Does anyone even like Scorpios? Sheeesh

In one post, we have someone saying there's nothing endearing about Scorpios, in another section, someone states they feel as though they have to walk on eggshells around Scorpios (i mean, who does that?), we test people, hard to love, push people away, we're mean, too serious (should i wear a goofy grin 24/7?), too sensitive, etc, etc, etc, etc.

Damn, is there any good in Scorpios? Or is this the Pure Unadulterated Evil phase of the zodiac?

I think a lot of people like to fuck them .. in fact, Scorpios really pride themselves with their sexuality, so even Scorps themselves have this awareness of themselves. It's like, you know we all have to enhance our best quality.

So, this would explain why Scorpios talk about how good of a fuck they are ... because it's their best quality.


Other than that, I dunno ... have you nothing more to say about yourself that is of quality?


Let's hear it, then. I mean, if you want people to value you for something else, then don't you think it's high time we hear about this soemthing else from you?

Except for a few, like ScorpioQueen, Satori, SIL, anotherScorp ... all the rest pretty much just go with the sex thing, and call it a day. If their feelings get hurt afterwards, then perhaps they should have had forsight and thought about the fact they have more than their sexuality.

And Eden, she is actually proving to be more than just a fuck .... although, not at first. The original suggestion she used to make an impression in us regarding her was sexually based.


Then later, she put out other suggestions.



So, say Scorpiosity ...... what have you say. You put up this thread, wanting to know why people regard Scorpios the way they do ... and we otherins can only based our judgement of Scorpios according to your suggestions you put out there for impressional purposes.


What would you say then, if so far the impression people have are not right?

Maybe I've missed that, PAngel. Even though I've been here for a few years, I cant recall seeing many Scorps come here to brag on their sexual prowess.

Like I said maybe I've missed it. Seems to me, it's others that talk about Scorpio's sexuality.

LOL. HMMMM.....Are we really that good of a fuck? I want details PAngel. LOL

I feel as though my emotional understanding is my greatest asset.

Does anyone even like Scorpios?

I don't care for Scorpio Men, but I like Scorpio Women - hell! I married one!

Are we really that good of a fuck?

Oh. Hell. Yes.!!! Y'all take to sex like a fish to water. It's completely natural.

But there's more to Scorpio than just mind-boggling fucking.

Uh... let's see...

1. Honesty.
2. Loyalty.
3. Integrity.

Y'all are almost up to Virgo standards when it comes to analytical skills.

In fact, I've found Scorpios to be the most like Virgos of any other signs of the Zodiac - except, y'all have feelings...

Some people are born great...that's us..don't need anybody else to verify or approve. All else can go to hell for all I care..

Some people on here are a negative bunch of wankers so ignore them..who cares what they think....on a scale of one to ten, how much do they factor into your life....ZILCH

Well, there you go ^^^^^^^ .... now do you see why people have bad opinions of you, Scorpiosity?


If you only care about yourselves ... then what's the bitch about of what others think?

P-Angel: If you only care about yourselves ... then what's the bitch about of what others think?

They do care - and like Virgos, they'll never ever admit it (to people in the Real World).

"Some people are born great...that's us.."


Lower life form ^^^^^^^



What are you saying Dyr? That Virgos and Scorpions alike are deceptive?

P, I cannot think only of myself.

P-Angel: What are you saying Dyr? That Virgos and Scorpions alike are deceptive?

From an objective standpoint: Maybe.

In our own minds, we are self-contained, self-sufficient, and the rest of you can kindly fuck-off.

Carl Jung claimed that we all wear Masks. Are Piscean Masks any more real than Virgo or Scorpio Masks??

Nope.

Dear normalisboring... just a little helpful tip. Scorps can be quite sarcastic sometimes. 😉 That's what makes us so damn lovable. 😛


"One thing i've learnt is to be nice to people. Always. Even when you don't like 'em. Because you WILL need them for something one day."

Hahahahaha that's great. I love it. But that's not me. If I don't like you then I don't pretend to. Call me a bitch but at least I'm an honest bitch 🙂

I would agree SG, except for the fact that this is in place asking if people even like Scorpios ... so, thought there may be a facade of pretending that care isn't present .. in reality, care is present .. hence: the existence of this thread.

