dominating scorpion

Aren't you guys supposed to lean on having the power & possesing? Being a taurus I thought it would be a power struggle with a scorp but he seems to give me the reins and I'm pushing them back at him. What is going on?!! I like the sexily dominant kind. I like a little power struggle but the guy's gotta have it in the end for my world. Is he just playing it safe cuz we're still new? I thought there'd be more signs of him being that way.

He is letting you have the reigns, because thats what HE wants to do right now...

Actually softy got it perfectly right. There's no other way to put it.

When he doesn't need the reigns - he's wants you to pick them up.
When he does need the the reigns - he'll pick them up.
Pretty simple, but it shows that even when, on the surface, we don't have the reigns, we definitely strive to control who has them and who doesn't, and that part isn't always as visible as you'd like. I dunno, it's just the way that we live.

You would be Wise and well advised to not mistake it for his inability to hold the reigns, that's what too many make the mistake of thinking. Basically, with a Scorpion, don't judge what you cannot make full sense of - because Scorpio, being the opposite of Taurus, rules the un-sensed.

Just keep the Trust, that's all you need to do. That much is all down to you, not him.

hmmmm this may clash at some point in time,
"He is letting you have the reigns, because thats what HE wants to do right now..."

I do that too. What happens when it occurs at same time? I hear what you're saying though.

Dear TG,
Always be guarded while dealing with a scorpio. Give the respect which a scorpio male deserves. As long as you are honest and open, he will love you and give you the royal treatment. but once you step on his tail - even unintentionally - be prepared to face the sting. Once he starts letting you IN, be prepared for some fireworks. But even in the heat of arguement, watch your words. He would never tolerate someone who does not give him the due respect and love.

I don't really care to be in control and dominating,as elliot put it it's only when they think they have me whipped and can get away with anything that'd be very rude,disrespectful or inconsiderate to me.It's kind of a defensive thing for me when I bite back more than it is just to be in control of people.People I generally like them just for being themselves so trying to dominate them isn't allowing them to be themselves and isn't "honest" for them and I prefer honesty over ass kissing pretty much so no dominating(unless maybe it's in the bedroom😛)The most I'd do if I were cheated on is I'd just choose to leave the person over getting mad,possesive,jealous and keeping them under lock and key because it's a waste of time and energy that has better uses for elsewhere.Some can be though,depends on the person in all honesty.

'when they think they have me whipped'

Exactly.

Yep, it's just like Elliot said earlier. It is very much about control, but not necessarily the way you see it. Before you know it, you are doing things you don't want to do and agreeing to things that you would never have agreed to, until you wake up 20 years later and go "who the hell am i?"
Tread careful.

Here's to the outta control Libras! Cheers CG

Hmm, Libras can be controlled.

For a limited time only, dear Elliot

I think he's just getting comfortable. He's been showing some signs of grrrrr but I think he has a lot of respect for women, so he's into me and wants to play but doesn't want me to get the wrong impression. It's amazing how he takes things slow yet the intensity is BEYOND intense. This guy has shown me such passion and patience. I love his composure and pure interest in his life and my own. There is nothing I would change.

So dominating scorpio, do your thing!

Haha yatta your right about that, Libras are not stupid, and they have as much prowess for Arts of War as they do Arts of Peace. I've seen that pleeenty of times.

And TG, you seem BEYOND content. I trust that things will stay great for you and him.