Scorpio/Gemini Match

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ella85z on Friday, December 5, 2008 and has 55 replies.

Are Scorpio and Gemini Compatible in Love

Scorpio and Gemini have contrasting personalities which can create both challenges and growth opportunities. Scorpio is intense and emotional while Gemini is curious and adaptable. Successful relationships depend on communication and understanding. This pairing can work if both partners appreciate each other's differences and are willing to compromise.

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@ella85z
17 YearsScorpio

I read little bit about this combination and basically they're two different worlds...
Has it worked for anyone? More towards Scorpio Girl/ Gemini Guy

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@K-Scorp
17 YearsScorpio

Good luck I am a Scorpio and I have had a Few Run ins with Gemini women and either they can't keep me or i can't keep them most of the time i just feel like i am wasting to much energy and stop talkin to them. Plus after the initial excitement boiled down i no longer wanted to be with them anyway.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

This combination will last if they both understand each another.

And what ever you do take it slow and build a friendship first, then lover, mate, pal, andyou need to now what one to be at any given time. 🙂

This weekend I would have been with my gem for a year. And I still look at him as a friend, who I know loves me and treasures the friendship that we have built.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

"why don't you just spend a few days reading stuff on the Gemini board and figure out if they're your type of people."

I so agree, that would be her best bet

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@dward417
20 Years1,000+ Posts

nothing here.....working as usual....from what Ive heard gems and scorps are a good match...but really you cannot based it on sign...because everyone is different

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@scorpion_rising
18 Years1,000+ Posts

i'm scorpio. i didn't really mean it 😢

i was just mocking the whole "everyone is different" kumbaya.

i'm sure satori would be more sympathetic about this type of stuff.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Well, tbh, seldom am I super into a guy...I may have had an actual crush like twice in my whole life.

I've been accused of being asexual. B/c when my girls get together and are hooting and hollering over "fine" guys, I'm on the side like, "Yup, that's nice. Pass the margarine, please." Even my best friends have said to me, "You never open up about dudes, like ever." lol I don't talk to anyone (besides my mother) about who I'm dating.

The only time anyone has witnessed me "beside myself" was a few years ago, when I was literally obsessed with this Virdude. Like to the point where I couldn't think straight. I have no idea what came over me, but it was pretty scary.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""Ive never met a FEMALE Gem before though, but im sure they're just as pathetic""

lol No. My Gem friend is fabulous! You've probably seen her in magazines. She models professionally, but she is incredibly humble about it. She won't mention it or talk much about it.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

No, you don't understand.

It was like I morphed into someone else. Even ppl around me could see that I was determined to possess this man, and that if I didn't, someone was going to get hurt. My behavior evoked responses that were a mixture of amusement and fear. LOL

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""SS, do you feel like you can "get deep" with your Gemini friend? ""

Yup! Her and I are very much alike, actually. She often says what's on my mind before I do, and vice versa. The only difference is I'm more protective than her.

She has a Pisces Moon. idk if that makes a difference.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""But secrets are meant to be broken LOL.""

haha

It's not like that. It's that if I give away her info, I'll be giving away my personal info too. We come from the same place. 🙂

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm way different now.

I pretty much go with the flow of life. I accept what I can't change, and if I am unable to mold my environment, then I mold myself to fit it. Or I change my environment. All without much of a fuss. I accept these things now.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""I know that one of my best Virgo guy friends really loves me, but is really freaked out by me sometimes too.""

Oh, same here. lol Two of my best guy friends are Virgos. They are always kissing and hugging me- nonstop. I'll meet ppl for the first time who already know stuff about me b/c Virgo mentions me so much. They talk about how odd I am too. lol

Once, I overheard a convo my Virgo friend was having w/ his friend. lol They were talking about how weird and shy I am.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

But, you know, once I got over that particular Virguy, he actually seemed hurt. I decided I couldn't convince him to give in to me. He did not respond the way I'd expected, so he was dead to me. I woke up one morning, and it was like he'd never existed. I just made up my mind that I was no fool, and that I loved myself more than anyone.

I could see it in his face. He looked confused and sad. He started asking ppl around me what was wrong with me, and why was i ignoring him. He started trying to get my attention. But it was too late for that.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

I've briefly dated other signs, but I've only ever gotten serious with Virgos. It's quite strange.

It's not like I search for them, it just happens. And then I find out the birthdate.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Well, one of mine is gay. The other is sorta bi, or something. lol

The gay one wants me to have a child for him. Uhhhh, I don't know what to say to that.

I don't like ppl kissing me in the face too much, and they're ALWAYS doing it! haaha

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Just checked. One has Venus in Cancer, the other has it in Libra.

Well, satori. I tend to like men who are older than me. The Virgo I'm describing has me by quite a few yrs....he's about 31.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""messy as hell.""

- YES!

omg, I've had 2 Virgo roommates. Both were sooooooo nasty. "Messy" doesn't describe how disgusting they were. If I told you some of the horror stories, you'd vomit your breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

The one I'm seeing now SEEMS to be cool. We'll see.

I don't have any particular hopes or expectations, just going with the flow for now. Enjoying the ride. 🙂

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

There are alot of "the one"s. You just have to make it work with one of them, lol.

I don't ask for much. Just someone to grow with, learn from, and with whom I am able to communicate freely with and without words.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""So do you think your meant to be with a Virgo SS?""

I don't know, PP. To be honest, the guy I think I'm going to marry is not a Cap. He's a Cap. It's complicated.

lol Ew! This is most I've ever discussed my personal relationships on dxp. What have you ppl done to me?!?

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""okay, you must expound on that.""

lol

Nope. But, I will say that I am so happy and comfortable with him. He knows so much about me! He is soooo understanding. He has never judged me. He's protective. Smart. Fatherly. When I see him, my heart starts dancing and I break out into a cheesy smile. He does too. *giggles*

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

SIL is psychic and she says I am going to ultimately be with a Scorp.

Ugggh, I have a slight crush on one now that I'm in the midst of ridding myself of....

God, I can't stand him! He got his panties in a bunch the other day b/c he tried to feed me some BS, and as usual, I told him he was full of himself. Because he SO is.

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

""lol..do you want two invites for the wedding notos? or just one?""

🙂

""Hey, Im going to NYC and Harvard in February of next year""

Yay! We should have a dxp get-together, and make it an annual thing. NYC should be our first meeting spot.

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