LOL..it makes me laugh when other shrivelled up prunes on here think they know us...You don't..We don't care..but you seem to think we do..lol..keep on thinking...Like gingerscorp said, we don't pretend to like anyone because they may be useful some day...we are pretty damn handy ourselves so don't really care whether anyone is around to help as we'd never ask for help anyway.

Clue to the truly strong individuals...anyone who can handle their own company 95% of the time shows true strength...you all social butterflies constantly need people around you to function....we don't...

Lone rangers that we are...

Hate it or love it, the scorps on top..and we're gonna shine homie until our heart stops


🙂😛 😉

We have to repeat ourselves a lot on here...a bit like parrots...seems the brainless dimwits don't get us the first time around..Gets so exhausting at times...really...

some people are born with greatness ... that's us

(makes the sign of the cross)

Amen.

Scorpio's care, you think?

I am a Scorpio and I care, as long as ppl dont try to mix their bullshit in. If they do, then they meet resistance. It comes in stinging truths, sarcasm, glares... they're basically free game- open target.

"scorpios do care i think, it comes across like they don't but it's painfully obvious they do"



Of course they care, and it is obvious .. I've no clue why they are in denial about it.


Anytime a person defends themself, in Scorpio case Stinger comes out .. it's because they care to defend/protect .. if no care was present, then they wouldn't even notice to even attempt to make a stand.

Why have a desire to care to target if you don't care.


Such hypocrites, really.

That's like Roxi, and MM has done it, and oh .. Fum was notorius for it ....


.... saying, I din't read a word you wrote, you mean nothing ..

.. and then fucking address every point made.





Geeezzzz .. what a bunch of wankers and thing is, they don't even know it .. they think they are carefree when in reality, they care so fucking much that it literally controls them.

Then why act?



What's an action for Eden?

And action is in place for someone to see/hear/acknowledge what you are doing.


Listen to me ... if a Scorpio is ignored, they think all hell has broken loose .. why?


Why then should they be ultimately insulted if ignored after one of their actions, if they don't care whether anyone approves or not?


You can't see the hypocrisy in that? If you truly didn't care, then you wouldn't even act on anything .... you'd just be a lump on a log.


If you do something, whatever this action of something is ..... you do it for someone to notice, for impression purposes .... because do you really have to impress yourself?

Are you not going to believe your own self if you don't act on something?

of course not ... people do things for impressions to be made on other people = you care what they think

Seriously .. why go about in here telling people things like ..



**hugs**

I like you, you're a cool cumcumber

** smooches **




If you don't care?

The only ......... ONLY ........ reason you do that to people in here is because you want them to have a certain impression of what kind of a person you are, which = you seek their approval of you.



You can be a lot of things .... please don't include ignorance into this equation because you know full fucking well that when people are stupid of themselves, I fucking blow gaskets.

Whoa! slow down cowboy! You went crazy w those post.

Anytime a person defends themself, in Scorpio case Stinger comes out .. it's because they care to defend/protect .. if no care was present, then they wouldn't even notice to even attempt to make a stand.

I meant I do care what someone else thinks. But if they dont care what I think, Im not going to put up w it. They are going to have to meet me half way.

As far as caring what other ppl think, you're wrong in a BIG way, I dont care. I care to be fair, but overall on things such as looks, and what I do w my life, no I dont care.

Why are you so hung up in drilling the thought that we care into our heads. I mean I'm in my head- not you! I know what I feel and know, and so forth...

Do you think that me not caring, makes me feel protected, and safe from my insecurities, that's why we (scorpios) "pretend" to not care? Well no that's not what Im doing. I just REALLY dont give a flying fuck! I mean it is what it is. We are a v black and white sign.

Does it bother you that we DONT care? in quite a BIG way. Wish you had a mind and individuality of your own?

I wish I could get to the point of actually not caring. Thing is, I try SO DAMN HARD to do the right things that when people misinterpret my actions or intentions, it hurts.

So, you damn right I care. Deeply. If anyone else won't say it, I will. I care gotdammit.

I didnt relay that quite clear, but Im sure it doesnt need elaboration- you'all know what I meant

The problems come because I care about myself AND others. If I were completely selfless, there wouldn't be a problem. If I were completely selfish, there wouldn't be a problem.

Ever tried to appease yourself and everyone else simultaneously and STILL have everyone else (and sometimes yourself) angry at you for trying so damn hard?

wish I could get to the point of actually not caring. Thing is, I try SO DAMN HARD to do the right things that when people misinterpret my actions or intentions, it hurts.

