DAMN YOU PISCES, TAKING MY SCORPIO!

So everything was going great, me and scorpio texting everyday for weeks, chillin maybe 2 times a week... he would go on talking for hours as i listened... and finally i put my guard down, and begin to open up to him, and what happens—??

he finds a pisces chick.... with LAYERS, and tattoos, and attitude, and piercings in dangerous places........ and now i havent heard from him in 3 days!!!

is she going to win the fight??

do i , simple, one layer taurus have a chance against this very hardworking, rebellious pisces?

well, when i saw him friday, he was texting her while with me, and was tellin me all about her....how cute and funny she is, and everything else i mentioned above...
( he met her off a dating site, and will meet her in person this coming friday for coffee)

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Holy shit.. girls can end up in friendzone?!

LOL I KNOW...... he told me he doesnt have girls as friends.... and i always told him he would be eating his words....

and now im the damn friend, when i want to be more.... lol

Correct, and correct :S

even though im prettyyyy sure the feelings i'm hoping he has.... are my illusions :S

i just kinda got out of a 6 year relationship, like last week.... and so, iano complicated...... i wanted to make sure the dust settled, and get to know him more and feel comfortable around him, before i start sharing how i feel....

i have already expressed my admiration for him, but not any romantic feelings

but now it may be too late

Wasting time

baked potato haha

i woulddddd........ but i still have my ex who i do love, and who is crazy about me and wanting to make it work...

and the scorpio went thru a similar situation where he ended up dating his friend who got outta a 10 year relationships, only to get back with her ex again ...... and it hurt him badly....

i dont want that to happen to him again...

so if he finds happiness with this chick, i guess i will be happy for him...

i cant tell him how i feel, unless im 100% able to give him my all...

just wanna know wut im up agianst 😛

Scorpios: don't you pick up on a person's feelings for you right away? Is it even possible that this man doesn't know about her feelings for him? I have had a Scorpio in whom I was very interested "friend zone" me by confiding in me about a girl he liked. It was most definitely his way of letting me know where I stood with him without bringing the issue out into the open.

*** shakes head ***


so you have an ex you still love and apparantly still sharing feelings with if you currently know how he feels about you ....

meanwhile, you give a false impression of yourself to another man and lead him to believe you feel something that you don't ..

so then he finally believes you and is comfortable enough in believing in this falseness you've fooled him with to share with you feelings of excitment he has for a person ..

.... and little does he know that he couldn't trust you to be this friend ....

So now you think YOU are in need?

p-angel :

ive been his friend for a year now, and only recently started to have these feelings for him, i have been listening to him talk about girls for a very long time, its what i do lol all my friends talk to me about their crushes...

so i didnt give him a false impression of myself... and if he does see that i have feelings, well i cant control how i feel..... even though i am trying to

Of course ...

Posted by Lena282
Sounds like he's just using that girl to make you jealous. This is an old as time trick played by watery signs - I used to do it, it's an indirect way to find out if someone is interested in me, you know without risking looking like an idiot. Very immature yes, but it comes with the package of being introverted, and not wanting to flat out ask someone. What motivates Scorpio could be something completely different though.

normally i would think that, but this time it felt different, and sincere..... he was already slowing down the txting, and then after we hung out on friday... totally dissappeared.. no reply, and even deleted his facebook account

Taking YOUR scorpio..?? Well if you feel this way you should go 'claim' him...actually you should have done this, test the waters before...he wasnt going to sit and wait forever in case you decided to like him that way...and from his part, he would have made a move, no matter how subtle or indirect, a move nevertheless.
I always maintain that friendship is great but attraction is there from the beginning or not. Then you take it slow and along with the attraction you build a wonderful friendship as well but the romantic element prevails...
In such situations, when you re friends first, what usually happens is that one of the friends ends up having feelings for the other and its not reciprocal...
Take care of yourself and do not think about this pisces girl or him...he made his intentions clear...I agree that he has sensed the interest on your part and is now sending you a clear message, so you do not feel lead on. And that s a good thing.
He could lap at your attention while sensing your feelings while enjoying his time with pisces gal. He was pretty honest till now and thats great - for you!

Pisces females know how to keep their man ... it's doubtful he'll be going anywhere that leads him away from her anytime soon.

