Geminis and Scorpios?

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Okay, so I'm new (don't judge the username, all I could come up with, lol) and I have a question. πŸ™‚ I really like this Gemini guy, but he seems to joke about serious matters, which I don't really like. I've known him for about a year, and I finally opened up to him, which led to me telling him something important. He, jokingly, brought it up in public. Are Geminis known for this? If so, I need to end this now (I was embarrassed and upset, not because it was embarrassing, but because it was personal and I trust(ed) him. New to astrology and wondering.
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Yeah, the first time I met him, he was funny and I had this attraction to him that was unspoken. But THEN, his mood swings would slap me in the face every once in a while. Not necessarily "mood swings", but personality swings. But I believe both of you when you say that they get pleasure from public humiliation. I was clearly upset and he kept on adding to what he had said. He hadn't said it flat-out, but he said something and then looked for a reaction. I'm pretty good when it comes to controlling emotions, but this guy... He loves emotionally testing people in public. And my dad is a Gemini too... -_-
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Yes! Gemini fathers are so... Hard to understand. Like, when I was younger and in trouble, I didn't know if we were joking or if he was seriously pissed, lol. And he'd always test me for NO REASON (which I personally think added to my testing nature). πŸ™‚ Thanks for the wishes!



*gives you a hug for the road* πŸ™‚ just, maybe, follow your instict. i think you know what it is screaming already. πŸ™‚
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*hugs back* πŸ˜› I do, just confirming my thoughts. With all of that Scorpio in my chart, I don't know why I'm not completely decisive... :\
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Okay, I have to speak up. My bestie is a Scorpio. She has the biggest mouth on her. She could care less what you tell her, she'll blab. Even when sworn to secrecy. I've cut her out 'right now' twice in 17 years because she told people things that were confidential. I'm not the only one or person she's done it too. 99% of the time, she foo foos it like it's no big deal, or makes excuses for herself. WWWellllllllll.. The last and biggest doozie... the sex of my youngest boy, in which my then husband knew but I chose not to. She swore she wouldnt tell anyone. So it was only her and him. Yeah right. She fucking flapped her mouth and one of the people she told unbeknownst to them that I didnt want to know mentions about the sex of my pregnant belly. Big mistake. Superman couldnt have stopped me I was so pissed and hurt.

And embarrassing people or humiliating them, let alone in public? Her forte. Loves it, laughs in peoples faces if they call her out. So Scorps arent all about secrecy, and decency. You are expected to treat them with that respect, not always the same when the coin is flipped.

Sorry ... still love ya though πŸ™‚
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Okay, I have to speak up. My bestie is a Scorpio. She has the biggest mouth on her. She could care less what you tell her, she'll blab. Even when sworn to secrecy. I've cut her out 'right now' twice in 17 years because she told people things that were confidential. I'm not the only one or person she's done it too. 99% of the time, she foo foos it like it's no big deal, or makes excuses for herself. WWWellllllllll.. The last and biggest doozie... the sex of my youngest boy, in which my then husband knew but I chose not to. She swore she wouldnt tell anyone. So it was only her and him. Yeah right. She fucking flapped her mouth and one of the people she told unbeknownst to them that I didnt want to know mentions about the sex of my pregnant belly. Big mistake. Superman couldnt have stopped me I was so pissed and hurt.

And embarrassing people or humiliating them, let alone in public? Her forte. Loves it, laughs in peoples faces if they call her out. So Scorps arent all about secrecy, and decency. You are expected to treat them with that respect, not always the same when the coin is flipped.

Sorry ... still love ya though πŸ™‚



LOL, I would never think of telling someone's secret, no matter how small the secret was. I think you should've cut her off a while ago (just my opinion). Sorry for your experience. Do you have any idea of the rest of her chart? Idk...
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Yes! Gemini fathers are so... Hard to understand. Like, when I was younger and in trouble, I didn't know if we were joking or if he was seriously pissed, lol. And he'd always test me for NO REASON (which I personally think added to my testing nature). πŸ™‚ Thanks for the wishes!