So, you damn right I care. Deeply. If anyone else won't say it, I will. I care gotdammit



Not to sound harsh here, but in response: You can care, but I believe that there needs to be self-worth and objectivity there. When you try SO DAMN hard, and you getting hurt. It's time to do some evaluating- Why do ppl misinterpret you? Too care too much, and not get any satisfaction out of the fact- sounds like there needs to be some adjustments.

Have you found the perfect balance Pink? If so, please share.

To (sorry, i used the wrong to/too/two) care too much

MY BAD 🙂

Yes, I really have. It's always an on-going process for me of course. Im an analyzing/ information whore. To just be general, it really came down to knowing myself, inquiring, and getting the facts straight.

I understood, it's cool. I still would like your advice.

you= you're

I wont do this correction thing anymore. it's ocd and i think you guys get it. lol

Oh, okay, no reading in b/t the lines for you? I will spell it out. I hope that doesnt sound harsh, Im not too good at spelling things out- being a Scorpio and all. But I need that practice.
Well, as far as you caring too much, are your emotions getting a bit in the way?
For instance, you as a Scorpio, probably are not communicating enough! When you do it's elusive. You're probably more mysterious than you realize. See how ppl can mis-interpret you? You've got to set them straight. I dont mean cuss them out (too emotional), I mean tell them how you work. And do you realize your own input? Where you go wrong? Where you dont help yourself? When someone really hurts you/ makes you mad. You could probably really cut them off good, and have good reason. But that doesnt really help you. So there-in comes the communication, b/t you and the other party. The trick is to get the facts. Which is so hard to do, bc of emotions. Like my father is a Cancer (Emotions Everywhere! on his part). I did something when I was younger that made him want to kick me out. But I didnt let him, that would of destroyed my self-esteem/worth and put a grudge b/t us, all this unecessary stuff. Closed me off to the world, and so forth. So luckily I was perceptive enough, to tell him that he was bringing his passive-aggressive behaviour on me. He was ashamed, and he needed to deal w it. I know he doesnt want to be a conditional loving dad, but his emotions couldnt deal w the fact. I asked him, what was he going to solve by kicking me out? But the point was, though I did sth wrong, I wasnt going to let him step on who I was. I made a mistake YES, and I cared. But I learned from it, and if he doesnt want to believe that, hey I was honest, and I am still moving on w my life. I care, but Im not going to beat myself up over it. It doesnt help anything. Quite verbose, huh? I didnt know how else to explain it. I could tidy it up, but I dont have the brain energy.

I gave that example (when I said I would spell it out), but anyways in technical terms: It's communication, integrity, and self-worth. That allows you to care, but not get hurt. Stand up for yourself. Get your say in. Find out facts from the other party. Reach an agreement, and know when the other person is crossing your boundaries. And be sure not to cross theres.

I mean as far as the other posters: normalisboring and who ever else, that mouse- you'all know who you are.
What's your point? I dont understand where you guys are coming from. Please enlighten me, bc I feel really blonde.

As far as the question😄oes anyone even like Scorpios?
LOVE EM! Most of my attractions are other Scorpios. Im going to marry one! My boyfriend is a Scorpio! I am a Scorpio! (enough said!), but so is my brother, famous actors/actress, and Im not saying this bc I look up their b-days and say "OOoo a Scorpio, privilege". I really like all of them. Maybe I see myself in them, a kinships. I dont know, but what I do know is Im fascinated. And I love other everyday Scorpios. And Ive got into some v nasty fights w them, just like anyone else. Bottom line: I love em.

Generally do ppl like Scorpios? Yes I think they do! I've never been treated differently by anyone, bc I was a Scorpio. Some ppl declare: Oh I love Scorpios, and some get touchy. But ppl find out that my friend is a Taurus and say: Oh I love Taurus' or ugh... he's probably stubborn and lazy. It depends- everybody gets it.

One thing I do love about being a Scorpio, is that ppl always get my sign right. I find that fascinating. They say I knew it! I say how? they said it's those eyes! lol

super neat

Marie Antoinette (a Scorpio) said "Let them eat cake."

Amen.

All right spread the Scorpio love- high 5!

Do we care? It depends, are you going to sprout a bunch of bullshit?

