Queenscorpio
@Queenscorpio
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Getting the ear of a Scorpio male
In your other thread, you said that you weren't in love with this Scorp..and you wonder why he is wanting to do things his way? He knows how you feel about him, he doesn't trust you and it really sounds like you are telling him that in order to have a relationship with you, he has to do certain things. Trust me, if he senses your feelings are not sincere, he will agree with what you say, but he will not submit to your wishes.
Clarity... As I have stated I care for him and we have a great time together, but love, can't say that I do. He on the other hand has told me this continually and asked if I love him and I tell him I care for him a lot, but I can't say I love him at this point. Remember, I am a scorp too. I am sure when I love someone...
I am telling him what I would need in a relationship and because he isn't in the same place we aren't compatible simple. I don't need to compromise what I need in a relationship for anyone. Why be unhappy in a relationship that doesn't provide what I need. I also suggest that he should probably persue a woman who is more submissive and willing to do whatever he wants against her own desires. I am not that woman. So, yes, I am saying this is what I want need and won't settle for anything different. He just doesn't want to accept that so he says, he will work on the things I want, but like I told him, I don't want him to force himself to do what he isn't comfortable with doing (this is the part I need him to HEAR) don't change what he wants right now to be what I want because it won't be honest and genuine.
He is a special person, just not the person for me in a romantic relationship. We aren't on the same page. He just doesn't want to let go... His comments.
What are my options? Either comply to your needs or just be friends and let go of hopes of anything more. I won't let you go, I am not going anywhere? What is there to say to a statement like that?
He will never be able to say I wasn't honest with him. So, yes I would have to cut all ties and hope I don't get stalked. LOL!!!
I am telling him what I would need in a relationship and because he isn't in the same place we aren't compatible simple. I don't need to compromise what I need in a relationship for anyone. Why be unhappy in a relationship that doesn't provide what I need. I also suggest that he should probably persue a woman who is more submissive and willing to do whatever he wants against her own desires. I am not that woman. So, yes, I am saying this is what I want need and won't settle for anything different. He just doesn't want to accept that so he says, he will work on the things I want, but like I told him, I don't want him to force himself to do what he isn't comfortable with doing (this is the part I need him to HEAR) don't change what he wants right now to be what I want because it won't be honest and genuine.
He is a special person, just not the person for me in a romantic relationship. We aren't on the same page. He just doesn't want to let go... His comments.
What are my options? Either comply to your needs or just be friends and let go of hopes of anything more. I won't let you go, I am not going anywhere? What is there to say to a statement like that?
He will never be able to say I wasn't honest with him. So, yes I would have to cut all ties and hope I don't get stalked. LOL!!!
Clarity... As I have stated I care for him and we have a great time together, but love, can't say that I do. He on the other hand has told me this continually and asked if I love him and I tell him I care for him a lot, but I can't say I love him at this point. Remember, I am a scorp too. I am sure when I love someone...
I am telling him what I would need in a relationship and because he isn't in the same place we aren't compatible simple. I don't need to compromise what I need in a relationship for anyone. Why be unhappy in a relationship that doesn't provide what I need. I also suggest that he should probably persue a woman who is more submissive and willing to do whatever he wants against her own desires. I am not that woman. So, yes, I am saying this is what I want need and won't settle for anything different. He just doesn't want to accept that so he says, he will work on the things I want, but like I told him, I don't want him to force himself to do what he isn't comfortable with doing (this is the part I need him to HEAR) don't change what he wants right now to be what I want because it won't be honest and genuine.
He is a special person, just not the person for me in a romantic relationship. We aren't on the same page. He just doesn't want to let go... His comments.
What are my options? Either comply to your needs or just be friends and let go of hopes of anything more. I won't let you go, I am not going anywhere? What is there to say to a statement like that?
He will never be able to say I wasn't honest with him. So, yes I would have to cut all ties and hope I don't get stalked. LOL!!!
I am telling him what I would need in a relationship and because he isn't in the same place we aren't compatible simple. I don't need to compromise what I need in a relationship for anyone. Why be unhappy in a relationship that doesn't provide what I need. I also suggest that he should probably persue a woman who is more submissive and willing to do whatever he wants against her own desires. I am not that woman. So, yes, I am saying this is what I want need and won't settle for anything different. He just doesn't want to accept that so he says, he will work on the things I want, but like I told him, I don't want him to force himself to do what he isn't comfortable with doing (this is the part I need him to HEAR) don't change what he wants right now to be what I want because it won't be honest and genuine.
He is a special person, just not the person for me in a romantic relationship. We aren't on the same page. He just doesn't want to let go... His comments.
What are my options? Either comply to your needs or just be friends and let go of hopes of anything more. I won't let you go, I am not going anywhere? What is there to say to a statement like that?
He will never be able to say I wasn't honest with him. So, yes I would have to cut all ties and hope I don't get stalked. LOL!!!
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LMAO!!!! Roxi only you!!! Just LOL!!! I think the scorp combo is sick anyway in a good way at times.
"So, yes I would have to cut all ties and hope I don't get stalked."
Told you so.
Told you so.
SR you are right.
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