*gives you a hug for the road* πŸ™‚ just, maybe, follow your instict. i think you know what it is screaming already. πŸ™‚



*hugs back* πŸ˜› I do, just confirming my thoughts. With all of that Scorpio in my chart, I don't know why I'm not completely decisive... :\



because despite all evidence speaking against this unholy union; you seek the goodness, the kind heart in him. hope dies last.

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It's definitely there, he just acts like a butt in public and on certain days. And the use of "unholy" is apt. :\
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Posted by VajajayPartay
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Okay, I have to speak up. My bestie is a Scorpio. She has the biggest mouth on her. She could care less what you tell her, she'll blab. Even when sworn to secrecy. I've cut her out 'right now' twice in 17 years because she told people things that were confidential. I'm not the only one or person she's done it too. 99% of the time, she foo foos it like it's no big deal, or makes excuses for herself. WWWellllllllll.. The last and biggest doozie... the sex of my youngest boy, in which my then husband knew but I chose not to. She swore she wouldnt tell anyone. So it was only her and him. Yeah right. She fucking flapped her mouth and one of the people she told unbeknownst to them that I didnt want to know mentions about the sex of my pregnant belly. Big mistake. Superman couldnt have stopped me I was so pissed and hurt.

And embarrassing people or humiliating them, let alone in public? Her forte. Loves it, laughs in peoples faces if they call her out. So Scorps arent all about secrecy, and decency. You are expected to treat them with that respect, not always the same when the coin is flipped.

Sorry ... still love ya though πŸ™‚



LOL, I would never think of telling someone's secret, no matter how small the secret was. I think you should've cut her off a while ago (just my opinion). Sorry for your experience. Do you have any idea of the rest of her chart? Idk...
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Hmmm, ya know I guess I never looked it up before. When I get a chance, I will. I hear what you're saying and there's times Ive thought about it ... but I'm sure there's times she wanted to kick me to the curb too. Ive never yacked her pricacy, ever.. secrets are put in a vault once they reach my ears... but I'm sure I've had her wanting to pull her hair out so it equals out.

She's prob one of the only people I can trust. Feels and seems like an oxymoron saying that, but she gets me and talks me off the proverbial ledges when I get all Cancery and emotional ... pr pissed about something with my Sag moon. I luff her πŸ™‚
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Well, I don't have a problem with bringing something to light, but if you trust me with your problems and secrets, it'll be like I never heard about it. Yes, I'll call someone out, but not in public (I hate making scenes and seeing people make scenes); I'll take you aside and talk to you personally. Yes, I have met Scorpios that talk a lot and don't hold secrets, but I've also met the stereotypical Scorps that will take your secret to the grave.
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Okay, I have to speak up. My bestie is a Scorpio. She has the biggest mouth on her. She could care less what you tell her, she'll blab. Even when sworn to secrecy. I've cut her out 'right now' twice in 17 years because she told people things that were confidential. I'm not the only one or person she's done it too. 99% of the time, she foo foos it like it's no big deal, or makes excuses for herself. WWWellllllllll.. The last and biggest doozie... the sex of my youngest boy, in which my then husband knew but I chose not to. She swore she wouldnt tell anyone. So it was only her and him. Yeah right. She fucking flapped her mouth and one of the people she told unbeknownst to them that I didnt want to know mentions about the sex of my pregnant belly. Big mistake. Superman couldnt have stopped me I was so pissed and hurt.

And embarrassing people or humiliating them, let alone in public? Her forte. Loves it, laughs in peoples faces if they call her out. So Scorps arent all about secrecy, and decency. You are expected to treat them with that respect, not always the same when the coin is flipped.

Sorry ... still love ya though πŸ™‚



what? does she have gem moon or rising? lol.