Scorpios tickle my fancy...like my friends and some of the ones on here. 🙂

The Scorps I met--they make loyal and funny friends.

Sings: Who r the ppl n ur neighbourhood? n ur neighbourhood? n ur neeeiiigghhbourhood?

lol, sorry, i have that song STUCK in my head, from that commercial, ahhhh!!

Ok so normalisboring, I understand what you are saying, and I dont know about the Scorpio's you know, but Im definitely not like that. That's a given.

I asked you what your point was bc you seemed to be veering off course or was it the 50 yo "mouse", about what we care about and what we dont care about. And us admitting that we dont care about sth, doesnt necessarily mean that we always think that we are right. I personally like to stay free and open minded (what you described). I iv ppl for a living- a wiiiide variety of ppl, and I may not always agree w them or enjoy their company, but bc Im not always right, the personal feelings I have against them are not valid.

Scorpio's are a lil more objective and balanced than we are given credit for. We have immense pride in who we are, but that doesnt mean that we are selfish.

As far as feeling good about ourselves: the some ppl are born w greatness, lol that's our sense of humor. I am a v driven person. I know what I want and I go after it. It makes me happy! bc I am being who I was meant to be. I know my place in this life. Im not lost. I think everybody should feel GREAT about themselves, and pat themselves on the back- but most ppl dont know what the hell they're doing. Does that make me better than them? No, of course not, their life is their business. When I talk to them do I think that I can act more superior to them, bc Im all like: I so know what Im doing? That's too narrow-minded. That person has his own path. I dont think there's a such a thing as being better than someone. No score on a test, college degree, nor amount of money can prove that. All that is too simple, but we've been able to use those methods to limit and confine ppl. When in reality nothing can prove indefinitely that we're better than the person next to us. I love ppl too much to discard them. Every person has sth ingenious about them.

That's why Im always up in their business, asking questions...

But those limits have their purposes too. And so does the black and white mentality, and the ability to decipher superficiality. any thought process can produce negative/positive outcomes. everything's such a fine-line, case-to-case basis. I like that balanced approach. Get an idea, and balance it to perfection (yeah I know there's no such thing, but you get it).

imma going to toot the scorpio horn again: So thank gawd for the Scorpio deep mentality process. The ability to shift and turn through the garbage and waste, and recycle what is good. Hopefully, we dont shape it to sth destructive, selfish (lower-lizards), hopefully we can be those high-flying eagles that can see a situation clearly and w love, and make decisions that are beneficial in the right areas, when it is our business to do so.

Other signs have their own abilities and they should be proud of it.
I know Im proud of mine. I'll take the abilities that Scorpio represents! I dont need to see no more! I'll take it! (more humor. You may not appreciate it, but that's okay. I dont always enjoy other ppl's sense of humors).

Im all like: deep? intuitive? sexy? and mysterious? keen perception?
Sounds good to me!

But like Aquarius, Im not too familiar w them, correct me if Im wrong, they are associated w the future-oriented/ progressive, inventiveness, ingeniousness, humanity, friendships... hmm i can see where aquarius cant understand the scorpio serious sharpness...

While Scorpio shifts through society, and complex intricities- they point out what's trash and harmful, and get rid of it. And then they organize the rest for us to understand (investigation (harping on the past, cant let go! brooding- bebe we're just investigationg), psychology, deep recesses) hmmm serious folks we are... sth that the world has needed from Go!

Aquarius, can help humanity w it's ingenious inventiveness.

You know, these are all general thoughts spewing... we are all on the same level, imo- ea contribution is equally a necessity.

Posted by normalisboring
Nah, not saying pretend to like someone Gingerscorp. Just be more accomodating. Realise that people ARE pricks, stay away from the person when you can but when you're forced to be in their company be civil.

As an aqua when I don't like someone they can TELL. Even when I show 'em courtesy. It shows in my eyes usually, so I refrain from eye contact, only speak when i'm addressed, that sort of thing. I just don't appear moody, I'm more ... withdrawn, inaccessible. My aqua friend described it as an invicible forcefield with bazookas and machine guns and a moat of boiling lava lol

Yeah, it's being honest, sure, but it is ego fuelled to a large extent. I won't lie, I have a huge as fcuk ego but thinking I am better than people is not part of my ego. In fact aquas have this thing that most other signs besides, well pisces, don't have, which is the ability to see worth in most people. Even those you despise.