Posted by Lilith
Taking YOUR scorpio..?? Well if you feel this way you should go 'claim' him...actually you should have done this, test the waters before...he wasnt going to sit and wait forever in case you decided to like him that way...and from his part, he would have made a move, no matter how subtle or indirect, a move nevertheless.
I always maintain that friendship is great but attraction is there from the beginning or not. Then you take it slow and along with the attraction you build a wonderful friendship as well but the romantic element prevails...
In such situations, when you re friends first, what usually happens is that one of the friends ends up having feelings for the other and its not reciprocal...
Take care of yourself and do not think about this pisces girl or him...he made his intentions clear...I agree that he has sensed the interest on your part and is now sending you a clear message, so you do not feel lead on. And that s a good thing.
He could lap at your attention while sensing your feelings while enjoying his time with pisces gal. He was pretty honest till now and thats great - for you!

this makes me very sad.... mostly becuase i think you are right.... 😢

SO PISCES A BETTER MATCH FOR SCORPIO MAN?

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
i just kinda got out of a 6 year relationship, like last week

Until last week, you were in a relationship, Taurus Friend. That's what he sees. So in the meantime of spending a year as his friend and you both sharing stuff, A LOT of stuff over the last few weeks apparently...

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
well, when i saw him friday, he was texting her while with me, and was tellin me all about her....how cute and funny she is, and everything else i mentioned above...
( he met her off a dating site, and will meet her in person this coming friday for coffee)

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He sees you as a FRIEND who just got out of a 6 year relationship.. (who should take a little time to recover?) and if he were interested in more with you, he damn straight wouldn't be telling you alllll about a fabulous Pisces girl he met on the Internet. Most guys play it a little close to their chest, wouldn't be talking about other girls to a girl they actually like. That's FRIEND stuff.

Now, sure the Scorpio guy could be "testing" you to see if you get jealous (aka if you have feelings beyond friendship).. but you said yourself that he seems really into this chick, no longer texting you all the time, deleting his FB, etc. And you mentioned her "layers" and tattoos and piercings and rebellious nature... which imply that you're already well aware that he's attracted to that sort of thing. And yes, Scorpios and Pisces often have amazing chemistry and connection, almost fated.. Scorps and Taus are Opposites and are often (fatally) attracted, but with Pisces and Scorp, it's different.. rarely do a Scorp and a Pisces "take it slow" (be friends for a year and hang out? lol) before crashing headlong into "serious" lol

I suppose you could tell him how you feel, but I also suppose you're already fairly sure he doesn't feel the same.. or you'd have already done that. Yeah, it's probably too late this time around. I guess, continue being his friend. Maybe it won't be starry-eyed lovers for them, who knows? But, as gently as possible, I wouldn't hold your breath.

yes, i agree NEFER

thankyou

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
SO PISCES A BETTER MATCH FOR SCORPIO MAN?

In a very, very general sense, without knowing anything beyond Sun Signs.. yes.

Scorpio and Taurus are Opposites. Opposites often attract, but rarely work out.
Scorpio and Pisces are Water. Generally very compatible.

Other placements affect things, though. For example, YOU might have a huge amount of Water in your other planets, and SHE might have a lot of Air in hers, or HE might have a ton of Earth in his.. which could change things considerably.

No im not going to ..... Kinda hard to chase someone who isnt even there... he spent so much time with me out of loneliness, i see this now, becuase as soon as he found someone who he may actually like, i was dropped.

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
No im not going to ..... Kinda hard to chase someone who isnt even there... he spent so much time with me out of loneliness, i see this now, becuase as soon as he found someone who he may actually like, i was dropped.

LOL That's human nature.. and common.

lol i knoo.... well atleast i made it to being his FRIEND...
having being the only girl he talks to regularly, who hasnt been intimiate with him, id say thats something to be happy about

hahah well your name scorpio loves pisces is very threatening lol

lol it isssssssssssssssssssss 😛

Posted by Lena282

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
No im not going to ..... Kinda hard to chase someone who isnt even there... he spent so much time with me out of loneliness, i see this now, becuase as soon as he found someone who he may actually like, i was dropped.

wow... He sounds like a winner. Honestly I'd move on, and send your condolences to the Pisces gal😛

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Iunno, Lena.. this Scorpio has been this Taurus' FRIEND for a year.. and SHE was in a 6 year relationship until last week. And she never told him about her growing feelings, still hasn't as far as I know, but he's recently become interested in a Pisces girl he told his Taurus friend aaaallll about.

