bestwoman
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He asked me a couple of times 'indirectly' to go dance someplace, so I decided to take the step to ask him out. I called him and asked to meet him at the new dance venue. He gave me an arrogant attitude to if/how/when he'll be there to meet me (even though I could sense that he was happy that I called). He told me, 'you go there and wait for me...I'll be there around that time'. I was pissed off and told him I'll try to make it and had decided I won't go.
So I went to another place and when I was leaving I checked my phone and he had sent me a message confirming that he'll be there. Unfortunately it was too late for me to go, so I replied apologozing and said that I wasn't sure he was going to make it, so I had decided to go another time. Problem is he was already there.
He called me the day after very angry and told me that it was unacceptable what I did. I admitted that it was wrong, but I told him that his attitude turned me off cause I was all excited in the first place. I expected that we should go together or meet at a specific time.
I didn't call him back, cause to be honest I'm a bit confused whether I should pursue starting any type of relationship (even friendship). He doesn't even want to commit to meet at a certain time. Of course he sees it that I acted inappropriately by not showing up. The thing is, this is not my nature. I ALWAYS show up for any appointment.
I have seen him twice in the past 10 days (in a regular dance venue we go to) and he has been ignoring me and giving these stares. I have also been avoiding him, partly because I'm confused to what I want and partly cause I have no idea what he's thinking (or planning to do).
I'm just wondering from a scorpio side, is he going to try to find a way to get back at me, or does it depend on how he feels about me. Do you think he expects that I do something for his ego?
To be honest I'm a bit sad cause I felt we had some connection, but if he can't commit to a time to meet, that is too much for me to handle.