gemini woman desperately in love with scorpio-HELP

okay all you scorps,

i need some help. I have read all the astrology on scorpios and gemini's and sometimes i hear good things but i mainly hear that they are incompatible. i have actually just recently ended my relationship with my wonderful scorpio....i truly believe he is the love of my life but he can be so controlling and possessive...oh and everything is a big deal. I'm not sure if that last one is a scorpio trait or just a him trait but all that i just mentioned drove me nuts. he thought i was too flirtatious..which i admit at times i was but i think i was just feeling insecure in the relationship and was scared of getting hurt so i tried to remain emotionally distant (gemini's are famous for that) also the more he tried to control, the more i tried to rebel...it was a power struggle. many fights along the way but also the most intense love affair i know i will ever have. i love him so deeply...and that's big for gemini's..they don't usually feel so deeply but he's tapped into that side of me and i know i will never be the same. god he was wonderful... i will love him forever i know it. but tell me more about your sign. after i broke it off with him he told me he would wait for me..is that really true...could his love be that deep? I just need some time to myself, i rushed into this relationship with him right after i had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship with another gemini and i realize now that i need sometime to collect my thoughts and make sure i be the kind of girlfriend i want to be...not mention, re think my scorpio all together due to his jealousy that makes me want to run away from him. please you scorpios out there...is it possible he is still thinking of me...it's only been a month since the break up... i want to tell him so badly that i still love him and miss him but my friends keep saying it's a bad idea. let me know what you think. is there a future here?---K

run, baby, run...
(libra)

I think you should first think about what you really want!!!!!

I have been in relationship with Gemini guy and he was scared of his feelings and scared of being so deeply in love and being so close with somebody, and sure there are those scorpio-gemini differences but you can make it work!!! If you want...Im sure he doesnt forget you, he might meet other girls( scorpio=sex) but thats a different story. So if you feel this way and you are sure what it is , you feel, then go back and tell him, because it might be late.

I am seing other guy right now but there is no comparision with what I felt for my gemini guy and I dont know if it ever will be the same way with somebody else.

good luck,

M

thanks m....i'm still thinking about getting in touch with him but i'm afraid, afraid of what i might hear. i don't want to know if he's moved on. but tell me, i know scorpios need extra reassurance that they are the only one...how can i give that to him..i thought i was but maybe not enough..i mean i want to be able to be myself without him getting jealous because Idon't have to flirt to be myself but i am friendly and outgoing. what can i do to make him feel like he is the only one i want? I want so badly for him to feel secure with me....god if he could only get inside my head and my heart he would never worry ever again. scorpio and gemini is an amazing mix and if this can't work, it's is truly heartbreaking. i understand him a lot better than i used to but i also want him to loosen up on the possessiness and the jealous for my sake to if i am going to bend for him. can scorpios do that?
--k

It is very hard to say how to make him feel secure. I can just talk about me and my gemini, the only thing you can do is to be 100% honest, and dont even try to make him jeaulous to get his attention, it can turns against you. When you are out with him, dont talk to 10 other guys and try to show everybody else that he is your man- so that way he has no reason to feel insecure.

I mean basically all those small things like talking on phone with other people, he doesnt know while he is there....do you understand me?? I know its hard for you gemini but I think its important if you wanna win his trust.

I think later you can still work on him light up...but I can tell you, I learned it the hard way, after many fights and misunderstanding...

And the other thing is, my gemini used to say all the nice and cute things to me but unfortunately he also could forget about it very quickly, so what I wanna say, whatever you tell him, be sure he is going to take it seriously and remember that!!!! Think twice before you say something you dont really mean!!!!

M

Wait a minute you broke up with him. he wanted you and you told him , Ni. You can not expect him to put his life on hold and wait for you forever. it is not fair to him. Do him a favor and let him go. You do not deserve his affection.

M

actually m,

he has broken up with ME 2 times before this....so i have to admit that i think you're wrong about this one. because if you're basing it on whether someone wanted to be with someone and the other person said no...well than he wouldn't deserve to be with me since he's done this to me twice. but i took him back at one point..and then broke it off..but am now reconsidering. anyway, just wanted to make sure you had the full story.--k

well as a scorpio male,I think you should definitly let him know you are still thinking of him.but beware,with us scorpio's what you see is usually what you get,we can't, no matter how hard we try,get over being jealous and being possesive.I wish we could,as I know i have ruined many of relationships,because of these traits.
But tell him what you are feeling,with us scorpios its all or nothing we either want you or we don't,if he doesn'r seem interested,you may be better off with someone else!

Hey K,

the second massage signed with M wasnt from me, saying that it was you who broke up with him,

M

he will never forget the good and the bad... he will always feel for you deeply.... jealously and possessiveness is there because we dont give of ourselves easily or lightly, we think, without a good reason... you would be a darn good reason.

So listen, Gemini, what do you like about Scorpio? Because I'm a Scorp interested in a Gemini and I can already see all our differences but wondering if Gemini is attracted to me. If the possessiveness, jealousy, and strong emotion makes you want to run away, what makes you want to stay?

Hi! This is not the girl who broke up with her scorpio male. But I just want to answer your question why gemini women are attracted to scorpio male.I will answer from my own personal experience ok. I didnt really date any scorpio male, but I met one not long ago.He was working in the cofee shop and the day I met him when I was buying coffe something amazing happen. It was like electric shock which went through my body when I saw him, I just froze and I couldnt say anything, because I found this man irrestibly handsome and soft and that hit me. I lost my mind for a day and went to see him for a week to buy coffee and I could see he was pleased to see me, so i suggested that we go and have some coffee sometime and then the day we suppose to meet, he didnt turn up. I was very down, I never liked any man I've dated before the way I liked him. I went to see him next week again, knowing its embarrasing and that all the women who work there know that I like him and still went to see him. I asked him why didnt he turn up and he said, he's engaged and he cant do these things, so I said its ok. But it was a terrible feeling, it was someone who I was searching for long time and now this person wasnt available.What I like in scorpios is their warmth and understanding once you get close to them, but its not so easy. I have lots of scorpio friends which I love very much, but sometimes I get a feeling they are not as happy with me as they would be with someone born under aries sign, because of this crazy amount energy level they have and impulsivness.Gemini is different, we hate contol, we love talk about things, life, love, experinces and friendship means a lot to us, so as being in love and loving someone deeply. I have moon in pisces, maybe thats why I get easily attracted to someone under scorpio sign.
Enough of my story,
good luck to u with gemini women.
any questions feel free to ask ok
Daria

Just my words honey. I am a Scorpio woman, well-versed in astrology and Scorpio men in particular. My husband of 5 yrs is a fellow Scorp, but I went through some pretty OUCHY learning lessons with Scorp men in particular.

If you are the one who broke it off, and he said he would "wait" for you, if his love was deep enough, I say write him a note about how you feel. You have nothing to lose, do you.

Even if it doesn't pan out, at least you know you tried and at least got your feelings out of your system.

Whether a couple will work out depends on way more than sun signs, however you described some typical scorpio-gemini struggles.
I have a scorpio ex from the past who once told me "like a hawk he was going to appear when I least expected it." But scorpio men are known for saying stuff in the heat of the moment--anyways I went on with my life and even married. He seems to have reappeared, however I don't know if his intentions are real. Know what I mean?
So in the end, you never know with a Scorpio. See how he responds if you express yourself.
Good Luck,
Sarah

Sorry. Gemini and Scorpio DON'T mix. Geminis don't sit with Virgos, either!