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I have a Gem rising and I don't yack or blab secrets. Maybe it's my Cancer Sun, but secrets are secrets. Let alone air people's dirty laundry like I'm talking the weather. So I guess it shows, not every placement fills the shoes of the stereotypical 'norm.' πŸ˜„
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Okay, I have to speak up. My bestie is a Scorpio. She has the biggest mouth on her. She could care less what you tell her, she'll blab. Even when sworn to secrecy. I've cut her out 'right now' twice in 17 years because she told people things that were confidential. I'm not the only one or person she's done it too. 99% of the time, she foo foos it like it's no big deal, or makes excuses for herself. WWWellllllllll.. The last and biggest doozie... the sex of my youngest boy, in which my then husband knew but I chose not to. She swore she wouldnt tell anyone. So it was only her and him. Yeah right. She fucking flapped her mouth and one of the people she told unbeknownst to them that I didnt want to know mentions about the sex of my pregnant belly. Big mistake. Superman couldnt have stopped me I was so pissed and hurt.

And embarrassing people or humiliating them, let alone in public? Her forte. Loves it, laughs in peoples faces if they call her out. So Scorps arent all about secrecy, and decency. You are expected to treat them with that respect, not always the same when the coin is flipped.

Sorry ... still love ya though πŸ™‚



LOL, I would never think of telling someone's secret, no matter how small the secret was. I think you should've cut her off a while ago (just my opinion). Sorry for your experience. Do you have any idea of the rest of her chart? Idk...



Hmmm, ya know I guess I never looked it up before. When I get a chance, I will. I hear what you're saying and there's times Ive thought about it ... but I'm sure there's times she wanted to kick me to the curb too. Ive never yacked her pricacy, ever.. secrets are put in a vault once they reach my ears... but I'm sure I've had her wanting to pull her hair out so it equals out.

She's prob one of the only people I can trust. Feels and seems like an oxymoron saying that, but she gets me and talks me off the proverbial ledges when I get all Cancery and emotional ... pr pissed about something with my Sag moon. I luff her πŸ™‚
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Well be careful, then. Someone who tells secrets is questionable (I.E. the reason for me making this post, lol). Hopefully you brought your anger to her
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Well, I don't have a problem with bringing something to light, but if you trust me with your problems and secrets, it'll be like I never heard about it. Yes, I'll call someone out, but not in public (I hate making scenes and seeing people make scenes); I'll take you aside and talk to you personally. Yes, I have met Scorpios that talk a lot and don't hold secrets, but I've also met the stereotypical Scorps that will take your secret to the grave.



where is your venus, missy? πŸ˜„
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It's in Scorpio. c: I have my full chart on my profile.
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Posted by SultrySultana
Being the very private people that you are.. if you get thrust into a position that you have to socialise on a daily basis... to get a footing in the new group, there's a chance you'd blab, n in the worst gossipy way too. Or that was what my "friend" did to me.. not when I told her, not when we were in a common group of friends.. but YEARS later (read 5).. to a totally different ass-licking group, and not even to enlighten/educate them in a way that mistakes could happen, but in a way that she felt I did something non-do-able.

And the actual topic was?

I had to visit the consulate for my student visa TWICE (as if, everyone on this earth would get it in the first go!) She not only embarrassed me in the group, she made it seem like a MISTAKE instead of blowing it over, or tell them in a informative way.

After that, I never looked back at her or that friendship. I might still hold her in good regard, but dont like to mingle with her or her group.

One of the reasons why I'm very wary about water signs. They play up every damn thing as if it were a MISTAKE. Its hard to accept them as friends or tell them anything about yourself.



I'm very sorry for your experience. When I have to socialize, and I'm trying to make new friends, I don't talk about others. And I'm sure that all of the Scorpios on here would agree that we aren't perfect; I'm definitely not (and I'm just a young Scorp, still making plenty mistakes). First of all, she should've brought it to your attention and your attention ONLY. Bringing other people into it was unnecessary. And "blabbing" to random people isn't something I do to gain friends or trust... And seeing that she treated you that way, are you sure that you guys were (best) friends? Lol, I see that Scorpios have it bad on DXP. Why?