And yeah.. right now, his love interest is a leeeetle more important to him than his friendship with the Tau girl. And she said he hasn't talked to her since.. Friday? So like 4 days? So the guy's a jerk over 4 days without contact with his friend while he's concentrating on a new flame? *shrug* 4 days without hearing from ME is nothing. In fact, if I were to ever die in my house alone, might take a week or more before anyone thought to look or call the cops... besides my Libra, of course. Yeah, cuz the "love interest" gets more regular contact than the "friends" do.

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Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
No im not going to ..... Kinda hard to chase someone who isnt even there... he spent so much time with me out of loneliness, i see this now, becuase as soon as he found someone who he may actually like, i was dropped.

wow... He sounds like a winner. Honestly I'd move on, and send your condolences to the Pisces gal😛

Iunno, Lena.. this Scorpio has been this Taurus' FRIEND for a year.. and SHE was in a 6 year relationship until last week. And she never told him about her growing feelings, still hasn't as far as I know, but he's recently become interested in a Pisces girl he told his Taurus friend aaaallll about.

And yeah.. right now, his love interest is a leeeetle more important to him than his friendship with the Tau girl. And she said he hasn't talked to her since.. Friday? So like 4 days? So the guy's a jerk over 4 days without contact with his friend while he's concentrating on a new flame? *shrug* 4 days without hearing from ME is nothing. In fact, if I were to ever die in my house alone, might take a week or more before anyone thought to look or call the cops... besides my Libra, of course. Yeah, cuz the "love interest" gets more regular contact than the "friends" do.

I'm a little biased as friends always come first in life, that's where my loyalty lies. My bf tolerates this. You're right 4 days is no big deal, but personally I wouldn't ignore my friend in they got in contact with me for that long.

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EXACTLY.... he always repsonds to my texts... always..... and we talk every single day.... so 4 days with no repsonse.... is definately something..

i just called him now.. :S no answer........ i know i just gotta chill for awhile and things may be back to normal....... but im kinda stressing becuase i told him cousin that one of the reaosns i broke it off iwth my bf was becuase i started to develop feelings for sumone else....... and now all of a sudden the scorp guy stopped tlkaing to me, and his cuz is acting awkward

:S so im freakin out

Ahh.. well, therein lies the difference.. I love my friends, don't get me wrong.. but they are NOT my #1 priority. To someone who puts their friends before (or even equal to) their romantic interest, that would seem baffling and frustrating.. and YES, I've had some friends.. (two pop readily to mind, both Sags, one of each gender).. just totally go postal on my ass cuz we went days without speaking, cuz I didn't "make time" to text and call and stuff.. and I understood they felt left out and ignored.. I GET it.. but they absolutely refused to get MY point.. that I'm busy in my own life.. that I can't spend hours on the phone at a time (15 mins is about my absolute limit!).. that it simply doesn't occur to me to pick up the phone and call because it's been a few days.. and OMG.. if I didn't answer the phone (which I tend to do indeed).. it's freak out time!

Basically, I've realized that MOST people probably require more interaction than I do to maintain a friendship. I have a Sag BFF of over 20 years that gets this and doesn't take it personally.. and a Virgo BFF of 30 years who gets it too (we all live far apart now though *sad*)... I also have a Pisces friend locally.. and she and I are similar.. if one is bored or craving company, we'll call the other.. sometimes the other is not available.. no biggie. But neither of us ever keeps track of how long it's been or takes it personally. And yeah, since she got herself a great new boyfriend in October or November, I haven't seen or heard from her as much as I did when she was single. Still, it's no biggie to me. She'll call when she wants to talk/hang out.. and I'll do the same LOL

lol its juts becuase i like him really........ became atached to this perosn and the attention... lol so ...

ugh.,......... now i feel like an idiot 😢

you're right....... 3 days is nothing....

maybe i can still save myself if i stop now

I know, Tau girl.. it's the FEELINGS involved.. cuz really.. I bet you have another friend you haven't heard from in 3 or 4 days.. or maybe even a week.. and you aren't all flipping out about it.. that's cuz THEY are actually a FRIEND...

This Scorp friend of yours.. well, your feelings are more than mere friendship.. so you notice how long it's been.. you MISS all the time you spent, the hours talking, the almost constant contact.. esp since it's not that he's got the 'flu or he's working 16 hour days this week.. it's cuz he's interested in this new girl and you're afraid she might steal away into the night with the Scorpio.. before you even get a chance with him.

lol well now u just made me cry.... 😢

Oh 😢 Wasn't my intention.

