CONTROL

Yo....ok, Scorps this is up for anyone comfortable enough with answering it....if you want info on me I'll give it back....

first question: do you need to feel in control in the bedroom...— Are you ok with going with flow, and are you open-minded in a kinky way— THAT'S IMPORTANT FOR ME....basically do most of you have any inhibitions that run contrary to the legendary scorpion passion and curiosity— How far is TOO FAR for you critters—

second question:do you feel it's 'acceptable' to enjoy being able to 'control' your lover—....I have my sun in the eighth house and I feel the need to be in TOTAL CONTROL....but when I say this I don't mean in a dominance dance, it's more like I know every detail about how you tick and move....you're my plaything....hehehehe...lol

Wow, I suppose I'll take up fly's offer and get some therapy....what a sick little thing I am....

But this is open to any Scorp who is confident in themselves to be that open....I'm not asking for trust, just your opinions....You don't have to do this if you're not into it....

The only control I like to have is when I am on top, that is the best control you can give me anything after that the man is in control. I want to know what they can do and in order to get that I need to give up some control, know if they can't fulfill that then there is a problem for them.

You asked what will be the problem? They will never touch me again

When I am with my special person, he has all control. Hell I ask if I can get on top and I don't do it that much. He takes all the control and I like that just as much.

'man, you really wanna be on some scorp titties, don't yah?'

damn, is it THAT obvious....I'm tryin' to look deep here....lol

'i think scorps are like the Jokers of astrology, they want to kill the Batman, but would be sad if they killed the Batman.'

Damn good analogy GB....that puts alot of stuff into perspective, but bring up alot more questions.....like, what exactly does it mean— lol


Ok, I myself believe/feel that sex goes on outside the bedroom and I like the subtlety of it....that way she walks, the conversation leading up to her puttin me, and puttin' her in the mood...

As far as being kinky....ANYTHING GOES....even a little pain to get to the point if you feel me....I like to push limits, and HATE TO BE TOLD NO....lol 😛 Strange...— I respect boundaries though even if I push buttons....if you don't dig what I'm into then we'll find SOMETHING to do....

I'm scuuured of them ass beads though.....that's some OTHER shyt.....ROFLMAO.....pull some shyt out on me like that, and you might see me break a sweat....😉

Also depending on the feelings I have for the chick....I'll got the distance if you catch my drift....😉 I DON'T QUIT!!!!! DON'T SAY 'I'M TIRED' EITHER....NO YOU SIGNED UP FOR THIS COURSE SO YOU'RE GONNA RIDE THIS OUTTTTTTT!!!!! 😉 lol

....and another thing!! I turns me on to see you turned on!! I'm always turned on anyway, but just to see you enjoying YOURSELF.....WHOLE OTHER TYPE OF FIGHT!!!!! lol

"I'm saying that they want control, but would be unhappy if they got it."

Not quite. We're pretty happy with control.

Our problem is we abuse it.... badly.

""i think scorps are like the Jokers of astrology, they want to kill the Batman, but would be sad if they killed the Batman.""


LOL

lol SR, No conscience— lol

GB: i think scorps are like the Jokers of astrology, they want to kill the Batman, but would be sad if they killed the Batman.

True! Funny, but true!!

And like Heath Ledger's rendition, Scorps want Batman to kill the Joker, and then have Batman kill himself for killing the Joker...

A relationship with a Scorp really does center around Love / Hate + Life / Death + Obsessive / Compulsive - an always dangerous instability trying to assert itself as stable...

IOW: They're just nucking futz!

No I don't NEED to be in control, variety is the best, sometimes I put it on him and sometimes it's the other way around. I love a man that can control me but if he's not that confident I have no issue with runnin thangs...lol. I don't have many inhibitions BUT it takes me being with a partner several times and feeling totally secure before I'm willing to completely unleash the beast...don't want to scare him!Communication is the most important thing though, don't just spring something new before running it by me 1st...that wouldn't be good. ....don't do things just to show off...do it cause it feels good to one or both of us. Long story short it doesn't matter who's in control as long as we're both satisfied

uugh...lol

VE,

These lyrics sum up S + V and CONTROL...

I need to feel you
you need to feel me
I can't control you
you're not the one for me no
I can't control you
you can't control me
I need to feel you
so why's it even
you and me

DANG VIRGOEXALTED, YOU ARE SO OBSSESSED WITH US. I MEAN WHO CARES? WHY ARE VIRGO'S SO OBSESSED WITH SCORPIOS? I MEAN IF YOU HATE US SO MUCH, THEN LEAVE US BE, IF YOU ADMIRE US, ADMIT AND GO ON ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS. I REALLY THINK YOU ARE A NASTY , DEVIOUS LITTLE THING. I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF YOU WERE GOTHIC. LOL

HONESTLY, I THINK YOUR MANY COMMENTS, CONCERNS AND QUESTIONS STEM FROM YOUR OWN PROJECTIONS... IT'S YOU WITH THE DOMINANCE ISSUES... AND CONTROL PROBLEMS..

JUST GIVE PROPS WHERE THERE DO, LEARN YOURSELF AND LEAVE US ALONE..


NO NEED TO RESPOND

*WINKS*