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Well be careful, then. Someone who tells secrets is questionable (I.E. the reason for me making this post, lol). Hopefully you brought your anger to her



Thanks πŸ™‚ And you're right... Ive been more careful. Hard when they're your bestie but Ive learned not to tell her everything, but reading/hearing you say that reafirms it's okay
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Yeah, somethings are better for your mind only (especially if you fear the info reaching the public). Have a good one. πŸ™‚
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Posted by ellessque
you have lots of scorp in your chart. wow.

i've never walked on someone or spilled their secrets for my own benefit. i will distance myself if i don't see myself in that circle anymore but it's a slow progression of disappearing with no explanation.

in fact, i can't stand when someone tells me a secret.....especially an air sign, because it's likely it's not a secret at all and they always end up being called on it by someone and we usually get the blame :/



We sound alike. Distancing and then disappearing is something I always find myself doing. And I know, it's a little funny, but I think every aspect of my chart is in place (even though some placements I could live without). :b
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Posted by SultrySultana
I'm a pretty open person VP.. or else she wouldnt have known it in the first place. None of it was a secret, but the way she used it in public was mortifying. She could've deflected it to me. she could've done it a 100 different ways.

Yea, we've been bestie... or thats how she behaved when following me around campus for 2 years, the certifications and later job search and landing jobs in close companies for the next yr or so. Yes, there was a break in communication... and yes, after a yr or so, we again worked in the same place last yr... which was when this happened.

The only reason I've said that is, intentionally or not.. u guys too are capable of similar mis-doings.

It will be hard with the gem.. so yea, I do suggest u guys go seperate ways.



Yeah, I'd agree with you on this one. But keep in mind that not ALL Scorpios are like that, just like not ALL Geminis are like the one I'm describing. The break in communication shouldn't have mattered. I honestly don't believe she was your friend; probably misleading you... And believe me, I've made up my mind, his fate is sealed. c:
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Well checked the bestie's chart ...not knowing her t.o.b. which I'll squeeze outta her later, haha, her Moon is in Cappi, Merc Scorp, and only thing thus far Gemmy is her asc node.

BUT I was *hmmmmmmmed* when I read both her venus and mars is Sag. Interesting ... same as the first Scorp who Ive been doing a dance with for quite some time. Their love and relationship style s and/or actions are nothing alike.
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Sun Scorpio 20.27
Moon Scorpio 5.34
Mercury Scorpio 7.05 R
Venus Scorpio 4.42
Mars Sagittarius 2.36
Jupiter Scorpio 0.32
Saturn Aquarius 23.50
Uranus Capricorn 19.07
Neptune Capricorn 18.54
Pluto Scorpio 25.16
Lilith Aries 13.44
Asc node Sagittarius 3.06





God I hate that vid, Dazed! Icky yucky to the Nth degree! πŸ˜›

Takes away the fantasy I have of you men playing when you're by yourselves ... not at all close to what I've envisioned lmao
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Vajajay- Are you sure he knew that what you told him was to be kept private? Sometimes it's not as obvious to us as you might think. We have a compulsion to gather and distribute information, and it can be really hard not to share whatever we hear. If you tell me a secret, though, and make sure I understand it's not to be repeated, then I won't tell it. At least not to anyone who knows you (just being honest).

The way he used what you told him to test and make fun of you seems malicious, though. To poke at someone (pretending to be joking) is something I might do if I was pissed about something you did and wanted to retaliate without outright confrontation.

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Posted by Whimsy
Vajajay- Are you sure he knew that what you told him was to be kept private? Sometimes it's not as obvious to us as you might think. We have a compulsion to gather and distribute information, and it can be really hard not to share whatever we hear. If you tell me a secret, though, and make sure I understand it's not to be repeated, then I won't tell it. At least not to anyone who knows you (just being honest).

The way he used what you told him to test and make fun of you seems malicious, though. To poke at someone (pretending to be joking) is something I might do if I was pissed about something you did and wanted to retaliate without outright confrontation.