That doesn't sound needy to me, Lena. It just sounds like we have different levels of importance and interaction levels with our friends. I don't feel either of us is flawed.. we're just different when it comes to friends. I've lost a few friends over the years who got fed up and could no longer handle the way I didn't seem to "value" them enough.. like the two Sags.. BOTH of them pulled a not-so-nice stunt to validate their frustrations.. they refused to call me. They kept track of how long it took ME to call THEM, deciding that if we're friends, I should care enough to miss them and call them if they went quiet for a few days.. but here I was on the other side, blissfully unaware of the trap being set.. sure, I realized I hadn't heard from them in a few days (which was a little odd) but I saw that they'd been on mutual websites, etc.. so they were fine.. probably just busy.. no biggie. LOL I walked headlong into BOTH traps.. and the Sags really let me have it.. unfortunately, they were too angry to see my pov, to hear me when I said I didn't realize there were secret expectations.. and that if they wanted to talk, why not call me, why wait for me to chase them down to talk? But by then, they were too frustrated and angry (and vindicated?) to listen.. and truly it DID up being the beginning of the end for us... our friendships never did fully recover from the trap and the hurt feelings.

But honestly, the Sag guy had a huge crush (unrequited) on me, and the Sag girl was literally crazy, just really, really big mental issues.

Do I think they're WRONG for the way they need more interaction with their friends? Nope. I just don't need as much as they do.. and we can reach a compromise, great.. you might become another 20 or 30 year friend. If we can't agree to accept each others' differences... well.. you know. 😢

lol its okay, i stopped...... i decided to just be the annoying bull i am in moments liek this and text until i get bored and give up.......


not the greatest of plans, but i do feel better 😛

I've had several Sag friends over the years.. and all but those two were totally easygoing, non-clingy, non-demanding.. they were like, "Oh, Nefer doesn't have time for me right now? Cool, I'll go hang out with Lisa or Josh! Too busy, gotta go, gotta go! Lataaaaaaaah!"

The Sag girl was too much water.. Cancer Sun.. Scorp Mars and Venus.

The Sag guy was Scorp Moon and Venus, Sag Mars.

*Cancer Moon, not Sun lol

Poor Taurus. Way too slow for Scorpio, as usual. He sees you as a friend.

Sorry, I just realized that if you take that as sarcasm it is way harsh sounding. Wasn't meant to be, it was 100% sincere.

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
...i wanted to make sure the dust settled, and get to know him more and feel comfortable around him, before i start sharing how i feel....

Oops.

We don't wait around while nothing happens.

Throw thyself at him.

You shouldn't blame the Pisces, you should blame the Scorpio.
However I don't blame him completely. You being quiet all the time he probably thought you weren't over your X boyfriend. And I don't think you are. That not fair to him. He sounds smart.

Posted by Impulsv
I wonder do Taurus lose on great love opportunities because of their slow pace of having to be 100% sure about things. Girl U still have a chance be bold nothing to lose. I told you ur going to have to tell him your feeling he wont come out and tell you. U've been giving signals but that means nothing to us you need to verbalize it. Plus u've got years over the other but if u wait any longer u will lose him. Spill it out what are you afraid of.

I absolutely agree about the Taurus losing out on love opportunities! A new thread needs to be started on that....

Thank God my impulsive and somewhat reckless Aries Venus totally trumps my slow and careful Taurus Moon/Mars.. seriously, I think I'd have missed out on FAR more opportunities without it, especially romantically. Where my Tau planets tripped me up in my youth was making me dig in my heels stubbornly, even after I should have left. But as I got older, I cultivated keeping the patience, and losing some of the blind bullheadedness. I probably have a ways to go on the stubbornness, though LOL

Posted by STARPISCESWAR
DAMN YOU PISCES, TAKING MY SCORPIO!
YOUR SCORPIO ?
TAURUS HE IS JUST UR FRIEND NOT A LOVER SO HE IS NOT YOUR SCORPIO OK
YOU ARE JUST JEALOUS BULL
YOU DONT SHOW YOUR LOVE SO ITS ALL UR FAULT
YOU CANT BLAME HER !

CAPS LOCK IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL!!

Sheesh, it actually hurts most people's eyes to read posts in all caps. Tap it, ONCE, gently. Thanks.

hey now, i have ALWAYS been forward with my feelings... always.... the reason i am so cautious this time is becuase i dont want to hurt anyone....... similar situatuion happened to me about 4 years ago, and everyone in that triangle, or shall i say square got hurt.....

i dont think its worth it now, unless im 100% thats why..... i cant just be thinking about myself this time, just because scorpio found a girl,
either way i look at it, someone is going to get hurt.

and plus, even if i wanted to.... the scorp has dissappeared.
so i pretty much got my answer anyway.

