FLAKY EX

my ex is a scorpio and im a leo.he acts very flaky with me.and I just want to know is this a scorpio trait.it's like he pulls me to him then push me away.I dont knoe scorpios let me know whats up!!!!!!Im having a dilema with this scorpio dude!!!!

"you need to be respected as a woman..."

-- You're right and I'm glad it was you who said it, the men need to help out the women here 🙂 A man saying it gives it more credibility. It's just NOT normal behavior as some women would like to believe because they're blinded by their feelings towards their... partner?

And DB is completely right in saying that some men do it because their partners simply don't confront them about it. Some don't confront believing that the guy must be going through all sorts of emotions and just can't sort out their feelings... lol Now, I wouldn't be all that opposed to believing THAT if it wasn't for months or years that have gone by! You just need to tell him what's on your mind, ask him what's up. Even if he's your typical, reserved scorpio I'm sure he'd atleast TRY to put forth some effort in order to not lose you... that on its own would provide reassurance that he actually cares about you.

But sex just gets easy to attain, therefore who needs a relationship? Not that relationships are based on sex but I think that once things go down that... route... then maybe just maybe they might have lost interest in more serious matters with you. Exceptions to everything of course. However, what I see here is that you guys broke up a looooong time ago, it's over, if not he would have attempted to get back together with you some time ago.

it's like he pulls me to him then push me away

I think it has to do with Scorpio always needing to be desired. He has a need to know somehow that you still desire him even though he has no interest getting back together with you. I have a bad habit of doing the same. It is not a conscience thing, I just do it. It's a way of getting in the last word so to speak.

juwanapla made a good point. It kind of seems to be a way of getting the last say in.