confused no more

I want to thank all of you for responding to my posting. I've finally decided to move on. I definitely feel that I was being used and manipulated emotionally because he knew he could get away with it because my feelings were so deep for him. It hurts I must admit, but being compromised, for a scorpio, hurts more. I've told him we can be friends, but when I think about it, I don't even think he's worthy of that. I'm going through the anger stage. Looking back, all he ever told me were lies. When we got together he told me he was looking for a wife, which he later denied ever saying that. I left my home, my church and my ex (which actually was a good thing, he was verbally and physically abusive, on top of the fact that he'd been having a long term affair -- they now live together, but of course, he constantly tries to check my temperature to see if I'd dabble with him again -- FAT CHANCE); Anyway, back to Scorpio, he said whatever it took to get me, and now I realize he's nothing but a liar, and a cheat. On a positive note, once I finally do get over a man, that's all she wrote. My pride kicks in and I'll be damned if he'll ever get the satisfaction of having me again.
Thanks again to all of you! Those words of wisdom were just what I needed!!!

Good Girl! I wish I were at your stage right now. I'm at the pathetic denial stage-(What happened to My Scorpio) I mean! Give me a break! Its clear this guy is over me! So, congrats!

I feel your pain, and don't be too hard on yourself, it's the natural process.

Well girl good for you. Sometimes people like you give hope to others who are having a struggle deep within - knowing whats right but wishing it wasnt right! I wish you all the best for the future and hope life is good and kind to you - you desevre it in fact we all deserve to be happy - but remember happiness comes from within with being content with ourselves!

As much as I love Scorpios, I avoid the bad ones whenever possible. I'm glad you decided to do just that.