone had been harassing him and his girl and he thinks it was me because I'm the only woman he was with outside of her. (Fucking stupid) I was beyond pissed. How dare he blame me for something that stupid ESPECIALLY since I had met someone else and broke it off with him. Plua, i know i wasnt the only one he had been with. We got into a huge arguement which ultimately ended in low blows, hurtful words and never wanting to speak again.
We work together so I see him every week and he stares hard, but keeps walking (a scorp thing I guess) He has said things about me that got back to me but i just ignored it. He had called and texted me occasionally, but i would never respond or reply. I waa done The last time he texted was about a month ago.
Lately a number has been calling my phone, harassing me, calling me names and everything. So I thought... Maybe this was the same number that was harassing my scorp ex. We haven't talked in a long time but I decided to text him and ask anyway, just to try to put some pieces together and to clear his assumptions that it was me who was harassing him. So I text him but the reply I got was 'just got this number' like this was someone new and my ex had changed his number. I
swear I don't believe it, I don't think he changed his number and I think he is really messing with me, trying to hurt me because for some strange reason he feels betrayed. I think he got another phone and is literally harassing me. I heard some scorps are like this and once they feel like you belong to them they will stalk you forever. I also heard that some scorps like to play mind games and humiliate you, but I could be wrong. Any suggestions—?