I messed up with a scorpio male. He asked me a couple of times 'indirectly' to go dance someplace, so I decided to take the step to ask him out. I called him and asked to meet him at the new dance venue. He gave me an arrogant attitude to if/how/when he'll be there to meet me (even though I could sense that he was happy that I called). He told me, 'you go there and wait for me...I'll be there around that time'. I was pissed off and told him I'll try to make it and had decided I won't go. So I went to another place and when I was leaving I checked my phone and he had sent me a message confirming that he'll be there. Unfortunately it was too late for me to go, so I replied apologozing and said that I wasn't sure he was going to make it, so I had decided to go another time. Problem is he was already there. He called me the day after very angry and told me that it was unacceptable what I did. I admitted that it was wrong, but I told him that his attitude turned me off cause I was all excited in the first place. I expected that we should go together or meet at a specific time. I didn't call him back, cause to be honest I'm a bit confused whether I should pursue starting any type of relationship (even friendship). He doesn't even want to commit to meet at a certain time. Of course he sees it that I acted inappropriately by not showing up. The thing is, this is not my nature. I ALWAYS show up for any appointment. I have seen him twice in the past 10 days (in a regular dance venue we go to) and he has been ignoring me and giving these stares. I have also been avoiding him, partly because I'm confused to what I want and partly cause I have no idea what he's thinking (or planning to do).
I'm just wondering from a scorpio side, is he going to try to find a way to get back at me, or does it depend on how he feels about me. Do you think he expects that I do something for his ego?
To be honest I'm a bit sad cause I felt we had some connection, but if he can't commit to a time to meet, that is too much for me to handle.
'Atleats he doesnt commit to meet..and then turn up.I knew a scorp who use to comit n never turn up...givin some excuse latter.'
But if he not that keen to make the effort to meet me, it worries me that he might not be that into me. And that's something I don't want.
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He asked me a couple of times 'indirectly' to go dance someplace, so I decided to take the step to ask him out. I called him and asked to meet him at the new dance venue. He gave me an arrogant attitude to if/how/when he'll be there to meet me (even though I could sense that he was happy that I called). He told me, 'you go there and wait for me...I'll be there around that time'. I was pissed off and told him I'll try to make it and had decided I won't go.
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He called me the day after very angry and told me that it was unacceptable what I did. I admitted that it was wrong, but I told him that his attitude turned me off cause I was all excited in the first place. I expected that we should go together or meet at a specific time.
I didn't call him back, cause to be honest I'm a bit confused whether I should pursue starting any type of relationship (even friendship). He doesn't even want to commit to meet at a certain time. Of course he sees it that I acted inappropriately by not showing up. The thing is, this is not my nature. I ALWAYS show up for any appointment.
I have seen him twice in the past 10 days (in a regular dance venue we go to) and he has been ignoring me and giving these stares. I have also been avoiding him, partly because I'm confused to what I want and partly cause I have no idea what he's thinking (or planning to do).
I'm just wondering from a scorpio side, is he going to try to find a way to get back at me, or does it depend on how he feels about me. Do you think he expects that I do something for his ego?
To be honest I'm a bit sad cause I felt we had some connection, but if he can't commit to a time to meet, that is too much for me to handle.