I told him when it was just him and I, in my room, late at night. I was SURE that he wouldn't tell anyone else or bring it out in public. If I'm with someone in an intimate setting, and I tell them a secret, I'd expect them not to bring it up in front of anyone else.
Also, it was my first time telling him something "personal", so you know... And the secret wasn't about someone or someone else's situation, it was about ME. NO reason to confront anyone with this information.
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When you told him the personal information, did you *explicitly* tell him that it was a secret and not to be repeated?



I guess this is where I screwed up. It was expected. And it wasn't something that you could just bring up in everyday conversation, so (obviously) it's personal. But I guess you have to actually TELL them when something is personal. ._.
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When you told him the personal information, did you *explicitly* tell him that it was a secret and not to be repeated?



I guess this is where I screwed up. It was expected. And it wasn't something that you could just bring up in everyday conversation, so (obviously) it's personal. But I guess you have to actually TELL them when something is personal. ._.



Yep, and not only that, you have to say the magic words: "Please keep this between you and me."

Otherwise it's fair game...it's not that Gems go around spilling secrets, they just aren't likely to psychoanalyze the context of each bit of communication. And hence, don't know that they're secrets.

Having to read between the lines all the time gets stressful...bluntness is encouraged for them.
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So even saying "this is my first time admitting this" won't ring a bell? UGH, what the flap.
What about his "secrets"? He's told me many, but I've never told his. He's never had to state that it was a secret, I could sense the way it affected him through his voice and tone...
Probably weren't secrets...
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Posted by VajajayPartay
Okay, so I'm new (don't judge the username, all I could come up with, lol) and I have a question. πŸ™‚ I really like this Gemini guy, but he seems to joke about serious matters, which I don't really like. I've known him for about a year, and I finally opened up to him, which led to me telling him something important. He, jokingly, brought it up in public. Are Geminis known for this? If so, I need to end this now (I was embarrassed and upset, not because it was embarrassing, but because it was personal and I trust(ed) him. New to astrology and wondering.



your gemini man is behaving this way because he is bored, but this, or any other reason does not serve as an excuse for his behavior. i would say that if you are looking or hoping that the relationship will survive, then what you would really hope for is that this dude learns some self-control.

personally, i doubt he will.
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Okay, so I'm new (don't judge the username, all I could come up with, lol) and I have a question. πŸ™‚ I really like this Gemini guy, but he seems to joke about serious matters, which I don't really like. I've known him for about a year, and I finally opened up to him, which led to me telling him something important. He, jokingly, brought it up in public. Are Geminis known for this? If so, I need to end this now (I was embarrassed and upset, not because it was embarrassing, but because it was personal and I trust(ed) him. New to astrology and wondering.


What was the thing he brought up ?
Some people use humour to try and soften the blow or if it's an issue that worries you make it less of something to worry about ?
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It was about my dad.
I understand that some people like to joke about certain things to "soften the blow", but he was LOOKING for a reaction.
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Posted by ellessque
does he know more things about you that you are afraid he will share with people if you are assertive in telling him to piss off?



He began talking about my dad and his problems, not completely telling the secret, but getting to it. I don't want him to tell the details of the secret though... You know? So I'm just trying to leave the entire situation alone.
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One does not simply skidaddle, Everevolvingepithet.
He's acting like I'm his property (or like he's my dad!), which is getting really annoying. I tried not to start a fight by just cutting him off completely, but he's acting as if this is a "phase" and we'll be friends again.