So you can make your intentions clear all you want, but it won't get you far if that same person you don't like has beneficiary potential. And life is a fcuking bitch. It'll throw you in the most unlikely position, just for kicks.

I totally disagree with you .....Piscean people can see the worth in people and is why sometimes they can be victim to doormats because they give everyone the benefit of the doubt before they write them off. My glass is always half full with just about anyone. As a Piscean I do not take a lot of crap and will write you off if you have done me wrong.

PD

Back to the OP .....

I have done business with a scorpio, and he was the biggest snake I have ever met and skated me out of money he owes me. As for doing business, I have not had a good experience. The crazy thing is this scorpio acts like he did nothing wrong ...he knows damn well what he did was wrong. He does have a drinking and drug problem so I can see where this would contribute to some of the bad behavior. I won't ever speak to him again, I have definately written him off. When it comes to my family and well being I don't let anyone fcuk with that and he definately crossed that boundary when he stole from my family. He is loosing his business now ....it is amazing how karma comes around. I hate generalizing and will not say all scorpios are bad.......but it has just been my experience with one scorpio. Another famous scorpion that comes to mind is Bill Gates who has questionable business ethics.....but que sera sera .....I hate generalizations.

I don't have a lot of scorpio friends. I had one friend years ago whom I became sexually involved with many years after ....and the sex was great. I still think he is a great guy. He is married now. I would trust him still to this day. He is now a marine, and he definately has this macho persona...lol This seems to be typical of most scorpios I have encountered ...a very inflated ego ....which there is nothing wrong with a healthy esteem. It sometimes does come across as arrogant.

As for new scorpio's I meet I do find this underline arrogance and directedness that can be a bit much and abrassive. Scorpio men in the past who are attracted to me tend to be very direct by asking for sex right off the bat. I have met two scorpio like this and one just last year. Needless to say.....they got no action from this fish girl because the way they came across really offended me. So if I can give advice to a scorpio male...if you want sex .....speak with your actions .....typical flirting, charm, and just go for it ....don't verbalize it in such a callous way. It seems like the person you are seeking has no value. Does that make sense?

Now I am playing this cat and mouse chase game with a scorpio.....and I totally dig him. He has been on his best behavior, but it could also be because he has to be because he is my teacher. 😛 I really like his mind, his charm, his view of the world, spirituality, and we share very similar career goals.

BTW - There are lots of ppl who don't like fish ppl either. I som

Well normal, you put in your input about Aquarius... okay.
I hope you have a better understanding of us Scorpios (well maybe I can speak for myself).

Pisces Dream, how did this Scorpio screw you over?
And Im not too familiar w Bill Gates, would you kindly remind me what are questionable ethics ppl seem to refer to? You're not the first one to say this...

As I am a v matter of fact business person, and would like to only engage in honest business affairs. I myself know that I am cunning in business, but I am so honest... but anyhow...

Posted by Ms.Pisces
lol He said that unlike most signs, Aquas and Pisces CAN see the worth in other people, PiscesDream!

*blushes beet red* .....sorry normal..... 😐

Posted by Pink Faux
Well normal, you put in your input about Aquarius... okay.
I hope you have a better understanding of us Scorpios (well maybe I can speak for myself).

Pisces Dream, how did this Scorpio screw you over?
And Im not too familiar w Bill Gates, would you kindly remind me what are questionable ethics ppl seem to refer to? You're not the first one to say this...

As I am a v matter of fact business person, and would like to only engage in honest business affairs. I myself know that I am cunning in business, but I am so honest... but anyhow...

Pink to answer your question:

I am a technical writer / government contractor. So what I do is find business in the government world, write the proposals and negotiate / bid on contracts. So my X-Friend (Scorpio) has a moving company he owns. He contracted me to hunt for government work for his business. It was a verbal agreement, and that is where I went wrong; I should have gotten the deal in writing, after learning from my attorney. He was my friend / neighbor and I thought I could trust him .....little did I know he was the biggest snake. The agreement is he would pay me 10% cut on any new business I brought to his organization. I landed a $ 145K contract for his business over a three month period. When the contract was signed and sealed I asked him how he would be paying me for the deal.....per month or one lump sum. He kept evading the question ....and said that I was being insubordinate toward our business relationship. I did not get that ...how the hell was I being insubordinate for asking on the money he owed me? So I left that business relationship and sought an attorney, and I had witness (his ops manager and CFO) that heard about how he would pay me 10% of any new business I brought in. I would have had to call them in to testify which compromises their own jobs and it would have been a long drawn out process. It was already emotionally and financially draining to me, so I let it go and chalked up to a learning experience of never do business without a written contract. I also did recieve monies from his company on another signed contract in a form of unsufficient funds payment. He did pay me cash for that one....but that should have been my warning sign right there that he was a bad business manager. He had a HUGE gambeling, drinking, and drug problem.