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
i just kinda got out of a 6 year relationship, like last week.... and so, iano complicated...... i wanted to make sure the dust settled, and get to know him more and feel comfortable around him, before i start sharing how i feel....

i have already expressed my admiration for him, but not any romantic feelings

but now it may be too late

This was said on page one ... several pages later of numerous people responding to you has led everyone to believe that you've known this guy as a friend, a dear friend actually if you are the only female he trusts to be his friend, for a year.

yet, when you just ended a 6 year relationship, like last week .... you wanted to make sure that dust settled before getting to know him more? You wanted to feel comfortable around him?

Know him more? dust? comfort?

When I alluded to this sounding a bit off the mark, is when you came back telling (fibbing) us that you ARE his friend, indeed, and have been .. you were adamant in making it clear that this man thinks so highly of you that you ARE THE ONLY female he trusts to be his friend.


Yet ..... you have to get to know him more? you have to get comfortable with him?



This is a fabrication ... or at least, and embellishment .. for attention, I guess.

TRUST ME P-ANGEL... its becuase im confused myself.........

i dont know what i am to him.... i say friend becuase well judging by recent actions and what people are saying, im starting to feel that maybe i am a friend

but then theres part of me that thinks well maybe im not since he only recently started confiding in me...

and since he said he is not the type to have girls as friends...

so basically everything i say here... is just me trying to make sense of it all.... plus many days have passed since i started this thread.... and many emotions have come and gone...

make sense? lol probably not

when i say i have only recently gotten close to him, i mean i have only recently started hanging out with him in person, one on one..... this passed month....

the whole year i only saw him maybe a handful of times with my gfs.... and we talked over text

through text is how we met... ( 2 years ago )

theres a big twisted history there... and the reason why i say feel more comfortable, and trust him more.... is becuase a couple years ago.... when we first met, out of the blue he completely yelled at me and cut me out of his life,... and then spread rumors that we were intimate with eachother when we werent...

so naturally im cautious

many people say i shouldnt have even let a perosn like that back into my life... but i did

Posted by exoskeleton
how long have you KNOWN him?
and why did he only recently start confiding in you?
does your break up with your ex have anything to do with it?

he would always tell me things about girls, like girl problems...
but i guess to be honest..... when i told him that i was worried things were going to go bad with my bf... he was helping me, and saying if i need sumone to talk to etc etc... i didnt confide in him tho...

and then after that, he did start opening up to me more about family and himself

yes, this passed month is when we became close... actually i would say passed two months.... november he blew up at me saying he will never be my friend the way i want him to be, he doesnt care about me... etc and then a week later he slowly started tlaking to me again... and then all of a sudden it was with full force, texting everyday....apologizing for his blow up saying he was going thru a hard time and took it out on me becuase i was there

( a part of me wondered if what he said when he blew up was true tho, and he just came back full force to try and accomplish some goal... reason for my steady pace ) in any case december and january.... we became alot closer yes

okay, lol so we met randomly through texting... and we hit it off... at first i thought we were related... anyway... he was pretty into me i guess... becuase he was more flirtatious, and asked me alot of questions to get to know me,..... but he knew form the beginning i had a bf.... and i tried to keep it friendly, but i enjoyed his company so i did talk to him alot aswell ( reaosn for me talking to other guys is one of the issues me and my bf have.. long story...has to do with past.. we worked it out tho )

anyways... then i remember we went to the movies or something, i said i wouldn't, but then he convinced me to go... while in theatre i remember him saying " i knew i could get u to watch a movie with me " ... ego!
anywayz, the next day.... we were talking like normal and i made the silliest comment on something, he said he has this place him and his bestfriend go, and i said i would go there...

and he flipped out on me..... saying he has lost any interest, that is disgusting... dont u dare talk to me ever again....

lol and so i was confused as hell.... kept trying to text, he kept shutting me down....

anywayz, then somehow my bf heard that he was talking shit about me from a friend of a friend of a friend ... my bf was extremely pissed cuz he thought i was cheating, but i explained to him nothing happened, those were rumors...

then a year later he came back and apologized...

and we been talking since... on and off... i never chilled with alone tho, ....

and then we started talking more and i started to hang out more

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