what a virgo women wants n a man!

I am 24 yr old virgo women. This Is what I want.

He must be dependable.
Must be able to take the lead role.
I will happily follow.
Must need me sexually mentally and emotionally.
Must be focused.
Must be very intelligent.
must be sexy.
must be neat.
must be willing to express himself.
Must be reserved. but still know how to have a good time.
Must be honest no matter what. I dont care how mad you thnk I will be.
must be able to listen to my honest opinon.
must make a decision and stick with it. makes moves on it.
Must be a bit controlling. I like the thought that my man s into me as much as i am n2 him.
but dont try to control me.
must be willing to spend quality time.
must be able to go when I am tired of you.
Must be willing to let me help you In anyway I can.
pls fell free to argue back wth me. I need you to understand my views anyway.

I am sure I am missing somethings on my list it is 114am.

However, know I will never settle. I will not marry potential either u have it or you dont.I am good enough I am deservng I am capable. can have whatever I want.

I want a project. being with me will mean you are already great but unless you are flawless then you are not complete with out me. Its my glimpse of light that will make you shine. I will push you. I can keep you focused on your focus. Picture u life elevated with me. Dont doubt yourself trust me you need me.I dont have to be number one just as long as I am an exponent to #1. I am known to walk alone but I am alone for a reason. Sending me a drink is not appeasing. Come harder this will not be ez. I will be your help whenever you need me. whatever u want I will split the bill. Just when you thought u had t all. Here comes Mrs_vrgo here to take care of you.

I don't understand what you mean when you say your guy "must be a bit controlling"; "but don't try to control me"...Can you elaborate on that? Usually people who are a bit controlling are really only interested in controlling the other person...Atleast it has been that way in my experience.

I personally can't stand controlling people, but I like people who are driven/motivated and not scared to express their true selves to me. I can't stand liars and manipulators. The list goes on, but I don't want to waffle 🙂

I just want a man who loves me for me... Hey call me simple 🙂

Archer: Just because you've met the barrel-scrapings of the virgo pool, doesn't mean that's all there is 😉

Honestly it sounds to me like you've only met the really, really bad ones - which is a shame, because a good virgo really is something special. I guess just like any other sign hey? The bad ones suck and the good ones are really something to treasure.

Haha I wasn't being defensive, I was just having a bit of fun 🙂

Yeah i'm happy for people to think what they what, at the end of the day they're going to anyway! It just comes across to me that you have met those wretched virgo's that are total pains in the ass. In which case I can totally understand your opinion! But then there's the flip side where there's the lovely ones too.

I dunno, I felt it was a little unfair when you said how could such a man fall for a virgo girl - virgo girls can be wonderful! They can be the fruit at the top of the tree that everyone else is too afraid to reach for, apart from the few men that know they deserve such a woman and aren't afraid to reach for her.

Any person can be the fruit at the top of the tree ... however, the one who boasts about how wonderful they are, usually are NOT the desirable ones. This post doesn't come off very humble, which being humble is what makes the desirable fruit at the top of the tree.

And quite frankly ... I can see where non-Virgos are coming from with their responses to this .. such as MUST, MUST, MUST .. while reserving the right to say, "must be able to go when I am tired of you" .. that's pretty fucking pompous, don't you think?

I demand this, that, you must ...... and then when I'm tired of your ass, then leave NOW .....

... that is NOT desirable, that doesn't describe the wonderful fruit. That describes someone who is concieted, arrogant and vain.

However, I agree that there are wonderful people of every sign, however this thread came sounding like this particular Virgo is not one of them.

***that is NOT desirable, that doesn't describe the wonderful fruit. That describes someone who is concieted, arrogant and vain.


Its what I want call me vain or arrogant all you want. I choose who I desire to be with.I will never settle for potential.I choose my company. I choose to post this I didnt tell you to comment on it . take it or leave it. I am confident... I dont have to settle for anything less then great.

****I demand this, that, you must ...... and then when I'm tired of your ass, then leave NOW .....

this is no different from a man. he enjoys your company wants you around when he wants and when he is tired he wants you to leave or he just dissappears. the difference is I dont play games I just out right tell you to leave.



I am wonderful I dont need you or any1 else to verify who I am.

eh, I applaud your "confidence". I wish more women had it.

I dont think you should settle either, but perhaps dont prejudge someone based on your list alone.



If more people in general demanded excellence, perhaps it would exist.

when I was younger .I had a vision of a dream man, I settled for potential. and he never reached it. call it nagging or bitching what ever. I will never ever in life settle again. however there are things I am willing to compromise on.. its up to me. I am known to walk alone but please believe its by choice.If I dont get what I need then oh well. I am still happy with being me. If you choose to dwell with me then lets go against the world. I dont beg for company. there is always somebody trying to spend time with me... blah blah. How dare some1 think I should lower my standards. .nope will not happen. I define perfection. whoever I choose will already be great.I will push him to be flawless and where he doesnt shine. I will shine for him. never will it be maybe he can. or try to..no its. HE MUST!!!!. LOL

ummm, try not to tell this to anyone you first meet.
B/c it is kind of a turn off...

I am a virgo. I know what to say and what not to say. I speak thru my actions. 1st I would need to sit back and observe is he even relationship material then go from there. I would not dare spill it all out. He will already know b4 he even think he could be with me if he needs to step his game up. or just continue to be my friend. when it comes to the matters of love and soul its another ball game. LoL. I am very kind. although I stand alone there are always men and women who wants to be in my prescence sometime. i think to myself plz dont come talk to me. but people ae drawn to me ..I really dont know why. but I am not mean Ill give my last dollar. lol.. blah..blah..