As for Bill Gates being unethical....just go

Arggggh it cut me freakin off ....*annoyed look*

As i was saying..... for Bill Gates google "Microsoft Innovator" You will find a host of articles on how Microsoft has never invented anything in its existence. Microsoft has been good by dominating patents of what other software companies have developed. So basically Bill Gates wealth is a product of other peoples invention that his company stole. If that is not unethical and sleezy than I don't know what that is.

I hate generalizations .....and this is not directed at every scorpio ....but I wonder how people sleep at night when they continually operate like sleez bags regardless of their zodiac sign. Seriously.....when my x-scorpio friend did not pay me ....I thought to myself how does he sleep at night .....I am a single mother ....how can he take food away from the mouths of my children for his own selfishness? It seriously but me in a HUGE financial bind because I was counting on getting paid $ 14,500 for that deal. For this .....I can never forgive him. Seriously ....don't FUCK WITH MY FAMILY!!!

Even as much as I hate generalizations .....if I come across a scorpio to do business with ....my guard is 150% up.

PD

Hm, I think it has to do with some Scorpios just following their projects and just not considering anybody else's interest. Maybe they're guarding their own assets so closely they hardly imagine it would be someone else's blame should a scam happen. They probably think well it's a cruel world and you'd better cover your a** whoever you might be single mom or not.
At least that's what I'm trying to figure out, or otherwise I would have maintain a very bad taste from the story with my uncle...
My mom died of cancer when I was a toddler, leaving me a house to inherit. She was a very hard working Scorpio. At times I ask myself how a young beautiful woman like her must have taken the terrible news .. Well at least Scorpios are said to sit closer to birth and death, so she must have developped a way to deal with it because I was told (neutral witness) that she remained quite .. practical about her approach, never lamenting why me, why so young, just explained what she wanted to be dressed with, etc, and that I (alone) should inherit the house. Everyone respected her decision, however some years after her Scorpio brother offered me, although still underage, to swap my big garden well positioned house for his regular condo + a small amount payout. It has long haunted me how someone that is supposed to look after me, morally speaking, is capable of deceiving a young orphan niece into such unfairly disproportionate trade. All I ever got from her is my house (and my life, of course), but not the motherly conversations and the influence that would have tamed my Leo negative side. Instead I had to defend myself alone and still manage to progress and learn.
Is it because he did not love me? I don't know but what Ive learned is to understand ppl in their own parameters, limitations.
No idea what my mom would have thought of it, although reading about Scorpios now .. I think she would have given him hell to pay (reasuring thought heheh)
Hope the interest of my story helps

Pisces Dream: I see...

Normalisboring: Well it's your opinion to think that someone doesnt know themselves and that they need to control their environment around them.

to the Leo: w/ the Scorpio mom and the Scorpio brother, tsk* tsk* on how that had to pan out.

Oh so Pisces Dream, you find ppl for the govt (your clients), to get work done?

Im a head-hunter (similar). Yeah, when you enter business- it's "business". When you enter this field, a lot of deals seem so cutt-throat, but they're legit... It's a shrewd industry, and it's not for everyone. But Im not particularly refering to your situation, I mean generally. But there are some lines business cannot cross by any means, and I'd advise anyone who enters business to learn them like the back of their hand! When I deal w clients or other business ppl I am SO matter-of-fact! When someone does you wrong though, it can be v disheartening. Ppl face it in their personal relationships: the Leo's uncle, infidelity, and life-time friends turning their back on one another. I've felt it, but you know I guess I do see it as a learning experience, or more so try to understand the other person. I dont get bitter, it's weird Im just non-chalant/rational in a way...

I didnt meant to be too negative, there's many great ppl out there.