Im a Scorp-Sag cusp. I know this question is regarding Aqua, I was thinking that some Scorps out there might have some experiences dealing with Aquas. So here it goes:
I was seeing an aqua guy for 3 months. I was seeing him at least once a week. He initiated most of them. Lately, I noticed that he started to open up to me more about personal things about him and his family which is unusual about him. Which I understand cause Im the same. I know hes really busy with school but was still able to squeeze me into his schedule.I also gave him space actually lots of space. Then one day, he told me that we should stop seeing each other. He said it was because he just doesn't have time to see anybody at this time, to have a gf ,him being even busier with school. He needs to focus more and he just wants to be completely alone.He said nothing personal and there isn't anyone else. I told him that it was ok with me if thats what he wants and if thats what it takes for him to reach his goal . Then we decided to remain friends and to keep in touch. What do you guys think? I heard Aquas pull away when things are getting serious. Do you guys think that he just lost interest or he still likes me but just scared to commit? I know I let him control things which is not typical for a Scorp but just didnt want to add to his already busy sched. Thanks =).
i Had the same issue with an aquarius i went out with her previously and their was an intense attracton but yeah as soon as she realized i was serious about her and i going out again she pulled away. Then like a week later she had a boyfriend. I gotta admit at first i was like wtf. Then i realized I should just let it go cuz all that distance space that void whatever u wanna call that just was not fun and i know i could satisfy her if she really wanted to come back to me but i mean its gotta go both ways and she was not looking for that kind of commitment with me obviously.
If you are the one he wants.....TRUST ME....he will come around this sounds great but a bit onesided from my pov - try not to use the friendship to wait on him or be on his clock - Aqua as all fixed signs can be very controlling...my experience. YOUR needs come first not his...
I know a married Scorp male/Aqua female couple. They've been going strong for 8 yrs now. The husband is a typical Scorp. The wife seems more like a Leo.
Novprin, Hun, Aquas tend to be very distant at times! It's so true about them...I have an Aqua sis and she was pretty much that way too until she found her guy who could tolerate that kinda stuff and wouldn't give up!
HOWEVER, it does not mean that you should cling to him if he asked you to back off..it shows he doesn't really care about you (romantically) and wouldn't mind you backing off...
Maybe he might change his mind later....
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I was seeing an aqua guy for 3 months. I was seeing him at least once a week. He initiated most of them. Lately, I noticed that he started to open up to me more about personal things about him and his family which is unusual about him. Which I understand cause Im the same. I know hes really busy with school but was still able to squeeze me into his schedule.I also gave him space actually lots of space. Then one day, he told me that we should stop seeing each other. He said it was because he just doesn't have time to see anybody at this time, to have a gf ,him being even busier with school. He needs to focus more and he just wants to be completely alone.He said nothing personal and there isn't anyone else. I told him that it was ok with me if thats what he wants and if thats what it takes for him to reach his goal . Then we decided to remain friends and to keep in touch. What do you guys think? I heard Aquas pull away when things are getting serious. Do you guys think that he just lost interest or he still likes me but just scared to commit? I know I let him control things which is not typical for a Scorp but just didnt want to add to his already busy sched. Thanks =).