Do Virgos Return

Hiya, just a quick one, have any of you been in a relationship with virgo's,been apart, then have had them come back?

Sorry neglected to say, been apart for ten months, then returned. oops.

I heard from Virgos they return when they are curious about how you are doing.

Returning Virgo will see you with an even more critical eye as far as I know. But guys are guys... perhaps he wants to try again. Perhaps he had long-enough of a time to think if you are worth it or not and to give it another shot.

Thank you Mr brobert, for your kind words. I was just under the illusion, that this was an open forum, a place to seek, some genuine feedback, on issues close to my heart. I am not, an open book in general, and guess,have been misjudged, and abused for what ever reasons. So from now on, I WILL, keep my opinions to my self, cheers.....

Really Winterbourne, just like that, and that's all it is, boy, have I got it all wrong then ,eh !

What is the deal, I wasn't being sarcastic, I was being genuine, why is every one taking me the wrong way ?

Posted by WinterBorn
Yes, especially if they think they can get a quick and easy piece of ass.

Virgos never seem to remember all the emotional trauma and damage they cause and their subsequent banishment to hell fire and brimstone for all eternity.

The usually show up again like nothing ever happened, the dipshits.

I couldn't agree more with winterborn here...

kitti -- now you know. Stay on guard girl... don't let that ass talk you into anything.

I was married to Virgo man for a decade+, I know his stories of exes as well. There is no repeat romance, if, then friendship, but as soon as he found me and was serious with me, all his girl friendships dissolved at the time... they still must have had hopes about him.

Thanx guys, I guess, I just needed to hear it, like I said, he's been back three times, the next time, I won't be opening that door. Your thoughts, are very much appreciated *

Thanx, valeria25, you only ever have lovely things to say. It's just difficult to actually comprehend, that after such a wonderful, year long relationship with this man, that it has come to this. Yes we both have problems, communicating our feelings, so this is why, I haven't the courage to have that, talk. In my view, if it's over it's over, why bother coming back to visit, again and again. Trust me when I say, he could get his sugar, from any one of his many women admirers, who lust after him. It's just hurt full and wrong, and very disappointing, and I will never understand the logic, behind, this way of thinking.

I really like what you have to say Valeria25! Keep up the great advice and the true "caring" that comes across in what you share! I like you! 😄

Posted by MegStings
I think Mr. Nice is really nice!!!

I do too! I just think he has a problem with P-Angel for very valid reasons. He is nice and he doesn't like how she is mean and insensitive to most of the posters and I actually feel the same way! I think it is intimidating to some who come here for advice in the first place and then to be made to feel like an idiot by someone makes them hesitant to post anything else.
Mr. Nice has some fans...lol. 😉

Correct for the most part. I do have a life though. An interesting thing, each time, I get brave enough to go out on dates, miraculously he shows up at my door, a couple times, on the same day, freaky, yeah.So whilst I have embraced and accepted the situation for what it is, it just messes with my head no end, and it needs to end. This man has gotten under my skin, and it irks me no end to know, that he has the power in this situation. I know it doesn't sound like it, but I am normally, a very strong, positive,confident woman, who embraces change and won't suffer fools kindly, what's the deal ?

Posted by kitty69
Correct for the most part. I do have a life though. An interesting thing, each time, I get brave enough to go out on dates, miraculously he shows up at my door, a couple times, on the same day, freaky, yeah.So whilst I have embraced and accepted the situation for what it is, it just messes with my head no end, and it needs to end. This man has gotten under my skin, and it irks me no end to know, that he has the power in this situation. I know it doesn't sound like it, but I am normally, a very strong, positive,confident woman, who embraces change and won't suffer fools kindly, what's the deal ?

I can totally relate to you kitty69 because I consider myself a very strong and independent person until it comes to matters of the heart. I always give people the benefit of the doubt and when I believe I have seen the good in someone in a relationship then I have a hard time saying no if they want to try again. I am working on that in my life right now and trying to overcome it because I know it can be unhealthy and leave you in an no win situation instead of moving on and finding someone who doesn't mess with your heart strings that way.
He is just not helping you in this matter because you ARE trying to move on and he just "shows" up and therefore "ruins" your attempts at connecting with possibly healthier relationships! I know it's hard but if I were you I would really try and tell him to leave you alone so you can figure things out on your own and not have him as a distraction. I just dated a Virgo for a very short time and he did get under my skin as well even though I was "trying" to keep it on a more casual basis because I really don't want a serious relationship. It still hurt that he "disappeared" without an explanation or anything and no answer to my last email. I am even wondering what I would do if he "pops" back in like I have read on here that they do. :-/ You were definitely more entrenched with your relationship since it was long term so I definitely know it's harder in your case. Hang in there and just keep asking yourself, "Is this what I want in life?" because I know that there are other fish in the sea for you and I would hate to see you miss out on a much better relationship because of this man who can't decide what he wants and "see" what he really had in you! I also agreed with what valeria25 said and I say "BE STRONG" and be true to you!

Cheers DyTryin, that's the thing, he always treated me with respect, because I AM a lady, and have never been a ho, nor have I ever, had a treetrunk buddy. But now, I feel like one! So then, how do you let this person know they are one?How is it possible, to go from decent virgo, to playa virgo? And you are correct in saying, that not all virgo's are the same, if Iv'e learnt any thing at all from these forums, it's this. It's just good to get different perspectives and insights,from virgo's in general. What, were your hidden comments, Mr Brobert?

i only return if the break-up has been amicable and mature....

basically, i don't return to cheaters or manipulative or inmature people (i would never return to that).

yes, all break-ups are hard, but some are better handled than others. if you are a lady in my book both entering and leaving, you will always have a chance with me. i am being very honest.

however, if i met you in your inmature/crazy stage....probably not, unless for casual friendship.

i will never forget who you are, because i took my time to choose you from a bunch of people....but if you hurt me too deeply at the end and in a way that is not worth coming back to, then no.

some of my exes had a second chance and even a third, when the break-up was mature and reasonable, when communciation was clear and open, in cases like that i can't stop caring and i leave a little room for a chance in my heart.

the only other way...is IF i had a really really really strong connection chemistry with someone, then even if they were inmature, there might be a chance to reconnect, but cheating is the exception....cheating is never a mistake i would welcome in my book twice.

hope this helps.

i promise virgos love deeply too, we are just very cautious about it.

Hiya Truthseeker10, I can't begin to tell you, how refreshing, it was, to hear the truth, from you. It made sense, and I can relate to all your points. Id like to thank you for this, and wish you, much joy, love and happiness.....Thanx

Oh valaria,valeria,valeria, your so cheeky, always saying, what I want to say, stop it heheheheh.