SCORPIO MEN AND COMPLIMENTS

what does it mean when i compliment a scoprio man, and he changes the subject completely—??

That means he liked it. Honestly.

it means he doesn't know how to accept a compliment. could be both a good and bad thing. he should at least say thanks.

Oh but if he said thanks then there would be no mystery oh my God!!!

SERIOUSLY??k, cuz this guy called me up the other day, and we were tlkaing and he told me he loved me. now ive known him for 3 yrs now ( met him on vaca, kept in touch thru msn cuz he lives far), but ive always thought he saw me just as a friend, then i was shocked to hear him say, i love u . didnt believe it cuz he never says anything that would make me think he did.... lol

You want to know why? It's like this. If you compliment him and tell him things that he likes he keeps it on record for a long time. He lets you sit there and think about it and then when he finally tells you that he loves you or has feelings for you it's like you've been being fucked for the last 5 hours and have been holding back your cum and then you just explode in ..."happiness".

HAHAHA sadly, sadly, that sounds EXACTLY like the kind of mindframe he would have

so wait a second..... doe she love me tho, or is he jus manipulating me, or playing a game to get wut he wnats

It's little to do with self-esteem because it's based on previous history with women. We have to be skeptacle and sometimes manipulative to stay ahead of the game. But the ony phrase we don't use lightly is "I love you" and that is a moment you should believe. Scorpios are honest but not very open so it means a lot.

It might be low self-esteem if you don't believe in it but Scorpios are gullable and we do so I doubt it's low self-esteem but that's just my opinion. Not everyone's perfect like me.

wow....... i shoulda caame to this thread a long time ago.......okay, well he told me this last weekend, its been a week and i havent heard from him AT ALL... how come?

That's the simplest one to answer. It's the game of chase. After he knows and hears you say you like him then he will want more of it. He will want you to miss him so much to the point where you obsess and are completely devoted. My suggestion is to give it to him because he will give back 10 fold once he can trust you. Trust and love are different things. He may still be worried about your trust.

This guy of yours sounds like a year ago. I can relate to him.

sorry, he sounds like me* a year ago.

lol yah, but... i dont wanna be the girl who goes chaisng after the guy anymore... i always end up looking liek a fool..... if he wnats me to believe him, hes gotta show me he means it...

Which is where you two will come to an end. If you are both stubborn then know this. Scorpios are more stubborn and thick-headed than anyone will ever be and if we don't win then you just have to die. It's nobody's fault it's just the rules.

lol haha, fine, i will jsu be myself, and as myself i would show i missed him

but jus to let u kno, i dont think ne one is more stbborn than a taurus

Seriously though, if he sees you trying to make a fool out of yourself for the sake of him then you pass the test. It's all a test with Scorpio guys until you say "I do".

Taurus and Scorpio are similar in the possesion. They both want to own the other. Scorpio wants to own you and everything of you including your soul where as Taurus' like to own them as if they were a really nice end table.

lol its true.... but wiat a second, what do u mean by....
Seriously though, if he sees you trying to make a fool out of yourself for the sake of him then you pass the test. It's all a test with Scorpio guys until you say "I do".

To put it frankly, we have to know how commited you are. Absolutely everything has a test-like meaning to it until you get really seriously commited like a marriage. If this is the man that you're sold on then you just play by the rules of his game until he gets it out of his system. Once he knows for a fact and really trusts you then you will be as free as a bird with him, I guarantee it.

so basiclaly i should just continue on with being myself.... i dont have to hold back, or play the "hard to get" game...

That's right. And in the process of you being yourself you will look like a fool which he will be attracted to because you wont be a threat to him. Just remember to hold back once in a while. Every week or few days or so he calls then don't answer it. You still have to be a little bit of a player yourself.

lol fine, im counting on u!

Well if it doesn't work then would you like me to email you my address for an ass kicking?

lol, its okay i will just hunt u down on dxp

Oh I should tell you one more thing. It's true with a lot of guys but us especially. We like to be looked at as protectors so run around and pretend to be helpless from time to time.

my verbal abuse is muhc mor epowerful over the internet than in person.... i will jsut cry LOL

It will boost his ego a little and he might want to balance out the protection with a harmful bondage session so ya know... up to you

Lol! No don't cry that makes me not know what to do. Seriously, I would beg you to punch me instead.

harmful bondage session?

Yea this is around where I start to lose people. I havn't developed socially yet so you'll have to bear with me.

lol explain wut u mena by that, and u wont lose me

I mean that if you make him think he's the big protector then it will make you very sexually appealing. We tend to enjoy taking advantage of helpless little women. 😉

"Michael--->Seriously though, if he sees you trying to make a fool out of yourself for the sake of him then you pass the test. It's all a test with Scorpio guys until you say "I do"."

Not understanding why you would advise her to do this? Because what if this turns out to be the same case that my scorpio guy put me through? Wouldnt you agree that I would be a darn fool to continue on with him?

How the heck do you know when to "take a hint" and dissapear or continue on with Scorpio?

oh perfect then lol he alredya knows how gullible and naieve i am lol

Southern, I'm telling her what I would like in a woman seeing as though the things she's saying about him sound exactly like what I would do. The man you had was probably a bad apple but I don't know what he did to you.

YAY I FINALLY GOT A GOOD APPLE!!!!!!!!

Well he's not that edible but we are like apples. Sweet on the outside with broken black pieces of shit inside.

lol cmon, give urself more credit than THAT.....

"The man you had was probably a bad apple but I don't know what he did to you."

Well if you get bored, you'll have to click on my name and read some of my original post about him and give me some insight. ALL of my post have been about him and his mixed signals within the past year. But I'm not gonna to high-jack Lil-Ladies thread with my story.

Lil-Ladie....how long have you known him? Give somemore details about him and his treatment...

I just found out that her boyfriend and I have the same birthday. That was why I understood so well.

sorry Lil-Ladie....just went back and read that you've known him for three years.

3 years? Wow you really are a masochist.

"random"

yeah I can identify with that. Random in phone calls and text and instant messenger. Random period. The Scorpio that I was talking to would'nt sign on to his messenger for like a month. And in between those times, I would get a random text from him. And then he'd sign on for a couple of weeks and be online ALL DAY long. And would message me randomly. Then he'd sign off again for about a month. Just wierd...

HAHAHA YES, EXACTTLYYYYYYYYYYYYY, lol he dissapears for a good month, all the dman time, id ont get it!!!!!!!!!

For the thing about complements. I can tell if someone is being legitimate or phoney with their complements. Most times it is hard for me to reciprocate the feelings though. Its not just a Scorpio sort of thing to be sort of lame when receiving a complement. It is also something called too much positive reinforcement in a more broader insight. If someone receives too many complements. Then they'll eventually get annoyed if someone complements them later on in life. I find it though if there's characteristics you really like in another person. Then say it, not just as something nice to say, but also to make them feel better about them self. I get annoyed with complements, but its good to know I'm doing something worth a complement.

In my experience scorp men, don't take it lightly when they say they love you. However it is at the wierdest and unexpected times. In my situation the feeling wasn't mutual. I felt bad and wished he didn't tell me that again. I care for him deeply but the possessive obsession and he crossed a line or two made me realize I had to cut him off for both of our sake.

Bahh you women are just the same.

i kno how i will try to own him, but how will he try and own me?

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