"Agree! even if making a wishlist that a man has to perfectly fit into does seem a bit unrealistic, there is nothing wrong with aspiring for the best and being selective, why would anyone want to settle for anything other than the best?"

lol wow...it doesn't get any more virgo than that! 🙂

Good Luck with that .. hopefully you won't know alone with it.

thanks much

***all i know is that i want to be happy. if a man can give that to me, i am gonna head over heals for him

ok so what makes u happy?

lala land. I just wanna be happy. I think every1 "wants to be happy" but what makes u happy.

Temporary happiness is what people fall for. "Potential" when u 1st meet a guy its all ways great. so u just fall head over heals for that? wow!!!!

He got to be bringing something to the table. I am not talking about money. I mean come on.

thats y about 6 months in 2 a marriage or relationship people are wondering what happen.
what happened was people just wanted to be happy so they feel in love. now here is the real deal.now your lonely. depressed. nagging. complaining. stuck. you finally see the person for who they are ....but now its a lil late cuz u just wanted to be happy...

I hope u find happiness.. I really do

It sounds to me as though you have erroneously named this thread .... for it has become apparant that not every Virgo woman is so vain.


It should be named: What virgo_n_me wants n a man

***It sounds to me as though you have erroneously named this thread .... for it has become apparant that not every Virgo woman is so vain.

again call it what u want. I know what I want.

a puppy can make me happy doesnt mean i am head over heels for him.
there is a lot of things and people who make me happy does not mean I see them as a partner.

you seem to very intrested in my vain thread.. glad i could entertain u angel


"natural selection". cute.

see i even have internet groupies.smooches

I have all those traits but you better not be annoying with that Virgo yakking or acting corny know what I'm sayin?

You get noisy on me and I'm not going to keep quiet I will fight right back at you > besides I do what I wanna do > I don't care what anyone else thinks . don't like me then go find some lesser guy that you can keep yakking at. Not me no sir You try to pull that btchy Feminine vibe at me and I'm gonna get in your face.

If you Feminine signs do not know how to deal with your STANDOFFISHNESS then that is not my problem.

Understand?

Good.

lol.shutup. I say what i want when I want if u dont like get out. If u really had those traits then this would be no discussion.lol. I am sooo entertained.

I am happy with a man who is:

Compassionate.

Has good character.

Intelligent and spiritual.

Loyal.

Stable and good with finances.

Open and cultured.

The rest comes as it comes...

P.S.: I think JoeStrickler may have some discontent for Virgos.

Yeah discontent in the sense that if you do not communicate with me, get standoffish on me, get corny on me and stuff yeah I'm going o get right back at you. Listen Virgo is a Negative Yes "Negative" Feminine sign I know what I'm talking about honey.

Goodnight later.

well thats nice. . everybody wants happiness.



I wont keep goingback andfourth about my wants in a man. its what I want. There is nothing any1 can do about. I will not lower my standards because this traits will make me happy. I will not leave 1 or 2 out.So to al of you who think I am arrogant or vain, oh well this just means u are not for me. ..lol. I think it is funny people have a problem because I have high standards wheredo people get off trying to tell me ...you are not me. I know what I want. Suck it up. take it or leave it.

1st nomen would tell me anything. I am virgo . I observe.I analyz. it takes more then a whisper in my ear. Thats y I said what I want in a MAN...man is the key word. age doesnt make a man. you guys dont get it. guess what I am still not going to lower my standards .I will get what I want. if not I can be alone. I dont need a man.anybody who cant offe what I want will be a friend. or just D*ck. but i still choose what D*ck..lol

"you guys dont get it. guess what I am still not going to lower my standards"


Do you even realize that the majority of responses here weren't even references your standards, virgo_n_me, rather, either their own, or talking to other members in here?

Everytime someone speaks, you take the position as being defensive, as if people are trying to make you lower your standards of what you want .. when in reality, most people aren't even thinking about you and what you want ... only you are thinking about what you want, and for some reason, you think people are actually talking to you about your standards .. and they are not.

You have no awareness of that, do you?

That makes you pretty self-absorbed, you know.

lol @ outcast

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Happy Exploring.
🙂

hi angel. I noticed u care about what I want. soo sweet thanks. and yes I am into me.. Me 1st. have a nice day!!!!!!

****May I suggest this Female-Led Relationships for your reading pleasure virgo_n_me. Google for more info and blogs.

I dont need to be the head. sorry. u must didnt read it clearly.. I dont have to be in control . as long as I am an exponent 2 #1 then I am fine..smooches

😉
Arch.

Ive already placed my order.

Its consensual F/m relationship. The men CHOOSE to be submissive just as the woman chooses to be dominant. Its preference.




You dont have to pay arch, its our right!🙂😛

This site better paints a picture...She Makes the Rules.

"does anyone else ever had the "Queen and slaves" fantasy? "


Its a way of life. 😉

*blush*

I luuuuurve you even more 🙂🙂

It doesnt have to be demeaning....nor sexual. It actually has less to do with fetish. Its more to do with a man who derives pleasure from literally making his SO happy...whatever that may entail. From running errands to orgasms.

lol

hmmm, virgos seem to follow directions well.
I can see them in this situation if only they can let go of the feminine and masculine stereotypes...i mean ideals they so dearly hold on to.

How do you feel about FLR's 25th?

Fair enough. I feel the same way about men.

Well said P Angel!! Yeah this thread should have been titled what (she) wants in a man, not what virgo women want in a man. I certainly didn't agree with some of the points listed! Oh well, takes all kinds to make a world hey. I don't think it's a bad thing that she feels she knows what she wants, just that some of the points IMO were a little harsh or unrealistic. Everyone has their flaws, their strenghts and weaknesses.

Archer and goat: totally loved the randomness of aliens and BDSM haha!! What a read 🙂