Fan the flames or let them die...?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by virgo79 on Saturday, December 20, 2008 and has 2 replies.

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@virgo79
19 YearsVirgo

I am Virgo female 29, he is Scorpio 31. Scorpios please enlighten me of what to expect from a Scorpio man when you begin dating. This is very new for me in that we started talking a week ago...over internet, then text, now phone...now he's even on my facebook. We are very into each other. He checks in on me so often by text that I started feeling overwhelmed. I decided to try to visit him Yesterday out of State...hmmm (6hrs...lol) but he cancelled last minute. Says, he had some duty that came up on the naval base he is at. So, I thought he was trying to avoid seeing me...well, is he Scorpios...lol. I was outraged and hung up my phone on him. He text and called immediately following my behavior and though I did not go...he has been consistently the same..."interested"...well, Scorpios is this how u react if you really like the girl? Any advice...I feel we are also having a control struggle. He wants control and it seems like it is just the way he is.He behaves like what I wants it too, then gently pulls out of it...like the trip to see him! He makes me smile, and I really like him. Your advice welcomed.

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@gslove
20 Years500+ Posts

He is interested and he is probably the only sign of the zodiac who was flattered that you got enraged about his cancelation. You should not have done that though. I would have given him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he actually was called to duty the first time. The second time would have been the time to get enraged 😉