What, you mean he's trying to tell you what to do etc ?
Just tell him you don't want to be his friend etc and just switch off if it's that bad.
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Telling me what to do, where to be, etc.
And I've tried to tell him, but it seems as if he won't understand unless I blow up.
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OKAY, so the first site I went to for his chart was completely misguiding.
His chart:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Gemini 20.48 Asc Cancer 9.19
Moon Scorpio 6.56 II Leo 2.22
Mercury Cancer 3.30 III Leo 27.44
Venus Gemini 20.13 IV Virgo 27.41
Mars Aries 27.39 V Scorpio 2.06
Jupiter Virgo 7.08 VI Sagittarius 7.10
Saturn Aquarius 18.20 R VII Capricorn 9.19
Uranus Capricorn 17.02 R VIII Aquarius 2.22
Neptune Capricorn 18.18 R IX Aquarius 27.44
Pluto Scorpio 20.47 R Midheaven Pisces 27.41
Lilith Aquarius 15.53 XI Taurus 2.06
Asc nodeCapricorn 0.37 XII Gemini 7.10
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does he know more things about you that you are afraid he will share with people if you are assertive in telling him to piss off?



He began talking about my dad and his problems, not completely telling the secret, but getting to it. I don't want him to tell the details of the secret though... You know? So I'm just trying to leave the entire situation alone.



okay.

you screwed up. simple as that. you shared something you probably shouldn't have and now you have to face the fact that it could be sent up the flag pole for everyone to see if you rub him the wrong way. walking on eggshells much?

own it and stick up for yourself.

there isn't any secret that someone is going to give a rats ass about 100 years from now, so who cares if he spills it? he's controlling you right now and he's completely oblivious to this. it won't matter if you are nice to him or you tell him to fuck off....eventually he'll spill it regardless.

so, do what you need to do to do you. if you don't want him around, tell him.
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I understand that I screwed up and I have to confront him to end it completely... I guess I was just avoiding it.
Thanks, everybody. πŸ™‚

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LOL @ you πŸ˜„

i didn't get the +rep, i thought you meant she was concerned about the secret being exposed would ruin her rep. like +rep....add the worry for her rep. πŸ˜›

My secret? pfffffft. i'm not telling a gemini, are you nutsβ€”β€”β€”β€”!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜›



Hey, I'd probably forget by tomorrow... πŸ˜›

BUT! I was talking about ze vah jay jay but I think I know what she is talking about now.. (still haven't read it exactly if she said it).
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OKAY, okay, I'll tell you!
It was about my dad.

He was a murderer... He broke into my neighbor's house and murdered them because they were cooking spaghetti. I've tried to hide this, but I needed to tell someone who I felt was trustworthy. I think I feel better now that it's out in the open. Thank you guys so much, for allowing me to lift that heavy burden off of my crippled heart.
Thanks for listening, guys.
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Posted by ellessque
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Posted by trolltrain
Posted by ellessque
LOL @ you πŸ˜„

i didn't get the +rep, i thought you meant she was concerned about the secret being exposed would ruin her rep. like +rep....add the worry for her rep. πŸ˜›

My secret? pfffffft. i'm not telling a gemini, are you nutsβ€”β€”β€”β€”!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜›



Hey, I'd probably forget by tomorrow... πŸ˜›

BUT! I was talking about ze vah jay jay but I think I know what she is talking about now.. (still haven't read it exactly if she said it).



OKAY, okay, I'll tell you!
It was about my dad.

He was a murderer... He broke into my neighbor's house and murdered them because they were cooking spaghetti. I've tried to hide this, but I needed to tell someone who I felt was trustworthy. I think I feel better now that it's out in the open. Thank you guys so much, for allowing me to lift that heavy burden off of my crippled heart.
Thanks for listening, guys.



well, at least it was over spaghetti and not eyelashes.
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Right?!
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Posted by SultrySultana
LOL

HOW in the HELL did I screw THAT up?



Lol!

Posted by trolltrain
Posted by VajajayPartay
Posted by trolltrain
obviously you don't think im trustworthy 😒

WHAT DO YOU HAVE AGAINST SPAGHETTI SO MUCH 😒 MY FAVOURITE FEWD IS HATED BY SUCH A WONDERFUL LADY.. 😭



It's okay. *pats back* Spaghetti will no longer tear us apart. It will be non-existent within 3 days (I got someone else to put my plan into action). c:

better not be meatballs.

but shag-get-he and beat ballz no go.

what?
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Whaaa?